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Age 49
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I am currently a new master, looking to further my knowledge, so I may get the most pleasure, and give the most pleasure possible. I met my sub on a 1 in a million chance, I owe her so much, as she is my first TRUE sub...and can't imagine anyone other than her as my sub. Just need some input/guidance.

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  • 21.12.2017 13:13:28
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Does your Master have multiple subs or just you?

I agree with your comments 110%, yes... I should have been more forthcoming when she returned, yes I did make a verbal commitment that night, but at the same time this was over a four day Whirlwind first meeting, and she was gone for a month after that. She even said herself, that she feels it Read more… would have been different had she been here the month after our first encounter. While she was gone I did have a chance to step back and put it all in perspective and ask myself was I ready to be in a committed relationship after knowing someone for days, and also coming off of a 6 month run of being single and enjoying my life. I understand if you're in this lifestyle, I get where the comments are coming from, as I was unaware of the commitment it takes to be in a relationship like this. Just the other night as an example we had finished a session, and I had completely forgotten about the aftercare. I was easily reminded when I saw the look on her face when I was about to leave, and it all hit me... For which I immediately apologized, and apologized again for last night. This is more than a relationship when it comes to a Dom / submissive. It's like riding a bike almost, I didn't learn to ride a bike in one day, I tried to... In the end though it will take me a lot longer time. Yes, she deserves a better man than me at this moment, but that's not to say that I couldn't be that man if given time. So judge me if you will, My Life Will Go On as will yours, but there was no intention of misleading her whatsoever. You guys take care, be good to one another... And have an awesome Christmas Hanukkah whatever you celebrate!

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  • 21.12.2017 9:36:15
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Does your Master have multiple subs or just you?

I am actually the dom or man/child as I have been called. She has failed to mention that we have known each other maybe a month, and I have never ONCE cheated on her. I had been divorced since last year and and had been, shall I say, wild for the last 6 months. This all happened with her and myself Read more… in a whirlwind and I admit I got caught up in it. I have never been in this type of a relationship before and didn't know what it truly meant. I haven't been making plans to see anyone else, although I am still in contact with a few of the women I had seen. I have advised her that I probably am not the right person for her, as she deserves someone with more experience in this. I really wish people were not so quick to judge without knowing all the facts.

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  • 20.12.2017 7:37:08
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New Master looking for guidance/direction

Thanks to all of you for you responses, it really means a lot. I would definitely take all of yours advice and see if I can transfer that over into our relationship, we have hit a rough spot here since she has moved back, for both of us... Not so much our relationship per se, but more so situations Read more… that have come around us that we are unable to have those nights like the first four. But hopefully soon we can get back on track, and see where this journey takes us.

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  • 10.11.2017 23:49:58
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New Master looking for guidance/direction

I hear you, BP....Confidence is definitely not my problem LOL… Thank you for the response that helps immensely! She is an amazing woman, And I couldn’t be happier

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  • 09.11.2017 19:17:39
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That sounds good!

I could copy/paste your exact words, Robustlove...The asphyxiation part especially, I will have mine look me in the eyes, as I cover her nose and mouth… She starts the struggle, then I tell her to relax to look at me, it’s just the fear in the eyes I think, when they’re really running out of Read more… oxygen, And you can see it in their eyes when they’re about to pass out… And then the big release, the big exhale!

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New Master looking for guidance/direction
Hi there, a little about me...I have always been interested in BDSM, and felt like I had dabbled in it here and there...but always felt I was just playing dom as most of the women I restrained were just liked the idea of just that. Fast forward to last Thursday, went to meet a couple (my friends) Read more…who had a girlfriend that was moving here and wanted me to join for dinner. I was not even thinking about a sub, and never really did the research on what a true sub was...until now.
My friend had told her about me and that I dabbled in the things she liked. We met and had small talk, and she started dropping hints as to what she was...once again, dom/sub was not even in my thoughts. Dinner ended, and she basically said she was coming home with me...and she did.
The session we had that night was absolutely amazing, she asked how long I had been a master, of course I replied, this was my first time with a real sub. She seemed perplexed, and said no way...she said it came way too naturally to me to be a first time. She said she had been looking for me for a long time, almost 5 years...I told her, that I had been looking for someone like her my whole life! She said if that was my first time, she could not wait to see how I grew as HER master.
Right now I feel like the person that has been handcuffed my whole life, and now have this woman handing me the key to free myself, my eyes had been opened to a whole new world! She asked that night if I would be her Master, to which I excitedly said most definitely...Now even though it felt natural to me (we were together the following 3 days as well) I am still trying to wrap my head around the fact that this woman, MY sub...is willing to do ANYTHING I ask just to please me. Because she is experienced, I just want to be the best I can, for her and myself. What sucks about this is we had and amazing 4 nights together, conversation flowed so easily like we had been together for years...she has gone back to her home state to finish packing for the move here and won't be back for 3-4 weeks.
Read this somewhere..."Asking another person to give themselves over to you, whether this is for just an hour a week or 24/7, means that you have to make yourself worthy of such a sacrifice." Anyway...sorry for the wall of text, just need some direction/guidance please.
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DirtiestSeven
DirtiestSeven Thanks to all of you for you responses, it really means a lot. I would definitely take all of yours advice and see if I can transfer that over into our relationship, we have hit a rough spot here since she has moved back, for both of us... Not so much our relationship per se, but more so situations that have come around us that we are unable to have those nights like the first four. But hopefully soon we can get back on track, and see where this journey takes us. Thanks to all of you for you responses, it really means a lot. I would definitely take all of yours advice and see if I can transfer that over into our relationship, we have hit a rough spot here since she has moved back, for both of us... Not so much our relationship per se, but more so situations that have come around us that we are unable to have those nights like the first four. But hopefully soon we can get back on track, and see where this journey takes us.
LikeVictoriaBlisse, Robustlove · 20.12.2017 7:37:08
Deleted profile I agree with the three pillars.
I think it’s worth noting my friend that confidence takes us so far as Doms. Like you I strive to ensure I am fulfilling my subs needs and desires, even those that she has only told me through moans and eye rolls and yet to words too.
The knowledge that we are Read more… fulfilling our subs in whatever way makes them hot horny and feeling great about themselves is the reassurance that they will kneeling at your feet waiting next time.
it all comes back to open communication, asking all on here for a steer is great and I’ll be doing so myself - but. It all of us combined could give the insight about her that she can- ask her ?
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LikeRobustlove, DirtiestSeven · 21.11.2017 22:11:50
Lord_Blacklight
Lord_Blacklight The only advice I can give is this friend...
Three pillars support every relationship. Vanilla or otherwise. Take away one? It collapses.
1. Trust
she has placed a great amount of trust in you. But it goes both ways. If you are unsure about something? Trust her to be patient with you and express Read more… yourself. Trust yourself to be aware of the surroundings and any change in her behaviour (in or out of subspace) that might cause her her harm. Trust her to do the same and the bond will grow stronger.
2. Respect
Respect any boundaries discussed BEFORE a scene takes place. Respect her gift to you and nurture it. she in turn should respect the power she has given you. If there is a reason she is unable to do a scene or such, ask the reason why. I have seen many a fake wannabe push past and not respect the boundaries for their own need. I have helped many a sub rebuild after such encounters and trust Me it isn't pretty.
Respect goes beyond the bedroom, show your sub that you see her as strong and beautiful and if you show it publicly? It will show her you value her as more than a semen receptacle.
3. Communication
This one is incredibly important to Me. Communicate good and bad. How a scene is supposed to go before, communication can be non verbal during in some cases (hooded for example I have subs hold a little red ball. If they drop it? Equivalent to a safeword) communicate after. What you enjoyed what she did that pleased you or may have given you pause. Let her know all the good she brings out in you and ask the same from her. If you know what makes her tick? Then you can make her feel that she is heard and that is soooooo important to both Dom and sub.
Enjoy your newfound path, it's gonna be quite the journey.
LikeVictoriaBlisse, Robustlove, DirtiestSeven · 21.11.2017 16:21:32

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