39 Year-old male from London starts showing extremely dominant characteristics with rough, slightly sadistic tendencies. Reads a book, gets curious, reads some more, experiments a little, likes what he sees, reads more, tries a few new things, likes even more, joins a forum, speaks to a few like minded people, comes home and ties up the missus and gives her a good spanking. Pulls her hair takes her hard and fast. Really likes. Reads some more, wants a lot more... is here...
I am currently in training with Mytrz therefore only here to make freinds.
P.S. I will be really happy the day Fetish.com scraps the "Forum Format" and moves to a better, more social and easier to use interface. White text on grey with a black background? Come on guys!!!
To dominate mind AND Body. Impact play and well as sensual play.
Lot's and Lot's of spankings!
Looking to better my skills in:
Any help would be appreciated
It is your responsibility to figure out whether she "sort of" agreed because you kept going on about it or if she really does want to try it.
If it's the latter, it's also your responsibility to find out exactly what she is and isn't happy with doing...
Now you are being a little unfair mate. There are plenty of genuine Dommes on this site but whether you're a Sub or a Dom/me, as eyemblacksheep has said, no one is going to land on your lap.
I wish you all the best in finding yours...
Keyword there, I believe, is "partner" @eyemblacksheep
Letting your partner control the finances, regardless of their sex and especially if they are the top in the relationship, perhaps having them save where the bottom is unable to... or invest in some respect for the benefit of his/her bottom is Read more… commendable.
Not the same as a 19 year old from Manchester messaging me and demanding that I send her £35 over PayPal.
Not is it anything like a profile you come across that reads "I'm looking for worthless paypigs so I can empty their bank accounts"
I understand it for what it is. And it sure ain't kink!
The important question is....
Are there any female cash pigs anywhere in the world or is it just some of the guys that are complete mugs to hand over their money to someone they will never see...
Not MY kink!
Not even a kink as far as I'm concerned. Feel free to convince me otherwise by sending me Read more… a £200 "contribution" of course!
I agree woth Victoria. Winging it is never a good idea. Not only will you leave yourself open to potential problems but sooner or later you're likely to slip up.
Yes, confidence is a good thing but without knowledge, confidence will inevitably come across as either cocky or abusive.
I recommend you Read more… read up on different bits of BDSM as much as possible. Make a note of the things, such as Bondage, impact/sensual/wax play etc and sit and talk to her about what she may or may not like.
She will appreciate your effort to "learn your trade" and you're likely to have a lot of fun trying things out together.
All the best x
Munches are the best way to meet someone you're attracted to and take it from there.
Read about different things and talk in detail about what youre curious of and also limits.
Best of luck