An LD is like any relationship in that it will work out as long as the 2 parties want it to and are committed to seeing it through even when things get rough. One of the greatest loves of my life was LD. I still to this day lament it. It does add an extra element of stress onto a relationship Read more… obviously and the 2 parties will have to decide if that added stress (not to mention expense) is feasible long term. The question for me is how far away are you talking?

I think you'll get a lot of different answers here. Most of us guys all have our own preferences which is based on many different things. IMO, guys really like watching our dicks "disappear." There's a psychological aspect to that combined with the way it physically feels. Guys like psychological Read more… stimulation too when it comes to this (sex in general) so make sure not to simply focus on the physical.

The answer is entirely based on how respectful do you want to be in ending it. The gentlemanly thing to do is to simply be honest and let them know you aren't compatible and wish them the best IMO. Ghosting is mentally and emotionally destructive for the other person generally which can have long Read more… lasting effects as they try to move forward and attempt to develop something with someone else. (This obviously depends on how long you've been talking of course) Are there situations where ghosting might be the answer? Yes.
"Be nice, until it's time to not be nice"

Ehh.. the obedience part comes from trust and a willingness to give herself over. The sub knowing she's in good hands and feels comfortable to let go is the Dom's job to show her she can. Too many "Dom's" think a sub is someone you can just take whether she likes it or not and that you are now free Read more… to abuse her anyway you like. I've talked to too many girls on here who've been in past relationships with "Dom's" and it was nothing but brutal abuse. Some of those girls were beaten and raped but told this is how this dynamic works and these girls were shamed if they dare tell this "Dom" that it hurts and they don't like it. Loislane007 what this person said to you and how it's made you question yourself is exactly what these guys did to these girls. If anyone tells you things like that they aren't "Dom's" they're abusers. I had a girl tell me her "Dom" told her that she had to earn safe words and only good girls got them and she wasn't a good girl so she couldn't have safe words. Your submission is YOUR CHOICE to give to someone you TRUST. Do NOT ever think that if you don't give it away to anyone that demands it that you are a terrible sub that is not true and don't let anyone shame you into doin anything you don't want to do.

Yep that describes me pretty accurately. Definitely needs to be a thing.