Fed up with punishing your sub/slave with a simple whipping? Let’s spice things up a bit, in every sense of the word. Next time you're at the supermarket, pick up some ginger and try the ancient
Bondage is fun, for the top it brings control and for the bottom, complete surrender to their partner/s. There is far more to bondage than cuffs and rope, so Victoria Blisse introduces you to the
Cock stuffing, or urethral sounding, involves inserting objects into the urethra. Some people like to do it as part of medical-themed BDSM play; some people do it for solo fun. MadameZ gives you the
In impact play, you can use just your hand or an implement especially made to make you scream! Although some equipment can come across as a little foreboding, don’t worry, the secret to using
Whether it’s the edge of danger or the way it’s such an abject, absolute submission, a trampling fetish is pretty powerful. For submissive men, the idea of being literally crushed underfoot by a
New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a D/s relationship
For kinksters who want to explore BDSM knife play, safety is absolutely crucial - and any exploration needs to be safe, sane and consensual. We asked Cameryn Moore for her recommendations for
New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to explain things for you. This month, we look at the difference between edging and edge
Breath play - or erotic asphyxiation - can literally take your breath away, but what is it? What are some important safety matters to consider? We asked kinky author Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her
Can cutting off oxygen-rich blood to the brain really make your orgasms better?! We’ve asked author Sienna Saint-Cyr to share her personal experiences with us on choke play, asphyxiation, and orgasm
Subspace and subdrop are different for everyone. Some people never get there no matter how hard they try, and others seem to fall into it the moment they’re bound or gagged. We all have our own
How do sex and spirituality go together? If Victoria Blisse received a pound every time someone asked how she can be a Christian and write erotica too, she'll respond, 'I'd be very rich indeed.' Her
New to kink? Wonder just how other fetishists find each other? Or perhaps you've been isolated and need a hand up? Fetish writer, Kayla Lords helps you find your way! Read on to find out more about
Whether you're a newbie or a seasoned pro in the kink scene, it's always good to check in with how you're interacting with the community. We have some quick BDSM lifestyle tips to keep your kink life
Heterosexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian, trans, we're all familiar with these terms - but what about pansexual? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr takes a look.
Finding a place for pansexuality
Safety in BDSM is a big deal, and sexual torture doesn't have to hurt in the wrong way. Writer, Abi Brown gives you six tips you can start using right away to play
You may think that you're slightly perverted if you're attracted to leather or rubber and enjoy being tied up by someone dressed as a nun. However, you're an absolute saint when compared to people
CNC, or consensual non-consent, is a negotiated BDSM fantasy involving simulated force, resistance, or loss of control, acted out between adults who have fully agreed to the scenario in advance. The
A BDSM brat is a submissive who expresses their submission through playful defiance, teasing, and deliberate resistance as a consensual, negotiated form of power exchange. If quiet compliance sounds
Subdrop is the emotional and physical low that some submissives experience after BDSM play. It's a community term, not a clinical diagnosis, used by kinksters to describe the drop in mood, energy, or
A Pleasure Dom is a Dominant who controls through pleasure, presence, and real-time feedback rather than fear or strict protocol.
You'll spot this term in FET profiles, Forum threads, and
Corruption kink is a roleplay or power exchange dynamic where one person acts as the "corruptor" and the other plays the innocent or inexperienced character being "led astray." The fantasy centers on
Seattle's kink scene is very real, but it's not built around one flashy dungeon or a row of obvious BDSM clubs. Seattle does things a little differently. The scene here is shaped by community,
Rope bondage appears in many corners of the BDSM world, but few styles feel as mesmerizing as Kinbaku, the Japanese art of erotic rope tying.
Kinbaku is a Japanese rope bondage style within
In BDSM conversations, people often talk about sub drop. But there’s another emotional shift that deserves just as much attention: Dom drop.
Dom drop is the emotional or physical crash some