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Description
An experienced Dom in that often finds himself in the role of a teacher or guide. Mostly into impact play, breath play, and bondage, but generally I thrive on full and wilfully given obedience
I also have a very nice toy box that I'd love to bring out when we play
Open and honest. Ask me anything
Dabble in writing erotica and speak passable French
175cm (5'9), 7'
Cut, shaved, vasectomized
Limits
None
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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50 SHADES OF FUCKERY
And that's why Edward Grey is a much better dom role model than Dorian Grey
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Question for doms
FET doesn't have an option to upload a photo in comments and that's a shame, because we had a session once and we invited a photographer to be there. He captured a wonderful photo of us doing affirmations before the session started and you can really see the connection
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Her Slave Name
Emma is not her birth name
Emma is her slave name
I named her the day we signed our contract
It's not a nickname
It's not a stage name
It's not a persona
It's the name she uses when she is most ***
It's the name she uses when she is the most honest
It's the name she uses when she is her true self
And like Emma herself, it is mine
Emma is her slave name
I named her the day we signed our contract
It's not a nickname
It's not a stage name
It's not a persona
It's the name she uses when she is most ***
It's the name she uses when she is the most honest
It's the name she uses when she is her true self
And like Emma herself, it is mine
Daddy9Plus Signed over and fully owned Signed over and fully owned
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· 15.11.2025 18:57:17
Hiring my slave as my PA was the best decision
You phrased it perfectly. It's an absolute privilege, and I'm not taking it for granted *at all*
Hiring my slave as my PA was the best decision
Hiring my slave as my PA was the best decision
One of the best decisions I ever made was to hire my slave as my personal assistant. It's only part time now, but as business grows and the circumstances allow it, this will definitely become a full time thing
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Let's start with the basics - I needed Read more…a personal assistant regardless of anything.
I just have too many balls in the air right now, both professionally and personally speaking, and they started to fall. Invoices that needed to be sent. Chasing clients for payments. Making sure all expenses are properly submitted and accounted for. Calling the phone company to cancel an account I haven't been using for months and never got to actually cancelling it. All administrative tasks that just needed doing and I didn't have time (or, if we're honest, the will) to do
So I hired my slave. For context, we are in a long-term TPE relationship so technically she didn't have a lot of choice in the matter, but I do pay her a fair salary for her work
Was she the most qualified PA in the market? No
In fact, she didn't have any prior experience with such work, and she herself didn't believe she can do it. But I knew better. All my instincts told me this is the right way to go, and so far I have proven myself right time and time again
So why was this the best decision?
Because:
Total Commitment - she is the perfect employee. No backtalk, no attitude, no slacking off. All tasks are executed promptly and with proper attention
Total (mutual) Trust - She literally trusts me with her life, and I trust that she has nothing but my best interest at heart. Moreover, she has been fully trained. She knows perfectly well that all actions have consequences. Good behavior brings good consequences, Bad behavior brings bad consequences
Eager to Learn - A very big part of our TPE journey is about self-growth. When I met her, she was a semi-androgynous timid little mouse, that didn't take very good care of herself, and didn't believe she deserves good things. If that person would have met the beautiful, sexy, strong woman she became, I'm not sure she would even recognize herself. She's taking every opportunity she can to learn. Anything I put in front of her is a challenge to overcome, and that she does in stride. No other employee would ever approach this kind of work with this level of enthusiasm
Eager to Please - she is a service sub by nature. My pleasure, my well being, my happiness, all are of the highest priority for her. This position puts her in the perfect place to actively affect and improve all of these
Unlikely to file a sexual harassment compliant with HR
In every relevant parameter, my life now is better for this choice, and I'll make it again in a heart beat
Anybody had similar experiences? Were there downsides too?
One of the best decisions I ever made was to hire my slave as my personal assistant. It's only part time now, but as business grows and the circumstances allow it, this will definitely become a full time thing
---
Let's start with the basics - I needed Read more…a personal assistant regardless of anything.
I just have too many balls in the air right now, both professionally and personally speaking, and they started to fall. Invoices that needed to be sent. Chasing clients for payments. Making sure all expenses are properly submitted and accounted for. Calling the phone company to cancel an account I haven't been using for months and never got to actually cancelling it. All administrative tasks that just needed doing and I didn't have time (or, if we're honest, the will) to do
So I hired my slave. For context, we are in a long-term TPE relationship so technically she didn't have a lot of choice in the matter, but I do pay her a fair salary for her work
Was she the most qualified PA in the market? No
In fact, she didn't have any prior experience with such work, and she herself didn't believe she can do it. But I knew better. All my instincts told me this is the right way to go, and so far I have proven myself right time and time again
So why was this the best decision?
Because:
Total Commitment - she is the perfect employee. No backtalk, no attitude, no slacking off. All tasks are executed promptly and with proper attention
Total (mutual) Trust - She literally trusts me with her life, and I trust that she has nothing but my best interest at heart. Moreover, she has been fully trained. She knows perfectly well that all actions have consequences. Good behavior brings good consequences, Bad behavior brings bad consequences
Eager to Learn - A very big part of our TPE journey is about self-growth. When I met her, she was a semi-androgynous timid little mouse, that didn't take very good care of herself, and didn't believe she deserves good things. If that person would have met the beautiful, sexy, strong woman she became, I'm not sure she would even recognize herself. She's taking every opportunity she can to learn. Anything I put in front of her is a challenge to overcome, and that she does in stride. No other employee would ever approach this kind of work with this level of enthusiasm
Eager to Please - she is a service sub by nature. My pleasure, my well being, my happiness, all are of the highest priority for her. This position puts her in the perfect place to actively affect and improve all of these
Unlikely to file a sexual harassment compliant with HR
In every relevant parameter, my life now is better for this choice, and I'll make it again in a heart beat
Anybody had similar experiences? Were there downsides too?
AngelusInMotion ➦AngelusInMotion quote Lady_King:❝Oh you can’t imagine how excited I am reading this. Bcs thats what I did too! I made my sub as a personal assistant. This is great bcs not only it makes them learn and expand as a person, they make our life way easier. The other good point is how it could make the Read more… connection closer thus more intimate. Not to mention bcs of their submissive nature—especially as OUR sub, they will keen to keep a good work, thrive and will do anything to minimize the chance of messing up bcs how much they need our approval and praise. I would say I am privilege to have a lifestyle that could support this. It’s a win win for both.
As a fellow dom, I’m happy for you.❞
You phrased it perfectly. It's an absolute privilege, and I'm not taking it for granted *at all*
As a fellow dom, I’m happy for you.❞
You phrased it perfectly. It's an absolute privilege, and I'm not taking it for granted *at all*
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· 08.11.2025 14:37:46
Lady_King Oh you can’t imagine how excited I am reading this. Bcs thats what I did too! I made my sub as a personal assistant. This is great bcs not only it makes them learn and expand as a person, they make our life way easier. The other good point is how it could make the connection closer thus more Read more… intimate. Not to mention bcs of their submissive nature—especially as OUR sub, they will keen to keep a good work, thrive and will do anything to minimize the chance of messing up bcs how much they need our approval and praise. I would say I am privilege to have a lifestyle that could support this. It’s a win win for both.
As a fellow dom, I’m happy for you.
As a fellow dom, I’m happy for you.
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· 08.11.2025 13:23:46
I'm currently sitting at my home office, listening to my wife and my sub having a friendly conversation about bio families vs. chosen families, and how we're trying to arrange a job opportunity for wife's boyfriend so he can come live closer to us
Did not expect this to be my life, but very happy Read more… it is
Did not expect this to be my life, but very happy Read more… it is
LikeAsahinaMika, KMENoNo
An experienced Dom in that often finds himself in the role of a teacher or guide. Mostly into impact play, breath play, and bondage, but generally I thrive on full and wilfully given obedience
I also have a very nice toy box that I'd love to bring out when we play
Open and honest. Ask me Read more… anything
Dabble in writing erotica and speak passable French
175cm (5'9), 7'
Cut, shaved, vasectomized
I also have a very nice toy box that I'd love to bring out when we play
Open and honest. Ask me Read more… anything
Dabble in writing erotica and speak passable French
175cm (5'9), 7'
Cut, shaved, vasectomized
An experienced Dom in that often finds himself in the role of a teacher or guide. Mostly into impact play, breath play, and bondage, but generally I thrive on full and wilfully given obedience
I also have a very nice toy box that I'd love to bring out when we play
Open and honest. Ask me Read more… anything
Dabble in writing erotica and speak passable French
175cm (5'9), 7'
Cut, shaved, vasectomized
I also have a very nice toy box that I'd love to bring out when we play
Open and honest. Ask me Read more… anything
Dabble in writing erotica and speak passable French
175cm (5'9), 7'
Cut, shaved, vasectomized
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