Status

Not single

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Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 39
Status Not single
Height 175cm
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Origin England
Zodiac signs Libra
Smoker
I can speak English
German

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

As well as being a Fetish.com Community Team Member, I am an erotic author, a Sex Positive Reverend and part of Smut.UK who arrange events for curious and kinky people with a literary bent.

Cheeky wench and good girl in equal measure I have a big heart and an even bigger smile. Variety is the spice of life so I keep my life spicy!

Visit me at victoriablisse.co.uk and check out ilovesmut.uk for news of upcoming events I'll be attending/running.

Fantasies

I dream of a world where everyone is accepted for exactly who they are. No judgements or expectations, no need for labels because everyone will be perfectly, wonderfully themselves.

My fantasies are varied and fun, I write lots of them down and publish them for everyone to read. I'm most certainly a masochist and pain makes me a very happy bunny indeed. Pleasure is very good too of course, both together is perfection!

Fetish.com gives you…


Many possibilities! There are plenty of beds to cozy up in or sex parties to attend. (Have you ever tried sex in public? No? Then hop over to Outdoor sex). There are lots of RPGers here and plenty of sexy people waiting. Check out ourfree BDSM Dating. Still not convinced to meet in person? Then use your imagination and check out some kinky discussions.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 14.12.2017 22:33:38
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
The erotic charge of silence between strangers

I can definitely understand the attraction of this. It's so out of the bounds of what would usually be and you'd have to really pay attention to the other person's body language. It's a very interesting idea.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 13.12.2017 8:42:52
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
What’s making you twitch today??

I'm really craving the lash of the whip. On Sunday I got a little flogging with a rubber flogger and at certain angles it felt quite whip like. Now I'm craving the real thing.
I <3 whips.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 12.12.2017 22:24:56
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Ghosting

I would recommend to anyone to get out into their local BDSM community. Go to munches and play events and meet people for real, in the flesh. You might not find your perfect dom or sub or whatever first time out but you will make friends and get to know people face to face. Online is fantastic and Read more… has it's advantages but nothing beats meeting folks in the flesh.
I think places like fetish are great to make initial contact with others and (being a forum mod I may be a lil' biased here) I think the forum is a fantastic place to meet people who are genuine. I love this community here.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 12.12.2017 11:17:07
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Initial negotiations

Wow, you've had so much good advice already, Imgoingplaces, the people here really make me proud <3
I think you've done the best thing in asking for advice, it's the best way to learn and develop for anyone. I haven't got anything more to add to what has been said, except keep on being open Read more… minded. It will make youe BDSM experience all the better.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 11.12.2017 12:10:11
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Risk Taking

For me, risk taking is not something I do, reading Neffie26's response I nodded lots. I'm the same. I plan everything, I calculate risks and don't do things unless I'm 100% sure it'll work out. I'm not in any way a risk taker. I hate rollercoasters, I wouldn't contemplate rock climbing or bungee Read more… jumping or anything like that.
All my risks are taken within BDSM. It's the only time I really let go. I find a wonderful piece in being beaten to a point where my mind is quiet and still.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 10.12.2017 12:41:53
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Anyone for Figging?

I think that's a good plan, make sure it's a long enough piece! I'd also check how you react to the raw ginger just placed on your lip. Some people are more sensitive to such spice than others. If you find it unbearable you might wanna thing twice before inserting elsewhere!

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 07.12.2017 21:19:33
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Kink scene in South Wales?

Remember, no external links, folks! Hope you get some recommendations, Smitty!

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 07.12.2017 9:53:25
  • Oldham
BDSM in Literature
As an author I have a soft spot for books
Anyone read these or got recommendations of other BDSM stories? Titles and authors please but remember, no external links, thanks!
Likeserenaa, Sinbad11 · 4 Replies
PaigeLM
PaigeLM I loved Story of the Eye! Fell in love with Bataille immediately and bought several other books.
I've read Venus in Furs a couple times--it's a definite classic. I'd like to see the play based on it.
I haven't read Justine, but I'm currently (very slowly) reading Juliette by de Sade and WOWWEE. Read more… It's some good stuff. Lesbian orgies in a convent by page 2. It's 1,200 pages so it's only going to get AMAZING, I'm sure.
Delta of Venus and Story of O are on my to read shelf.
I second PatientTraveller in the recommendation for Sexual Outsiders. I reviewed it on my show and it was a good one.
Reviewing books about BDSM and sex is my job so I have all sorts of recommendations, but it's time for work just at the moment.
LikePatientTraveller, VictoriaBlisse · 09.12.2017 6:50:32
Lord_Blacklight
Lord_Blacklight Tymber Dalton has many books that would catch the eye. "The reluctant Dom" I think is a good start Tymber Dalton has many books that would catch the eye. "The reluctant Dom" I think is a good start
LikeVictoriaBlisse · 07.12.2017 17:06:09
NeedsDom
NeedsDom Masters of the Shadowlands by Cherise Sinclair. Opened my eyes on BDSM. Bought the whole series. Well worth the read Masters of the Shadowlands by Cherise Sinclair. Opened my eyes on BDSM. Bought the whole series. Well worth the read
LikeVictoriaBlisse · 07.12.2017 14:28:54
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 07.12.2017 9:35:48
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Anyone for Figging?

You could read the article for all the info

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse created a topic in BDSM Forum
  • 05.12.2017 11:02:01
  • Oldham
Anyone for Figging?
So I just read an article that made me wince...
Any of you tried figging? I'm a masochist so I'm scared but also curious about it!
LikeRobustlove, TBDSML, BBBOFBAWand 1 more… · 12 Replies
SubRose
SubRose Ive only ever experienced figging as punishment so I don't associate it with pleasure. Howver what I can say is that the pain isn't awful, but it is very uncomfortable and if you spank a girl when the ginger is in her ass, she either has to take the pain of the spank without flinching or flinch and make the pain from the ginger worse... win win for any dom Ive only ever experienced figging as punishment so I don't associate it with pleasure. Howver what I can say is that the pain isn't awful, but it is very uncomfortable and if you spank a girl when the ginger is in her ass, she either has to take the pain of the spank without flinching or flinch and make the pain from the ginger worse... win win for any dom
LikeFirewitch, rs25, Mrchristopher70 · 13.12.2017 18:00:31
VictoriaBlisse
VictoriaBlisse I think that's a good plan, make sure it's a long enough piece! I'd also check how you react to the raw ginger just placed on your lip. Some people are more sensitive to such spice than others. If you find it unbearable you might wanna thing twice before inserting elsewhere! I think that's a good plan, make sure it's a long enough piece! I'd also check how you react to the raw ginger just placed on your lip. Some people are more sensitive to such spice than others. If you find it unbearable you might wanna thing twice before inserting elsewhere!
LikeFirewitch, Mrchristopher70, BBBOFBAW · 10.12.2017 12:41:53
Firewitch
Firewitch ➦Firewitch quote SirsSubmissiveLittle:❝Any advice for a first timer? Is there any harm in doing this?❞
First timer here also but my main plan is for it not to break inside me!!!! ➦Firewitch quote SirsSubmissiveLittle:❝Any advice for a first timer? Is there any harm in doing this?❞
First timer here also but my main plan is for it not to break inside me!!!!
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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 05.12.2017 10:45:24
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse created a topic in Body Fetishes
  • 04.12.2017 11:12:52
  • Oldham
Corsets for Men
Have you seen this fantastic article on Corsets for guys?
Any of you got experience with this?
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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 03.12.2017 23:02:16
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Tell me your Fetish

Hello Lily, Welcome!

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 03.12.2017 20:14:39
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Worrying exchange with a so called Dom

I'm really sorry to read you've had such a negative experience. If you have any problems with this user on site please report it to us so we can do something about it.
However I'm really glad you stood your ground and didn't let this interaction get you down. I wish people would be more aware that Read more… there's more than 1 way to do BDSM...we're all different.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 03.12.2017 20:08:24
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Advice on BDSM

There isn't anything here that in itself leads me to be concerned - if it is consensual and your fried is enjoying it, then I think it's fine. All those things are within BDSM , though some at the extreme end.
If you are worried that she's not enjoying it or it's not consenual talk to her about Read more… that. I'm sure many other members will be able to offer advice too.

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