Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 45
Status Not single
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Blue
Hair length Long
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin Ireland
Zodiac signs Aquarius
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

BIG !!!! , Irish, Bubbly, Buxom ,Busty Blue Eyed ,Brunette with big personality ( there might even be a brain bouncing about ) loves a bit of banter for the record this doesn't not make me a Domme !!!


Ok ok ok Serious side- yes I do have one on occasion.

So here goes

I'm 45 yrs old fun loving Irish girl married ( described as SSBBW by many ) big girl , bigger personality

What am I looking for?
Well answer is truthful -Open to suggestions.

Love chatting craic m banter , I'm probably tad cheeky n sarky

Straight gal with bi curiosities

I'm intrigued by the whole scene - but Im a novice back after a few yrs out,
I'm submissive not slave or Doormat

Anything I've missed I'm sure there loads feel free to ask! I don't bite (unless asked)

Feel free to contact me but be respectful and polite at all times
Sx

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sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 found their first BDSM archetype!
  • 07.10.2018 16:25:10
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
sammyb45
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  • 25.09.2018 21:52:51
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
  • sammyb45
sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 13.09.2018 21:52:55
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
Sub rules to follow

Have you thought of providIng him with a diary of your day outlining everything you do
thoughts and feelings on the ds relationship and thoughts on your sexual desires , your needs wants
To allow him to choose your clothes daily - give him three options and it's his choice
to provide him with Read more… photos daily
he controls your orgasms when where how who with what
just a few examples
sx

sammyb45
  • 10.09.2018 18:27:32
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
sammyb45
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  • 03.09.2018 9:49:23
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
  • sammyb45
  • sammyb45
sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 has uploaded new photos
  • 20.08.2018 8:20:37
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
  • sammyb45
  • sammyb45
sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 has updated their profile description
  • 14.08.2018 0:14:21
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
BIG !!!! , Irish, Bubbly, Buxom ,Busty Blue Eyed ,Brunette with big personality ( there might even be a brain bouncing about ) loves a bit of banter for the record this doesn't not make me a Domme !!!


Ok ok ok Serious side- yes I do have one on occasion.

So here goes

I'm 45 yrs old fun loving Read more… Irish girl married ( described as SSBBW by many ) big girl , bigger personality

What am I looking for?
Well answer is truthful -Open to suggestions.

Love chatting craic m banter , I'm probably tad cheeky n sarky

Straight gal with bi curiosities

I'm intrigued by the whole scene - but Im a novice back after a few yrs out,
I'm submissive not slave or Doormat

Anything I've missed I'm sure there loads feel free to ask! I don't bite (unless asked)

Feel free to contact me but be respectful and polite at all times
Sx
sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 05.08.2018 22:40:49
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
The term "brat"

Punishments in my understanding is about it being linked to the "failure " or "Disobedience "
As a last a last resort as a means of teaching valuable lesson
my main point here is - there are many many young women identifying as brats
they are uneducated to lifestyle and they are putting themselves Read more… into scenarios they cannot even imagine ....because in their head it's about being fucked n flogged "
they don't understand what is involved in tasks and training or punishments and rewards , they kick off in order to get attention and punished ... they are using the term "brat ",
many are looking for kinky sex and submission isn't even on the agenda
Sx

sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 05.08.2018 20:01:26
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
Menstruation question

Think it very much depends on the individuals
many many many will play no matter the time of the month
while many submissive choose to delay or use contraceptives to reduce or stop menstruation
for some it's a huge turn on , while others total turn off
Sx

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sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 05.08.2018 18:50:48
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
The term "brat"

Soap
lemon
vinegar
ball gag dipped in spices
As I said Doms are creative creatures
on the rare occasion I have let me mouth run riot , it was nipped and dipped quickly
surely if you are misbehaving to get spanked , surely you are better off to flutter or beg or talk sweetly or even better earn Read more… what what you want
Sx

sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 05.08.2018 0:07:52
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
The term "brat"

If you think being a brat is all about getting spanked you are sadly mistaken
submissives get spanked if it within their limits
True Dominant can punish a brat in more effectively than spanking in ways you cannot imagine if you are new to this lifestyle
so if you are going to behave like a brat Read more… be sure you understand the consequences of your actions before "playing "
sx

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sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 04.08.2018 23:44:07
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
Dom Vs Domme

For me things Are very very clear
words , expressions . Terminology for me important in the lifestyle
its basic manners and etiquette
A male dominant is a Dom
A Dominant female is Domme
For me women calling themselves Doms are showing a lack of understanding , I would be concerned their lack of Read more… understanding regarding the basic principles
Does it mean it's ok to change things like "safe word" to something else
Does it means we can change the names of the basic sub positions
surely we root out lots of fakes by how the conduct themselves and their understanding of the basics .... surely if we change something as basic as Dommes and Doms it opens the flood gates for fakes to slip through
Old School am I , that's not going to change
Sx

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sammyb45
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  • 01.08.2018 8:49:17
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
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sammyb45
icon-wio sammyb45 wrote something in the forum
  • 30.07.2018 6:33:11
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
What are some of the best ways I can cause my partner pain?

I would tend to agree here
why don't you book a session locally with a professional Dominant who already knows about the Antomy of Spanking and understand how do things safely
there places where you should and shouldn't hurt , now speaking from experience things can go badly wrong of you don't Read more… understand the conditions and the consequences of your actions
My advice would be
seek professional guidance
find a mentor who will educate you share your knowledge and experience
read educate yourself understand what she is asking you to do
Also in your case I would formalise a written agreement with your girls signature saying it's safe safe and consensual ...
do yoU know what to do if she was taken ill mid session
lots of thoughts
just be careful
Protect yourself and her
Sx

sammyb45
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  • 28.07.2018 12:18:26
  • Female (45)
  • Glasgow
  • Not single
  • sammyb45