About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
- Cybersex
Description
Hey there,
Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read my profile. My names cato and I'm open-minded, clean, and respectful. I’m here to connect with like-minded people and make some genuine friends.
Ideally, I’d love to find a regular partner or couple for something ongoing, real, and potentially long-term. That said, I’m also open to more occasional meetups if that suits us both. I'm often between noth wales and greater manchester so ideally near to either.
I lean dominant by nature. I enjoy giving pleasure, teasing, edging, and taking control in ways that are sensual, attentive, and deliberate. Although very keen to explore a domme/sub dynamic with the right person.
With a partner, I’m very much a pleaser. I get a lot from giving, whether it’s through oral, toys, sensual touch, edging, or denial. Passion and chemistry matter to me. I’d always choose a slow build, full of tension and fire, over something forgettable and rushed.
Although, to be honest, I'm fairly open to trying most things, and my kinks and likes are not limited to those within this description or choices made on the site.
Outside of kink, I’m educated, professional, and well-travelled. I value trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Discretion is also very important to me, and I always return the same.
If you’d like to chat, share ideas, or see if there's a connection, feel free to reach out. No pressure, no expectations. Just open conversation and maybe something fun or meaningful if it clicks.
Peace and kink,
Cato xxx
Limits
, , vomit, permanent marking are big no-no's for me. As well as the other general no-nos
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Hook
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Anal Plugs
- Blindfolds
- Ball Crusher
- BDSM
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Shackles
- Bondage Rope
- Chastity
- Chastity Belt
- Collar & Leash
- Cuddling
- Dildos
- Discipline
- Domination
- Double Penetration
- Threesomes
- Edgeplay
- Edging
- Exhibitionism
- Facesitting
- Female Domination
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- FFM Threesome
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Foreplay
- Foot Fetish
- Gags
- Gangbang
- Genital Torture (Active)
- Group Sex
- Handjobs
- Humiliation
- Kamasutra
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes
- Masks
- Masochism
- Massage
- Masturbation
- MMF Threesome
- Muscle Worship
- Nudism
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Pegging
- Cock Ring
- Prostate Massager
- Role Play
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex Parties
- Shower Sex
- Sex Toys
- Sex Swing
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Spreader Bar
- Strap-on
- Submission
- Testicular Bondage
- Trampling
- Subservience
- Vibrators
- Voyeurism
- Wax Play
Fetish.com gives you…
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Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read my profile. My names cato and I'm open-minded, clean, and respectful. I’m here to connect with like-minded people and make some genuine friends.
Ideally, I’d love to find a regular partner or couple for something ongoing, real, and Read more… potentially long-term. That said, I’m also open to more occasional meetups if that suits us both. I'm often between noth wales and greater manchester so ideally near to either.
I lean dominant by nature. I enjoy giving pleasure, teasing, edging, and taking control in ways that are sensual, attentive, and deliberate. Although very keen to explore a domme/sub dynamic with the right person.
With a partner, I’m very much a pleaser. I get a lot from giving, whether it’s through oral, toys, sensual touch, edging, or denial. Passion and chemistry matter to me. I’d always choose a slow build, full of tension and fire, over something forgettable and rushed.
Although, to be honest, I'm fairly open to trying most things, and my kinks and likes are not limited to those within this description or choices made on the site.
Outside of kink, I’m educated, professional, and well-travelled. I value trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Discretion is also very important to me, and I always return the same.
If you’d like to chat, share ideas, or see if there's a connection, feel free to reach out. No pressure, no expectations. Just open conversation and maybe something fun or meaningful if it clicks.
Peace and kink,
Cato xxx
I think it's the confusion with what a dom is, or the perception it's all about control and dominance. Even more so the distorted idea from a dom pespective rhat masculinity is just about power and not the care and affection that men should also be able to give. Even when meeting someone recently Read more… there should always be a level of intimacy, care and affection from my own point of view. But then again there are also many women dont want this so there is no 'one size fits all' and it can be difficult to navigate.
It can feel as deep and devastating as a bereavement losing such an intimate connection.
Fly free phoenix and burn brighter!
Really appreciate you sharing your thoughts. It’s always great to hear the perspective of an experienced Domme, especially one who clearly understands the deeper layers of this kind of play. There’s something powerful in how you describe that mix of control, subtlety, and everyday intensity. Loved Read more… reading it.
Cock rings, plugs, ball stretchers, cages. Call it genital jewellery, hardware, accessories... whatever the label, they Read more…all tap into the same thing for me: sensation, presence, and control.
It’s not always about being hard. Sometimes it’s the opposite. Being denied, being contained, being aware. A steel ring hugging tight beneath your clothes. A plug that makes every movement feel deliberate. A stretcher that swings slightly when you walk. These are the kinds of things that make you feel your body in ways you usually don’t.
And there’s something undeniably erotic about carrying that feeling around quietly in public. Nobody knows. But you know.
For me, it’s part sensual play, part mental shift. Even when I’m alone, it changes how I feel. Sometimes I wear them for the physical pleasure, other times for the psychological edge. And sometimes just because it makes me feel owned. By someone, or even just by the kink itself.
There’s also a ritual to it. Warming the steel, adjusting the fit, cleaning, choosing the right piece for the moment. It’s personal, private, and quietly arousing.
Maybe it’s a kink. Maybe it’s a mindset. Either way, the weight, feeling, secrecy all keep me wanting to wear something.
What are your thoughts and feelings? Do you wear anything? Tell me more.
I also love when I tell a sub to lock themselves up or wear a butt plug, knowing that it is giving them an amazing feeling during their day, a twinkle in their eye, an internal smile to themselves when they are doing the mundane. To be able to instruct someone to do something and give them that feeling in their life is fantastic! Depends on the motivation of the sub but some will get a huge kick from having a collar on, a stretcher on, a humbler, an anal plug attached to a collar under their clothes…. They love that they’re being made to wear these things. It’s so much fun!!!❞
Really appreciate you sharing your thoughts. It’s always great to hear the perspective of an experienced Domme, especially one who clearly understands the deeper layers of this kind of play. There’s something powerful in how you describe that mix of control, subtlety, and everyday intensity. Loved reading it.
I also love when I tell a sub to lock themselves up or wear a butt plug, knowing that it is giving them an amazing feeling during their day, a twinkle in their eye, an internal smile to themselves when they are doing the mundane. To be able to instruct someone to do something and give them that feeling in their life is fantastic! Depends on the motivation of the sub but some will get a huge kick from having a collar on, a stretcher on, a humbler, an anal plug attached to a collar under their clothes…. They love that they’re being made to wear these things. It’s so much fun!!!
Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read my profile. My names cato and I'm open-minded, clean, and respectful. I’m here to connect with like-minded people and make some genuine friends.
Ideally, I’d love to find a regular partner or couple for something ongoing, real, and Read more… potentially long-term. That said, I’m also open to more occasional meetups if that suits us both.
I lean dominant by nature. I enjoy giving pleasure, teasing, edging, and taking control in ways that are sensual, attentive, and deliberate. I haven’t had the chance to explore rope yet, but I’m very keen to learn. The creative, focused energy it brings really appeals to me, especially in the context of trust and physical control.
At the same time, I’ve been feeling more curious about exploring submission. I wouldn’t call myself a sub, but the idea of giving up control, being used purely for someone else's pleasure, and being told what to do has been growing on me. I want to understand what it feels like to surrender, to serve, and to let someone else take the lead. So any dominant ladies that want to put me in my place, I would love to hear from you.
I also enjoy sensation and pressure play. Rings, cages, plugs, stretchers – things that create constant awareness and a low, steady hum of arousal. I’ve found unexpected pleasure in sounding and light CBT too. It’s all part of staying connected to my body and pushing boundaries gently and safely.
With a partner, I’m very much a pleaser. I get a lot from giving, whether it’s through oral, toys, sensual touch, edging, or denial. Passion and chemistry matter to me. I’d always choose a slow build, full of tension and fire, over something forgettable and rushed.
Although to be honest, I'm fairly open to trying most things and my kinks and likes are not limited to those within this description or choices made on the site.
Outside of kink, I’m educated, professional, and well-travelled. I value trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Discretion is also very important to me, and I always return the same.
If you’d like to chat, share ideas, or see if there's a connection, feel free to reach out. No pressure, no expectations. Just open conversation and maybe something fun or meaningful if it clicks.
Peace and kink,
Cato xxx
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