Valentine’s Day is here, and you can think of it in a few ways. It’s either a day to celebrate your love for your partner(s). Or it’s a capitalist, Hallmark holiday meant to guilt people into buying
Need some fresh ideas to take your DDlg relationship to the next level? Writer Princess E shares what her Daddy does to be the best caregiver in their DDlg relationship.
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Looking for some inspiration to help make your D/s relationship rules? We've got some kinky tips for you about where to start. Writer Abi Brown shares her shiny new guide to help you build your own
Are you wondering how to be a better submissive? Read on! Writer Abi Brown takes a look at five things you can do right now that will instantly improve your kinky
When a metamour comes on the scene, things can get complicated. But, as writer Abi Brown explains, your BDSM relationship doesn't have to suffer - it can thrive.
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Is it possible to have two or more very well-established and ongoing non-monogamous BDSM relationships simultaneously? Well, of course, yes! Writer Abi Brown is living exactly that and explains how
What is sexy food? Are there certain types of food that might heighten the enjoyment of a date? Yes! Let writer Sienna Saint-Cyr whet your appetite.
Sexy foods for main dishes
Are you a hopeless romantic looking for happily ever after? How about one of those independent types who desire a deep level of intimacy but without the ‘you complete me’ part? Writer Sienna
The problem with public displays of affection (PDA) is that we all have different opinions on what’s appropriate. When does a PDA kink become too much, asks writer Sienna
One is tasty, but two… delicious. BDSM triad play is something that many fantasise about, but balancing the attention given to more than one partner is trickier than many realise. Writer Sienna
What's your BDSM safeword? How often do you use it? If you don't use it often, why? Writer Abi Brown investigates five reasons why people don't use their BDSM safewords.
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How can punishment be a good thing? Submissive punishment is about the release, and it can bring positive changes in behaviour and emotional states, explains writer Sienna
Read a dirty book that got your juices flowing? Saw a certain movie and thought, “Oh yes, please tie me up!”? Then perhaps it's time to spice up your sex life with some kink. Writer Kayla Lords
Being a submissive means owning your strength. Only this way can there be a truly intense BDSM Total Power Exchange or TPE, argues writer Sienna Saint-Cyr.
When my Dom first told me he
Some people are happy to keep their submissive fantasy locked away in their head, but others can’t wait to get their freak on in real life. We give five ways to fulfil your kinkiest
What comes to mind when you think of safe words? Maybe the frantic screeching of, “Pineapple, congress, monkey, asshole!” as someone tries to remember it? Or is it just something “paranoid” kinky
In mainstream media, ideas around sexuality tend to be polarised into what’s acceptable and what’s weird, but we all know our kinky inclinations are more complicated than that. We explore what
One of the recurring ideas in The Sex Myth by Rachel Hills addresses our basic impulse to chase and encompass some idea of normal – in everyday life, dating, and particularly as it pertains to our
Does submission outside the bedroom work? And if so, what are the best non-sexual ways of serving your Dominant? Writer Kayla Lords shares her top tips to being a good submissive outside the
Foreplay is a vital part of any BDSM relationship, but we all need new, exciting ways to hear things up. Check out our best kinky foreplay tips and drive your play partner crazy.
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In a BDSM relationship, both the sub and Dom must know what they're getting into. We investigate the benefits and practicalities of a sex contract.
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There are so many preconceptions and judgments around sex. Just because you have lots of partners doesn't mean you're having meaningless sex, argues writer Abi Brown.
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Sex advice and stories are aplenty these days. Finding the stuff that pertains to the modern-day kinkster can be a challenge. While not all of the below podcasts are only about kink, they all explore
Finding kinksters on vanilla dating sites can be a bit tricky. Here are two of the most straightforward websites to use, and they just might show you that vanilla dating can be as kinky as you make
New to the kink scene, or want to move beyond vanilla sex? Dating sites like FetLife is a great start - but can seem daunting. Writer Stella Harris guides you through.
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