Status

Not single

married with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 39
Status Not single
Height 175cm
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Origin England
Zodiac signs Libra
Smoker
I can speak German
English

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

As well as being a Fetish.com Community Team Member, I am an erotic author, a Sex Positive Reverend and part of Smut.UK who arrange events for curious and kinky people with a literary bent.

Cheeky wench and good girl in equal measure I have a big heart and an even bigger smile. Variety is the spice of life so I keep my life spicy!

Fantasies

I dream of a world where everyone is accepted for exactly who they are. No judgements or expectations, no need for labels because everyone will be perfectly, wonderfully themselves.

My fantasies are varied and fun, I write lots of them down and publish them for everyone to read. I'm most certainly a masochist and pain makes me a very happy bunny indeed. Pleasure is very good too of course, both together is perfection!

My events

Fetish.com gives you…


Many possibilities! There are plenty of beds to cozy up in or sex parties to attend. (Have you ever tried sex in public? No? Then hop over to Outdoor sex). There are lots of RPGers here and plenty of sexy people waiting. Check out ourfree BDSM Dating. Still not convinced to meet in person? Then use your imagination and check out some kinky discussions.

VictoriaBlisse
  • 10.05.2018 20:45:39
  • Oldham
Collar, cuffs or something else?
There's a really interesting article on different symbols that show a D/s connection in our magazine:
So do you have any items you wear that symbolise your submission or dominance of a partner?
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MartinMoreluck
MartinMoreluck I love to know much about you I love to know much about you
LikeMikeMidnight · 11.05.2018 9:20:52
BerryBrighton
BerryBrighton I have a rope bracelet I have a rope bracelet
LikeMikeMidnight · 10.05.2018 22:36:24
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 29.04.2018 11:51:36
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Serious about bdsm or just want attention

I would always say there are 2 people in a conversation and sometimes, people just don't click. Doesn't mean the people are lying, just that you aren't the Dom they're looking for.
Give and take, that's what it's all about, I think.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 07.04.2018 16:18:29
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Leather collars

I have w leather collars, a black one with 'diamonds' on it and a big, chunky white one that I consider my reverend's dog collar.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 06.04.2018 8:55:09
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
A Dom in Training looking for insight and growth from both Sub's and Dom's alike

Hi there and welcome to the forum. Questioning is always a good thing, especially when it comes to all things BDSM.
I just want to share a little of my personal experience with you. I've been on the scene for 2 years, in all that time I've played with far more Doms who are significantly younger Read more… than me (in their twenties) than I have those who are my age and older.
Dominance doesn't come with age. It is brilliant that you're looking to research stuff and ask questions. Make sure you're clued up on all the safety aspects of BDSM and always, always, always be consent aware and you'll be fine.
When I'm looking to play with a Dom, I want to see that they know what they're doing - I want to be asked questions about safe words and limits and possible medical issues etc. I want to see respect.
Hope that helps some!

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 05.04.2018 10:20:11
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Christian Woman needing advice

Hi Ms Curious and welcome to the site. I am myself a Christian, in fact I am a reverend and the people I look over are those who are kinky or who's sexuality is seen as an a front to conservative Christianity.
It is perfectly fine to crave submission and bondage. It's part of what makes you Read more… uniquely you and God created you that way. You are wonderfully made to be exactly who you are!
Dating within the kinky community is a good place to start. There's lots of us Christians within it and you know what, not dating a Christian wouldn't be the end of the world either. Explore your kinks and revel in who you are. There's nothing wrong in that at all <3

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse has updated their profile description
  • 03.04.2018 11:07:55
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
As well as being a Fetish.com Community Team Member, I am an erotic author, a Sex Positive Reverend and part of Smut.UK who arrange events for curious and kinky people with a literary bent.

Cheeky wench and good girl in equal measure I have a big heart and an even bigger smile. Variety is the Read more… spice of life so I keep my life spicy!
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse found their first kinky politician!
  • 02.04.2018 11:46:36
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse is going to the event Kage Club
  • 30.03.2018 9:19:22
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 30.03.2018 9:16:47
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Possible toxicity

Glad you're okay.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 30.03.2018 9:09:39
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Possible toxicity

Get medical help immediately, it is better to be embarrassed than to risk serious health issues over something like this. Doctors and nurses see all kinds of things, don't put it off any longer.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 29.03.2018 10:23:44
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Too good to be true?

Be who you are. You don't need to pretend to be anything you're not.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 27.03.2018 11:29:21
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Financial Domination- Really getting on my nerves

Financial domination is a legitimate branch of BDSM. BDSM can be many different things to many different people. We want to be welcoming to all kinky people here, that's what we're all about.
We are working to make it easier for financial dominators and other paid service providers to mark their Read more… profiles as such. So it will be easier for the community to recognise them at a glance. You will start to see those changes very soon.
Meanwhile, if any of you have any concerns about a user offering financial services without the gold euro mark on their profile to denote their paid services status then please use the 'report user' button and inform the team. We'll then investigate further.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 21.03.2018 10:41:00
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
invisible

I think there is a lot of self -reflection and moderation with kink. For those taking a dominant role and those submissive.
Control is a big part of D/s and not just of the Dom over the sub. For every individual involved they make a decision on how much control they're taking or handing over. Read more… Where their limits lie.
It's not for everyone, that's true. But there is a lot to learn about yourself when indulging in BDSM.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 19.03.2018 20:27:25
  • Female (39)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
How many not genuine?

Please be assured we at fetish.com are doing our best to make this community safe and fun for everyone. If you have suspicions about another member then please report it to the support team. On every profile there's a 'report profile' button on the left hand side. Click that and send in a message Read more… with as much detail as possible.
Thanks!

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