Personal details

Gender Man
Age 47
Status Single
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin England
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Sagittarius
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
I can speak English
German

About me

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Description

Im a Dom that likes to help a woman explore her dark side. I like rope play and restraints and obedience and to push a womans boundaries.

Fantasies

Not into extreme pain, but every sub needs a little spank to maintain obedience.
Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes that's what makes it interesting

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9Templar
icon-wio 9Templar wrote something in the forum
  • 03.09.2018 17:55:14
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
A sub training a Dom: is this really possible?

I got into the Fetish scene purely by accident 17 yrs ago, my Girlfriend at the time wanted kinky sex and i was clueless. So we worked on her fantasies and looking back they were quite vanilla, but we both enjoyed it so pushed our boundaries each time.
Growing up i was always told a man should Read more… never hit a woman, so you can imagine the problems i faced when she came home with a paddle and a flogger , it was a struggle to hit her hard as she required at first (2 yrs ago i could have quite happily punched her in the face but that`s a different story lol). Always work on a scale of 1-10 that`s the measure of pain each time a paddle/flogger hits.. He will learn how to control his swing and you will understand your pain threshold, if that`s what you are into.
I remember i enjoyed learning rope work, but my sausage fingers made me very clumsy to start with.. so be patient, but safety first never play without safety scissors and there are plenty of tutorials online.
Men are easily lead and think with their dick, with me i found the more Dominant i got with her the more sex i got and not just in the bedroom.She would often instigate the fun at first by telling me she had been a naughty girl and needed punishing, that was the green light .
Not everything will suit you both, but try it at least once. It`s all about experimenting and learning about your inner dark desires and having fun with them.
I could never go back to being vanilla, that`s why i`m here and i will never be submissive , nor do i want to and that`s all because a g/f showed me a different path and an alternative lifestyle

9Templar
icon-wio 9Templar wrote something in the forum
  • 29.05.2018 1:02:16
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
My Experience Online Finding A Dominant Man!

Our pleasure sweetie.. there are lots of people on here that are willing to help.
Not just dickheads

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icon-wio 9Templar wrote something in the forum
  • 28.05.2018 22:39:34
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
My Experience Online Finding A Dominant Man!

Unfortunately on any online site were a woman is searching for someone to for fill her darkest desires, there will be a swarm of wasp`s around the honeypot.. the fake Dom`s, the pic collectors, the misogynistic arseholes and the creeps you wouldn`t leave in a room with your granny.
Don`t let that Read more… put you off, a good Dom knows that the happier you are being submissive to him the more he will get out of you, so he will need to know what make`s you tick. The mind is a sexy place to play, so he must not twist it ,but delve in deep and explore the dark corners and build your confidence so you have the mental strength to play with your naughty demons without it screwing you up.
Templar x

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  • 24.05.2018 4:27:58
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  • Newark
  • Single
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  • 18.05.2018 16:08:30
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icon-wio 9Templar created a status update
  • 15.05.2018 22:32:46
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
Looking for a new sub, broke the last one...only kidding.Sometimes work and Family can get in the way of a good thing.So my ropes are now empty and need to feel the warmth of flesh. Templar xx
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  • 26.04.2018 1:04:33
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
When life and work gets in the way of a sub/Dom relationship... miss my little sub and will now have to start again, its a shame but also a challenge.
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icon-wio 9Templar wrote something in the forum
  • 06.04.2018 19:42:08
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
How to move on?

Sweetie this is a site for naughty people to play and no one has the right to judge you for your choices or lifestyle.. I know it`s a total cliche but only time will heal your emotional wounds.
There are genuine people on here that have lived life, loved and lost, but that`s life. It will kick you Read more… in the ribs just when you are the most happiest.
Get off the floor , straighten your dress and raise your chin because the game of life is not over yet.
Templar xx

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  • 01.01.2018 17:25:57
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
New years resolution.. never go to a vanilla party ever again. Never been so bored in my life
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icon-wio 9Templar has picked up their birthday gift
  • 27.11.2017 22:09:07
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
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  • 12.11.2017 12:44:16
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
A busy today with the new ropes washed and out to dry can`t wait to use them
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  • 29.10.2017 21:55:16
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  • 25.10.2017 0:58:24
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
Im a Dom that likes to help a woman explore her dark side. I like rope play and restraints and obedience and to push a womans boundaries.
9Templar
icon-wio 9Templar has updated their desires and fantasies info
  • 25.10.2017 0:58:24
  • Male (47)
  • Newark
  • Single
Not into extreme pain, but every sub needs a little spank to maintain obedience.
Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes that's what makes it interesting

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