Status

Not single

married with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 40
Status Not single
Height 175cm
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Origin England
Zodiac signs Libra
Smoker
I can speak English
German

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

As well as being a Fetish.com Community Team Member, I am an erotic author, a Sex Positive Reverend and part of Smut.UK who arrange events for curious and kinky people with a literary bent.

Cheeky wench and good girl in equal measure I have a big heart and an even bigger smile. Variety is the spice of life so I keep my life spicy!

Fantasies

I dream of a world where everyone is accepted for exactly who they are. No judgements or expectations, no need for labels because everyone will be perfectly, wonderfully themselves.

My fantasies are varied and fun, I write lots of them down and publish them for everyone to read. I'm most certainly a masochist and pain makes me a very happy bunny indeed. Pleasure is very good too of course, both together is perfection!

My roles & archetype

My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Many possibilities! There are plenty of ways to meet new kinksters. Check out our free BDSM dating. Still not convinced to meet in person? Take a look at some kinky discussions taking place, right now...

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 15.01.2019 17:35:40
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
FETISH.COM BIRTHDAY PARTY

I love how this wonderful community comes together to help people in need. They give out great advice, support and encouragement and it makes my little heart happy to see it. :)
The fetish.com community is awesome. I love how we come together to help everyone from newbie to BDSM stalwart. :)

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 13.01.2019 23:23:40
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Schools of BDSM

I think going out to your local scene is the best way to learn. Go to several places, see different folks hosting different workshops and then you'll get all different approaches and you can find what works best for you and start to see the essential health and safety concerns that are universal.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 12.01.2019 9:49:45
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Spotting Scams

Fabulous list of things to look out for :)
Can I just add, if you have someone here at fetish.com asking you for money and they don't have the Euro sign next to their name, please take a moment to report the profile for 'financial interests', there is a report profile button on the left side of all Read more… profiles. Thanks!

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 10.01.2019 10:56:04
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Newbie question. Paying for equipment up front

Always trust your gut.
ALWAYS.
If you think something seems off, or smells fishy, it probably is. And you don't want to indulge in BDSM play with someone you don't trust 100%.
For the record, that sounds dodgy to me too. I think your instinct is correct. Something is fishy.

LikeMisssTease, Fenrir, FootTicklerUK · Jump to discussion
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 06.01.2019 20:42:34
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
So, what are you doing about it?

You always have your own, personal experience to add, that is unique and always useful. :) It is nerve-wracking at first, taking the plunge is the scariest bit. It gets easier from there. The unknown becomes the more known and eventually becomes the well known. But if you don't dip your toe in Read more… first, you'll never know what it's like to swim.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 06.01.2019 18:08:53
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
So, what are you doing about it?

Well said. From personal experience all that holds me back is confidence. Each year I'm on the scene I'm getting more of that and I've done more than I'd have ever dreamed of a few years ago. :)

LikeBbw84, eyemblacksheep, MissTillysue · Jump to discussion
VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 05.01.2019 11:49:33
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Molly's BDSM Tips | How Do I Train My Sub When He's Married?

I'll pass this on to the person who deals with the magazine :)

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 05.01.2019 11:11:14
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
New to all this...

This might not sound like the most helpful of advice...but he needs to find his own way. Every single Dominant I've met has a very different approach and that's the beauty of BDSM.
Generally, though, if there's specific questions about certain aspects of BDSM (so use of implements, types of Read more… punishment/funishment, restraint ideas etc etc) you're best asking specific questions to get answers. It's hard for anyone to tell another person how to be dominant...does that make sense?

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 03.01.2019 9:46:03
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
FAVOURITE CP IMPLEMENT

Yes, I can vouch for the evil in that lil' Mango paddle!!!
But I can't pick a favourite. I <3 variety and pain.

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 02.01.2019 10:26:32
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
KINKY NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS

I don't do resolutions but I have a to do list featuring more restraints and a fun biting scene amongst other things. :)

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 31.12.2018 12:02:55
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Lips...

Probably because their message filter is set that way. No need to publicly announce that to the world though. Accept it and move on.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 31.12.2018 12:00:21
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Aftercare

It's different from sub to sub but it often includes fatigue, sadness, upset, tears, feeling down, weakness. Generally it can be counteracted with self care and if possible some cuddles/reassurance from the Dom/top. It can strike within minutes, hours or sometimes even days. It really is Read more… different for everyone.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 30.12.2018 10:49:04
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
New to this

Perfectly fine - just no links allowed :)

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VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 29.12.2018 21:29:45
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
New to this

Friendly mod note not to post external links - stating the name of the website without linking to it is fine though. :)
And my suggestion is to get out onto the local scene. There's often workshops at local clubs/dungeons to attend and if nothing formal, talking to people on the scene is a good Read more… way to get practical information.

VictoriaBlisse
icon-wio VictoriaBlisse wrote something in the forum
  • 29.12.2018 10:36:38
  • Female (40)
  • Oldham
  • Not single
Are there Masters avalible for hire?!?

Just a gentle reminder that advertising your own services here in the forum is not allowed. Keep the advice general here please, thanks.