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Ignorant people who have no respect or manners. Both cost nothing.
I'm still looking for that person.
:1784615152,452480, So, on one hand. There's a point you almost have. And that's right - respecting someone's decision not to reply is good manners which costs nothing. Expecting someone to give you a reply of any degree is entitlement and that is not being Read more… respectful.
On another
The whole "it costs nothing to be nice" bs isn't actually true. Even something simple as replying a message - that your decision to message someone then becomes a demand on someone's time and effort - that, in "Being nice" if they're not interested they then have to find a way to say "no" which you would find palatable. It also, unless the end with the good old "No thanks" button leaves them open to further replies and subsequent emotional labour - IIRC if they do not reply, you remain unblocked but cannot message for a while.
It becomes the whole cost of managing your feelings because you decided to reach out. Why does that become their problem? Equally, while sometimes a "soz not interested" can be nice. The little dopamine hit of an envelope popping up and then rejection after rejection however much effort they've then put in cushioning your feefees still actually has a mental sting because the hit you were expecting is taken away time after time.
I appreciate your point regarding entitlement. I didn't see it as that, however, I can see how it looks and I understand.
I've have just been played by a fake aswell, we moved onto WhatsApp last night to chat. I was very skeptical, then came the copy n paste messages about her rules etc. Read the exact same messages numerous times now.
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Don’t think we did bc idk what tf you’re talking about.
Why is he attacking you?