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Gender Man
Age 45
Status Single
Height 175cm
Weight 81kg
Hair length
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Zodiac sign Sagittarius
Smoker

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

I am looking for a dominant female to explore and share fetushes and kinks with. I'm an open minded submissive man that will invest all my loyalty, trust, honesty and enthusiasm in a loving Domme/sub relationship.
I'm happy to share more photos if requested.

After being in vanilla relationships for too long I am craving to explore BDSM, I'm not looking for ONS, I want something real and long term.

Limits

No severe , or ***.
I'm a sensual bdsm enthusiast.

Ignorant people who have no respect or manners. Both cost nothing.

My roles & archetype

Groups

    A respectful space for men who love to surrender — and those curious about it. Share your experiences, explore your desires, and connect over the unique pleasures of submission, service, and control play.
    No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.
    From silky scarves to full rope suspension — if tying up or being tied down excites you, this is your place. Share techniques, tools, fantasies, and safety tips with fellow bondage enthusiasts.

My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Warrington with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 wrote something in the forum
  • 21.07.2026 10:44:53
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
That feeling when:

I'm still looking for that person.

Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 wrote something in the forum
  • 21.07.2026 10:05:26
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
Is the Vibe Changing? The rise of ghosting, ***-requests, and profile turnover (even for paid accounts)

:1784615152,452480, So, on one hand. There's a point you almost have. And that's right - respecting someone's decision not to reply is good manners which costs nothing. Expecting someone to give you a reply of any degree is entitlement and that is not being Read more… respectful.
On another
The whole "it costs nothing to be nice" bs isn't actually true. Even something simple as replying a message - that your decision to message someone then becomes a demand on someone's time and effort - that, in "Being nice" if they're not interested they then have to find a way to say "no" which you would find palatable. It also, unless the end with the good old "No thanks" button leaves them open to further replies and subsequent emotional labour - IIRC if they do not reply, you remain unblocked but cannot message for a while.
It becomes the whole cost of managing your feelings because you decided to reach out. Why does that become their problem? Equally, while sometimes a "soz not interested" can be nice. The little dopamine hit of an envelope popping up and then rejection after rejection however much effort they've then put in cushioning your feefees still actually has a mental sting because the hit you were expecting is taken away time after time.

I appreciate your point regarding entitlement. I didn't see it as that, however, I can see how it looks and I understand.

Likeeyemblacksheep · Jump to discussion
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 wrote something in the forum
  • 20.07.2026 23:40:44
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
Is the Vibe Changing? The rise of ghosting, ***-requests, and profile turnover (even for paid accounts)

I've have just been played by a fake aswell, we moved onto WhatsApp last night to chat. I was very skeptical, then came the copy n paste messages about her rules etc. Read the exact same messages numerous times now.

Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 created an entry in Submissive Men’s Lounge
Does anyone else on here feel invisable and just blatantly ignored all the time?
Likemantha59
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 wrote something in the forum
  • 19.07.2026 18:22:56
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
The death of kink

:1784475670,7555140,
Don’t think we did bc idk what tf you’re talking about.

Why is he attacking you?

Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 has updated the limits
  • 19.07.2026 14:57:42
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
No severe , or ***.
I'm a sensual bdsm enthusiast.

Ignorant people who have no respect or manners. Both cost nothing.
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 18.07.2026 20:00:51
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
Anyone fancy a genuine conversation?
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 18.07.2026 14:52:39
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
Probably time to come off here. Just not happening for me.
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 18.07.2026 13:30:46
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
I appreciate a genuine conversation. No need to be rude and blatantly ignore someone.
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 18.07.2026 13:09:12
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
4th discussion I have tried to post and its been declined by the fetmods!!
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 18.07.2026 1:20:25
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
If you are polite and respectful then why can't others?
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 17.07.2026 22:02:43
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
No need for rude and arrogant people.
Kinkyboy1980
icon-wio Kinkyboy1980 posted a status update
  • 17.07.2026 19:50:37
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single
How refreshing it is when someone replies to your message. Even when they think it won't be compatible and they say why. That means so much, it shows that there actually are some respectful people on this site.
Kinkyboy1980
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  • 16.07.2026 12:24:17
  • Male (45)
  • Warrington
  • Single

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