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Gender Man
Age 43
Status Single
Height 175cm
Weight 88kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Middle
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin England
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac signs Sagittarius
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
I can speak English
German
Polish

About me

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Description

Hi...My name is Richard...I have a very gentle nature....easy to talk to....understanding and get on alot better with females than males....I am very young in heart and do not look my age....Thank you Mum....!....One relationship.....I fell in love with a women I used to see every day in Purley...Our eyes always met....when passing by....Purely by chance...having a Lunch time meal.....she walked in....Started chatting...found out she was in a relationship with another woman...Could not get her out of my mind....Forward wind... one evening two close female friends and alot of wine.Suggestion from them.......Change your look...I did...subtle.....but it worked...it brought out a Feminine side of me that I never knew I had.....When I used to go clubbing I had a very Androgynous look and now that desire has come back....fond memories.....but...a more grown up and Stylish version and more subtle....I love it....Lack alot of confidence in going out locally.....Never wore a dress and do not think Iwould...!....Women say that I have developed a style which is stylish.....We were engaged and due to be married...sadly ...she was killed by a drunk driver .a long time ago...I have a lovely home....a beautiful 3 year old King Charles Cavalier.....and am looking for friendship..with kinky benefits and a love of my kinks....I honestly connect really well with females and that is really due to the relationship I had...
I love cooking....looking after my Garden.....Photograhy...Barbercues at home....Movies...at home.....Listening to Music....I was brought up on Pink Floyd...that era...although I have varied tastes....I also enjoy playing Backgammon....but have not played for a very long time..! really miss female company and would love to meet someone locally who would make me feel comfortable with how my relationship changed my life...I do not want to change sex...or anything like that...but I am finding it a real struggle to cope with the feminine side that my previous relationship brought out in me...You will feel very comfortable talking to me about...Clothes...Make up...Hair
Manicures...Etc....I do not know why....But I always seem to make a connection with females...even though on first meeting there is a nervousness as to whether I am genuine...and not hiding anything..Understandable....My childhood friends are spread all over the world....and the only contact i have is through the internet...Yes ...I am lonely....and really miss female company...I have been as honest as I can be....and I do not think i have missed anything out,...If I have...I will try to include it as I fill in all the info..
All I will add iat this moment is that my Fiancee to be had quite a few items from her relationship....that she said would go a long way to introducing me to understanding what she enjoyed...in our developing relationship..that she would love me to Try and Wear at home...never got to that stage...Apart from a pair of 6.5 pink ballet pointe shoes she bought for me ..which I have worn a few times...I still kept a few other items..which I have never tried..!
She wanted to call me Cassie....I do not know how much you know about mac computers and Siri...but whenever I speak to my computer she now calls me Cassie...!..It has a nice ring to it..........I am about 5 foot 8 inches tall...
getting back...very quickly to being slim....not overweight...but not happy with my weight.....Now. just over 13...stone...Green eyes....very pretty feet....more female than male...I am determined to get back to a weight I was always happy with...about 10 to 11 stone...!...I do have a male side to me as well...which I am happy with....but how to combine both Female and Male traits is something I am really struggling with...Do I call myself Richard Or Cassie...Up to you..Once I activate my account please keep on coming back as i will update and explain things better..!.Never done anything like this before...!...I love the feel of soft fabrics ...have a very stylish dress sense...not my opinion but comments from my
hair stylist first visit.......the salon where I had my eyes done...and even from the nail salonn where I have my nails done.....the comments did take me by surprise...but it made me realise that life is too short..!...and now...what lies ahead...?...I feel as if I have alot of catching up to do...!...I do smoke...Not alot and only in the Garden..
but I would love to give up..especially for a female....

Fantasies

I do not really know as I never got the chance to find out...All I can i can say is that she had a desire to have me helpless in her control.She really had a love of Corsets.......but very gentle in her approach.....I have to admit that I am still very curious
.....and want to find out how it feels. to be helpless wearing a very restrictive hobble corset...?....Friendship is really very important to me and an understanding of how difficult it is for me to cope with a feminine side to me that my previous relationship...has brought to the surface...I have a very curious nature...and quite a few fantasies..
which are a result of drinking too much wine with my fiancee...
Kinky...Most definitely....Daring....Worryingly so...!.......
You know the saying....Anticipation can sometimes be better than the event....It is something I would love to find out if it is really true...I would really hope that the pleasure is better than the anticipation..!
I would like to make it very clear that although i have mentioned my fiancee quite a few times ...it is only because of what it brought out in me ...and of what I could of found out about what made me feel sexy and sensual..
The best way I can explain it ...it was to be an introduction to a very Kinky world...!...Something I would now love to explore and enjoy...with the right female...!.... Having my eyelashes ...eyebrows etc... done..French manicure as well....Hair ....is left up to the imagination of a very young talented female stylist....so you will have to wait for a photo....Please see the rest of my profile....before making a decision..!

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Cassie34
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  • 16.05.2018 0:13:32
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  • Cassie34
Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 15.05.2018 17:50:09
  • Male (43)
  • London
  • Single
Cannot find my original post ..maybe too old..An update..

Thank you for showing an interest.!..I wish I could tell you more , but I had to sign and agree to a confidentially agreement. All I can tell you without breaking the agreement is to use your imagination and think of your deepest wildest fantasies being played out.!.I have never been so nervous and Read more… apprehensive of what is to come...I have now reached the age where escorts of my age are no longer used..!..I was very privileged to be part of this very secretive world and will miss it an awful lot...!..Unless there are very specific requests for me to act as an escort . this event is a sort of thank you and for me to admit and play out my own deepest fantasies...Anything goes ..but the limits are pretty much the same as what is allowed to be discussed on this website.!...Although no cameras or smart phones etc were allowed at any of the events...there were authorised photographers who were allowed to take photos..I have been told that I will get a personalised Album of all my clients...all the events that I was involved in , photos of me locked up in various bondage items..etc...If my mum was to come across this album...I would be better off on another planet..!...My flight departs on 10.45 pm..10 days of heaven or Hell.!...Cassie

Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 14.05.2018 9:09:32
  • London
Cannot find my original post ..maybe too old..An update..
For those of you who follow or read my posts....I am off to Iceland for two weeks as a thank you for being their most asked for escort to female only Kinky events...I have been told to expect my deepest fantasies to be fulfilled ...2 or possibly 3 weeks of heaven or hell is what I am faced Read more…with..!....Do I want to go , no , only because I know that they are true to what they practise...I have seen it all..!...But will I...yes...nothing is going to stop me from coming back home with memories that will excite me every time I think about what `I went through.!....Cassie
Like3SumQueen, Owlgirl · 2 Replies
John495
John495 Hello Hello
Like · 15.05.2018 18:53:29
Cassie34
Cassie34 Thank you for showing an interest.!..I wish I could tell you more , but I had to sign and agree to a confidentially agreement. All I can tell you without breaking the agreement is to use your imagination and think of your deepest wildest fantasies being played out.!.I have never been so nervous and Read more… apprehensive of what is to come...I have now reached the age where escorts of my age are no longer used..!..I was very privileged to be part of this very secretive world and will miss it an awful lot...!..Unless there are very specific requests for me to act as an escort . this event is a sort of thank you and for me to admit and play out my own deepest fantasies...Anything goes ..but the limits are pretty much the same as what is allowed to be discussed on this website.!...Although no cameras or smart phones etc were allowed at any of the events...there were authorised photographers who were allowed to take photos..I have been told that I will get a personalised Album of all my clients...all the events that I was involved in , photos of me locked up in various bondage items..etc...If my mum was to come across this album...I would be better off on another planet..!...My flight departs on 10.45 pm..10 days of heaven or Hell.!...Cassie
Like · 15.05.2018 17:50:09
Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 13.05.2018 20:41:53
  • Male (43)
  • London
  • Single
Your perfect bondage item or set up...

Interesting..You have given me another idea for a self getting into and lockable sleep sack...needs alot of thought , but it will keep me awake for ages....I need to sleep so please do NOT give me any more ideas..Cassie

Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 created a topic in Technical Stuff
  • 27.04.2018 9:44:59
  • London
moderators...!
They have a really difficult time in deciding what posts..replies are acceptable....I have had a few issues which got to me and eventually were resolved....I can now understand how the system works and even though I still make mistakes...I can appreciate how difficult the moderators responsibility Read more…is ..!...I would like it known that Serena has been absolutely amazing in coping with my very provocative posts and complaints....I know I push the boundaries of what is acceptable which has resulted in penalty points....but...there will come a time when what is not acceptable now will become acceptable in the future ...Cassie...
Likeserenaa · 2 Replies
Cassie34
Cassie34 I hope I can explain this well.!..It is such a shame that well intended topics or even replies can be used by members who are looking for a way to get around the guide lines...It spoils it for all the members who post topics or refrain from posting topics which in all fairness could lead to very Read more… interesting and funny threads...It is sad that just a few members who are looking for a way to fulfil their fantasies ...beyond the acceptance off what is allowed within this website can have such an unwanted influence of how moderators have to view every topic or reply..!..Do I have a solution...I wish I did..!..Cassie
Likeserenaa · 27.04.2018 14:21:31
serenaa
serenaa Thank you Cassie! :) Thank you Cassie! :)
LikeCassie34, Katiefox · 27.04.2018 11:37:00
Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 26.04.2018 18:30:10
  • Male (43)
  • London
  • Single
Advice on introducing dom fantasies into the bedroom

All I can say is to use your instinct...be careful and see how your partner reacts ..a softly ,softly approach ..can work wonders....work on your partners curiosity..Remember what intrigues her when you visit a store...it may not be obvious straight away..but , I am sure you will get a few Read more… hints...It might be I wonder what it would be like etc...Listen to your partner...take it one step at a time..!..Walking into a store can be an over whelming experience..!...Most important...have fun..!..I remember when I walked into a Skin two shop...so nervous...but the staff made it so welcoming...need I say more..!...

Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 26.04.2018 16:48:23
  • Male (43)
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  • Single
Advice on introducing dom fantasies into the bedroom

Not alot to add....actually nothing....really good advice....I wish I had that advice years ago.!...Cassie

Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 21.04.2018 13:37:08
  • Male (43)
  • London
  • Single
Supporting a Sub with mental and emotional scars

Hi...May I add to this topic as it is very close to my heart..I was subjected to abuse when I was alot younger...No choice....Scared to talk to anyone...I was left alone with my own confused thoughts...Was what I was going through...Normal...part of growing up...I had no idea.! It changed my Read more… life..affects me to this day...Being in a relationship , whether Dom or Sub..vice versa , an understanding and patience with ones partner is so important. If you really care about your blossoming relationship , the most important thing you can do is to discover , what is not easy , a way of encouraging your partner to open up...it is so hard to do...it is even harder for your partner !!..It really comes down one thing only..Trust..When one opens up emotionally , one feels very vulnerable..Use your instinct as to how to proceed , and do NOT go by what your personal desires are . I spent 4 years going through specialist psychotherapy , once weekly..it took nearly 3 years to really open up...To be honest..I think that if she was part of the fetish scene , I do not think it would of taken that long..NO ONE can really understand what it is like to have emotional and mental scars because of ones past unless they have been through the same or something similar...that is so important to remember.! On a personal note..after all this time , even though time is supposed to be a great healer , I panic when any male touches me , even as a friendly or comforting gesture.Making and achieving that breakthrough is something that I have to yet experience..I mean with a partner.!..One day..Cassie

Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 09.04.2018 10:52:59
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  • London
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Locked up in an Chocolate Easter egg

I think I will have to find out if she was ill....I would imagine so , I know I would be to!..

Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 wrote something in the forum
  • 06.04.2018 15:42:46
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Locked up in an Chocolate Easter egg

You know what..I did find out that she had to wear a protective suit and that she was also standing...so I would guess that the layers of chocolate were thinner...14 hours was what the organisers thought it would take for enough chocolate to be licked or nibbled away to allow her to "escape"...It Read more… took only 5 hours...she was sponsored and at the end of the party...the amount raised was 215, 000 Euros...I am a little bit wary of mentioning what the event was raising funds for..so I am hoping that a moderator will, if needed rephrase the following....it was to do with providing counselling and helping young vunerable youngsters who were subject to physical and sexual abuse..So close to my heart...I think you can guess why. By the way , she has a love of milk chocolate...was very unhappy that she had to be enclosed in dark chocolate.!...But to raise that amount of money is just wonderful..!..Whether she has been put of chocolate for the rest of her kinky life , only she knows...Cassie

Cassie34
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  • 05.04.2018 0:21:21
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Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 created a topic in Online Munch
  • 04.04.2018 19:57:40
  • London
How to express ones self in a topic or reply...
I find it alot easier to discuss or give an opinion or advice on a one two one personal level...face to face or even over the telephone...Even though I have a top grade in English Language , I really struggle to get my reply or even topic expressed in such a way that it is clear for everyone one Read more…to understand...I have had few really polite messages from moderators that they could not always fully understand the point I was trying to make...Is it just me...or has it been such a long time since getting my A level..that I have forgotten the basics in how to express myself clearly...When posting a Topic or reply..I type what is going through my mind at that time...not thinking about how it comes across....Any suggestions how to improve or come across in a more understandable way...My Mum..knows that I belong to this website....and I mentioned this problem to her when I had a few too many glasses of Southern Comfort...and she ...as a Mum who always seems to know what advice to give , said that I should write whatever I want to post on paper..read it through a few times , and then post it...Makes sense , but I feel so silly...after all I am not a teenager...but an Adult...and yet...Does Mum really know best....A really embarrassing topic from my point of view to post...but any differing advice , well even if you agree with my Mum , would be welcome..Cassie
Cassie34
Cassie34 I know exactly what you mean..being passionate about something that is close to ones heart , it is all to easy to change direction within the topic , reply posted...One can get very wound up and being of an emotional nature , does not help either.! I know exactly what you mean..being passionate about something that is close to ones heart , it is all to easy to change direction within the topic , reply posted...One can get very wound up and being of an emotional nature , does not help either.!
Like · 23.04.2018 17:11:02
Rickmeister I find it always best to speak your mind .but maybe like me you sometimes find yourself repeating things you have already covered or going of topic a little bit and if its something you are passionate about maybe you go on a bit too much i know i do maybe its best to keep things short and sweet (difficult sometimes though) i also think its easier face to face ,technology gets in the way unfortunately I find it always best to speak your mind .but maybe like me you sometimes find yourself repeating things you have already covered or going of topic a little bit and if its something you are passionate about maybe you go on a bit too much i know i do maybe its best to keep things short and sweet (difficult sometimes though) i also think its easier face to face ,technology gets in the way unfortunately
LikeCassie34 · 23.04.2018 11:24:10
Cassie34
Cassie34 Wel, it is not going to be me to tell you to keep up with progress as I completely agree with everything you have mentioned in your reply !.It is sad that we seem to be losing the warmth that is , or was associated with meeting friends and , as you put so nicely...hearing a giggle or seeing Read more… someones reaction...even to the extent of giving someone a hug...all that is missing when texting or sending an e-mail . It just comes across as official , business like ..!.I really do like your reply..Keep it up..Cassie
Like · 06.04.2018 23:01:26
Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 created a topic in Technical Stuff
  • 03.04.2018 18:23:30
  • London
Security settings...
Can ones own security settings override or prevent from messages from members from this website being able to send messages to me for me to read..Any advice would be really welcome , I use Macs...and have Mackeeper installed ...a very comprehensive and incredibly sophisticated security and filtering system...Could that be the problem..Cassie
Cassie34
Cassie34 thanks...Cassie thanks...Cassie
Like · 04.04.2018 22:49:29
VictoriaBlisse
VictoriaBlisse Hi Cassie, it's probably best to submit a ticket to support, they'll be able to look into this, it seems it mgiht be a technical blip of some kind. Hi Cassie, it's probably best to submit a ticket to support, they'll be able to look into this, it seems it mgiht be a technical blip of some kind.
Like · 04.04.2018 22:21:29
Cassie34
Cassie34 Hope this is picked up by a moderator....All my filters in message settings are showing green..activated...I have ticked every option about allowing all members and most age groups to send me messages...The only option I have not ticked is the option for the Chat Room...I have no one in my ignore Read more… list....I have been through everything I can think of..I received a Hello through this post because this member could not send me a message...I am at my wits end...A massive plea for help...The only messages I seem to be able to receive from other members is if I have made first contact...Cassie
Like · 04.04.2018 17:42:58
Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 03.04.2018 18:13:49
  • London
Locked up in an Chocolate Easter egg
it was a very special party that I would normally escort a Female to...in Germany..not able to go..other commitments...But , I can tell you what it involved.....A female being lowered into a really big Vat , 4 sections that locked together....shaped like an Easter egg...Full of Chocolate that was Read more…setting....All that showed was her neck and Head...Nothing she could do....Had to wait until all the guests had either licked or chipped away at the Chocolate before she was free...It was for a Charity...don't know which one...I was told it was about 14 hours before she was free..!....Apparently , raised a massive amount of money....wish I was able to attend!
Who else would like to be trapped in chocolate or who'd like to eat the chocolate to help the person escape?
..Cassie
LikeJonnycornish · 5 Replies
Cassie34
Cassie34 I think I will have to find out if she was ill....I would imagine so , I know I would be to!.. I think I will have to find out if she was ill....I would imagine so , I know I would be to!..
Like · 09.04.2018 10:52:59
Charmaine
Charmaine wow that sounds awesome an princess i understand why u say its close to your heart. id love to eat it. couldnt stay in it as smell would make me ill after a bit wow that sounds awesome an princess i understand why u say its close to your heart. id love to eat it. couldnt stay in it as smell would make me ill after a bit
Like · 09.04.2018 3:51:53
Cassie34
Cassie34 You know what..I did find out that she had to wear a protective suit and that she was also standing...so I would guess that the layers of chocolate were thinner...14 hours was what the organisers thought it would take for enough chocolate to be licked or nibbled away to allow her to "escape"...It Read more… took only 5 hours...she was sponsored and at the end of the party...the amount raised was 215, 000 Euros...I am a little bit wary of mentioning what the event was raising funds for..so I am hoping that a moderator will, if needed rephrase the following....it was to do with providing counselling and helping young vunerable youngsters who were subject to physical and sexual abuse..So close to my heart...I think you can guess why. By the way , she has a love of milk chocolate...was very unhappy that she had to be enclosed in dark chocolate.!...But to raise that amount of money is just wonderful..!..Whether she has been put of chocolate for the rest of her kinky life , only she knows...Cassie
Like · 06.04.2018 15:42:46
Cassie34
icon-wio Cassie34 created a topic in Technical Stuff
  • 03.04.2018 18:07:10
  • London
Penalty points...
Received 3. for something ...Apart from off Topic..or unclear ..not enough text...was the e-mail I received from Fetish.com...but nothing through the messaging system....I cannot find any info about which topic they are referring to..!...I do try to follow the guide lines..but there is alot to Read more…remember...and. take into account.I wish they would notify a member if something is not quite acceptable...before getting points...More often than not it is a honest mistake and it is not fair....All I know is I now have 3 points...All it seems to take is one or two words which are not allowed...surely the moderators can use common sense and rephrase something which is a really good topic..but phrased in the wrong way.!..Choosing how to describe something is not always that simple...if one wants to create a healthy discussion...Does one gets points which the moderators are not aware of , if they decide to make an alteration to a topic headline..or to one or two words within any post..!I am a really upset member , who really thinks about what topics to post...and I post topics which are close to my heart...Sometimes one has no choice ,or cannot think of another way to explain something...I think I have about 14 topics in my notebook...will never post...even though they are so relevant to this website...What do I do...I know that if I post the topics or have a helpful reply to someones asking for help or advice..I am taking a risk...Am I going to continue taking a chance to be able to help , if I can , or advise...or post a topic...worrying that I will get points...and stand to lose contact with this website for however long the points last for.!..use your common sense and judgement...Interpret a Topic and replies in the context of what has been posted...and how difficult it can be...!..When I first joined...I was so scared..it took me ages to build up my courage to post my first topic and reply ..it was a reply to a particular topic by another member that gave me the courage to do that...I remember that about an hour later , the reply by that same member..had been deleted....I am not going to say whether it was a male or female..but if it was not for that reply to a topic ..Would I still be here...or in A spiritual world...I think you can guess..That one reply that made all the difference , that was deleted for whatever reason...is why I am still alive.!..Have you the Nerve to allow this...or are you going to edit it again and give me more points....I have not broken any guidelines in this post..!..Cassie...What I do strongly agree with , is that to mention any age under 18 should not be allowed....To mention a young child , should not be allowed..or any reference to Animals...But...again...Use your judgement how any reference to an animal is mentioned....Do not offend pet lovers...I have learnt from very helpful messages from two moderators in particicular Serena and VB...what is allowed etc...but I still make mistakes....When one is writing something that is close to ones heart it is so easy to forget the guidelines...Emotions take over and a desire to open up really does take over as well..Please take that into account...As I discovered , this website is not only about being able to discuss things ..but it is also a way of preventing desperate members from taking their own lives...I am still here...and I have to thank Fetish.com for that..!..Think about what I have mentioned in this topic and post...Cassie...
Cassie34
Cassie34 Yes it does...Thanks...I do not know whether you edited these posts etc....but you have gone along way in my esteem by allowing these posts...A massive thank you..Cassie Yes it does...Thanks...I do not know whether you edited these posts etc....but you have gone along way in my esteem by allowing these posts...A massive thank you..Cassie
Like · 04.04.2018 19:35:59
VictoriaBlisse
VictoriaBlisse Thank you for your feedback. Moderators do regularly discuss what to do with certain topics/replies before doing anything. There are clear guidelines to follow but as with everything, there are grey areas. These are discussed between the whole team until a joint decision is come too.
Having a Read more… topic not approved is not the end of the world! Often their will be hints of how to re-write it so you can post it included in the warning. If a person feels strongly against the penalty points awarded they can contact customer support to have the decision considered.
I hope that helps!
LikeCassie34 · 03.04.2018 18:11:35
Cassie34
Cassie34 An apology...sometimes things get to you...We chatted over a dinner party last night and friends read the post I feel awkward about...It is close to my heart and I really do feel I have issues to be thought and considered by those who moderate our topics and posts...In some ways maybe I wish I had Read more… a way or posting or sending these posts without it being mentioned on a Forum...I hope this question in 2 parts will be answered , because I feel it would make understanding how this website works etc...My first question is....Do moderators have some leeway in deciding what can be allowed as a Topic or post...Why...because one moderator for whatever reason may look at a post etc from a different angle or viewpoint...No two individuals think exactly alike...What may be deemed suitable by one moderator , another may differ in his or her interpretation of the same Topic or post...How is what to allow decided...My second Question..is about Guidelines....Looking through what interested me within the Guide lines..is this...Maybe I have misunderstood what I read...but it seems that any topic or reply is supposed to generate a discussion to be approved...When one comes across a post where a member is asking for help or advice....How does one approach that...Does any advice from first hand experience or suggestions have to fulfil your criteria of encouraging discussion..I know from my own past situation that real advice and help is so difficult to get..!...Members can offer their own opinions and suggestions..but nothing can replace the experience of living through the same thing..!...I do agree that Topics and Replies have to be judged on the value of the contribution and how relevant the reply is , but there are occasions where a member is really desperate for help and advice with no one else to turn to..I honestly think and believe that in those situations , being able to help , to offer real life solutions from ones own personal conflicts , whether it generates a discussion or not...hopefully at some stage it will...is more important than ..Whether you allow this or my previous related posts..Please accept my apologies...No offence was intended in any way , but as in your guidelines , to encourage an honest and frank discussion not only between members...but moderators etc...I have calmed down , but I believe I have raised a few issues that deserve to be really thought about..Maybe some sort of separate section within the Forum purely for these types of posts....This is a suggestion from one of my friends...A member would have to register to be able to post any plea for help , maybe a small fee as well...and a description of what help and advice they are looking for...to join this section of the Forum...It would be on a much more personal level...and have nothing to do with kinks etc...but on a level of coming to terms with who one is..how to cope with what is going through ones mind....where to get help and one to one support..There is NOT a single website associated with our lifestyle that offers anything close to what I have mentioned...think of this section as a reference for help..advice ...where to go...organisations that specialise in helping us..What I am thinking , is that if the fee is high enough , it would deter those who would waste your and members time and allow this section to concentrate on members real personal problems..Cassie
Like · 01.04.2018 23:08:18