About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- Events & Places
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
- Cybersex
Description
Who am I?
Introverted, inventive, spiritual and cerebral with a liking for the abstract and unordinary.
Significantly more leaderish than dominant, looking for sensual kinkiness rather than a D/S dynamic per-se
What BDSMtests.org thinks I am
94% Switch
93% Experimentalist
84% Non-monogamist
77% Exhibitionist
74% Voyeur
70% Dominant
69% Rigger
64% Submissive
61% Sadist
53% Primal (Hunter)
50% Brat tamer
49% Degrader
45% Masochist
42% Primal (Prey)
42% Rope bunny
39% Vanilla
34% Degradee
33% Brat
27% Owner
26% Master/Mistress
24% Daddy/Mommy
10% Ageplayer
7% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Slave
Desires and Fantasies
What am I seeking
Not black and white, nor shades of grey; but something in vibrant, vivid, retina-searing, glorious technicolour.
Senses working overtime, feeling and being, adrift in the moment
Bound with a look
Flogged with a feather
Hearing a pin drop in a maelstrom
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Erotic Photography (Active)
- Anal Plugs
- Blindfolds
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Rope
- Corsets
- Lingerie Fetish
- Edging
- Erotic Art
- Erotica
- Restraints
- Foreplay (Active)
- Handcuffs
- Kinky Sex
- Tickle Fetish
- Multiple Orgasms
- Mutual Masturbation (Active)
- Nose Hook
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Orgasm Control
- Ring Gag
- Sapiosexual
- Sensory Deprivation
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex in the Water
- Sex Toys
- Spreader Bar
- Striptease
- Stocking Fetish
- Tantric Massage
- Tantric Sex
- Underwear Fetish
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Clue 10 is causing me problems, I have followed the pointers, to today, total, buy and redeem but not found an icon?
Agreed.
What you "consent to" is actually a framework , vision or mirage of what is expected by you to play out.
But, fundamentally do you know the other sufficiently to trust that they will treat you the way that you desire/want/need in whatever situation precipitates?
... and do you understand Read more… them well enough to reciprocate?
The important word here is "informed" - be fully aware of what is being consented to.
There is the risk with all of these terms that they can be used like the ISO-9001 regulations for companies;- I have made a claim to my insurance company (they are being hopeless), but they call me by phone, then Read more… confirm with a text message, then send an email - boxes ticked; but nothing of any consequence in the phone call, text or email.
Age is just a number unless you're a cheese
These are the big questions for any relationship, and life in general.
Are you painting-by-numbers, or experiencing the joy of painting - Bob Ross style
We all need a space where we feel nurtured, cared for and able to grow into our best version of ourselves - and not have to worry, or make Read more… justifications to anyone who cares about us, for our actions.
Unfortunately there is a world of difference between "a" and "your " on both sides of the slash, when we consider what we are seeking it really is a needle in a haystack.
Talk about it, plan the scene together. Afterwards decide what did, or didn't, work for each of you. Plan the next one accordingly.
I should think " it depends"
On the individual and who with?
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