39 Year-old male from London starts showing extremely dominant characteristics with rough, slightly sadistic tendencies. Reads a book, gets curious, reads some more, experiments a little, likes what he sees, reads more, tries a few new things, likes even more, joins a forum, speaks to a few like minded people, comes home and ties up the missus and gives her a good spanking. Pulls her hair takes her hard and fast. Really likes. Reads some more, wants a lot more... is here...
To dominate mind AND Body. Impact play and well as sensual play.
Lot's and Lot's of spankings!
Looking to better my skills in:
Any help would be appreciated
Teeth torture is basically having your tooth drilled without anaesthetic....
I am, or course, talking about real torture in this case and not anything connected with BDSM.
For the ticking, you might want to tO try and see if you enjoy being tickled first of all. Maybe get a friend something to Read more… tickle your feet and see if it turns you on in any way.
Its not for everyone but if you haopen to enjoy it, its another thing to list under the Yes column.
All the best
Here's what I think for what its worth:
Firstly, I wouldn't try to be submissive if the need arises at a particular point to take a more dominant role.... The need arises because you're curious about it and that's a good thing. Yes, you may try and not like it or absolutely love it and carry on, Read more… whilst also not neglecting your Sub needs.
So I would always recommend that you do what feels rigHT to you at that time...
With ONE exception!!!
If you're not sure you're going to be able to take care of your Sub, do NOT play. Literally as simplementation as that (unless of couse, your Sub tells you explicitly that they do not require aftercare/nurturing etc - even so, you should regularly check/offer).
As a Sub, I suspect you might now yourself how, as relationships develops, Subs look up to their Doms more and more. They take great strength from them through many different interactions. But most importantly, I'd like to think that they learn that BDSM dynamics are really not about "people-beating-people" but the mutual understanding of each others needs. Through the contrast of something as "wrong" as hitting another person, then SHOWING them that you just did that through love and not hate...
BE the kind of Dom YOU would want to submit to!!!
I think I'd rather have my eyelashes plucked one by one!!! Second only to teeth torture, I think its REALLY bad. So if somone is seriously threating disciplining you with tickling, Id make sure I was a VEEERY good girl if I was you.
Just my 10 pence worth 😂😂😂