About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
Description
Confident, sociable, athletic, dark humoured, sarcastic, 420 friednly, easy going masculine guy. currently exploring my submissive side and would be happy to play with others locally. also just looking for mates and dates, people I could hang, chill and chat with.
interests:
- being outside and in nature
- walking (with or without dogs)
- killing the younglings
- reading
- socialising, pubs, clubs
- finding the ultimate smoke spot
Limits
play
knife play
toilet
ass to mouth
heavy impact play
CBT
public play unless its subtle and except at play parties of course
feet
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Abandonment Play
- Anal Hook
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Anal Beads
- Anal Plugs
- Inflatable Gag
- Blindfolds
- Ball Gag
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Mouthguard Gag
- Bondage Rope
- Bondage Sleepsack
- Bondage Tape
- Breath Play
- Butts
- Cattle Prod
- Chastity
- Collar & Leash
- Corsets
- Cunnilingus
- Deep Throating
- Lingerie Fetish
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Domination
- Threesomes
- Edgeplay
- Edging
- Spandex Fetish
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Violet Wand
- Elbow Harness
- Erotic Art
- Erotic Hypnosis
- Extreme Bondage
- Facesitting
- Female Domination
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- FFM Threesome
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Fleshlight
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Gags
- Rubber Fetish
- Hair Pulling
- High Heel Fetish
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Head Harness
- Latex Fetish
- Leather Fetish
- Masturbation
- Masturbation Machine
- Armbinder
- Multiple Orgasms
- Mutual Masturbation
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Pegging
- Penis Gag
- Cock Ring
- Phone Sex
- Plastic Wrap
- Post Orgasm Torture
- Posture Collar
- Predicament Bondage
- Prostate Massager
- Prostate Milking
- Prostate Orgasm
- Quickies
- Rimming
- Ring Gag
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex Chat
- Shower Sex
- Sex Machine
- Sex Toys
- Sex Swing
- Photo Swapping
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Cum Swallowing
- Spreader Bar
- Squirting
- Strap-on
- Stocking Fetish
- Submission
- Suspension Bondage
- Suspension Cuffs
- Sybian
- Tantric Sex
- Testicular Bondage
- Subservience
- Vacuum Beds
- Vanilla
- Vibrators
- Wax Play
- Wet Look Clothing
- Whips
My places
Looking to get naughty in Norfolk? Well then The Annex is the spot for you! This erotic fetish/sex club specialises in fetish parties for Dom/mes, ...
King's Lynn and West Norfolk -
Norfolk - UK
Events and parties made for the ladies that want to have fun. This means that the married ladies, single mums or women that just have too many comm...
Peterborough -
Cambridgeshire - UK
Carberrys is a large private house, previously a hotel. Its in the best area of Yarmouth, opposite the Venetian Water Gardens.
We have lots of roo...
Great Yarmouth -
Norfolk - UK
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Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Great Yarmouth with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
play
knife play
toilet
ass to mouth
heavy impact play
CBT
public play unless its subtle and except at play parties of course
feet
knife play
toilet
ass to mouth
heavy impact play
CBT
public play unless its subtle and except at play parties of course
feet
Confident, sociable, athletic, dark humoured, sarcastic, 420 friednly, easy going masculine guy. currently exploring my submissive side and would be happy to play with others locally. also just looking for mates and dates, people I could hang, chill and chat with.
interests:
being outside and in Read more… nature
walking (with or without dogs)
killing the younglings
reading
socialising, pubs, clubs
finding the ultimate smoke spot
interests:
being outside and in Read more… nature
walking (with or without dogs)
killing the younglings
reading
socialising, pubs, clubs
finding the ultimate smoke spot
Femdom dating for submissive men
Yeah I get you, better start heading to them a little more often
Femdom dating for submissive men
This is great advice and you're right there is a bit of a kink community in Norwich and I've been to a few of the munches but there is unfortunately very few dommes who are looking for more than just domming. Norwich is flooded with us subs, haha
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I don't know about you guys but I have found it frustratingly difficult to find the right person for me.
As if dating for men in the modern world wasn't difficult enough with apps being flooded by men and women becoming overwhelmed. Finally getting a match only to be ghosted again. To then add in Read more…the very niche element of wanting a partner who likes to dom because you have that submissive craving, a scratch that constantly needs itching. It just feels more hopeless.
I thought I'd start this discussion not to just vent but to support one another because it can be tough, emotionally draining and very debilitating to receive constant rejection. There are success stories out there and I think hearing just a few would help keep spirits high.
Feel free to share your stories below, how you met, how your brought up the idea and so on!
As if dating for men in the modern world wasn't difficult enough with apps being flooded by men and women becoming overwhelmed. Finally getting a match only to be ghosted again. To then add in Read more…the very niche element of wanting a partner who likes to dom because you have that submissive craving, a scratch that constantly needs itching. It just feels more hopeless.
I thought I'd start this discussion not to just vent but to support one another because it can be tough, emotionally draining and very debilitating to receive constant rejection. There are success stories out there and I think hearing just a few would help keep spirits high.
Feel free to share your stories below, how you met, how your brought up the idea and so on!
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Steph_Kit8288 ➦Steph_Kit8288 quote Steph_Kit8288:❝Thank you for your opinion, but what you described is not a dominant/sub dynamic. What you are describing, just like you said in your second to last sentence is a girlfriend experience where you share kinks and I can promise you, it’s a lot more than just buying Read more… toys and books.
So let me ask you this, if your best friend’s wife was a baker.. and you have twin eight-year-old boys, suddenly you need two birthday cakes by tomorrow afternoon for their birthday party, let’s just say the other baker that was booked was found on Google, or Craigslist, and weren’t exactly educated.. or had the skills to pull off something that daunting.. or maybe they just got overbooked right? For that service, that your best friend‘s wife is going to provide for you, for two birthday cakes in less than 24 hours for your twin sons, I mean we’re talking about your best friend‘s wife here. Do you think she’s gonna ask you to pay for that? For her time for her knowledge for her skills? Not only that, but are you the type of friend that always expects free items and discounts from your friends and family instead of supporting their small businesses or careers?
I can tell you with my whole chest that lady would laugh in your face and tell you to go get you a Duncan Hines box mix…. And I know this because my other “job” is my own custom cake and wedding catering business that I’ve had for seven years. I work full-time sometimes six days a week during busy season. What you’re missing in all of this is, this isn’t a hobby for a lot of of us! I’m not really sure your experiences have been of a true Dom sub dynamic because I don’t think if you had that, and had it with someone truly experienced and wanting to tame you.. you’d know it’s a huge toll and responsibility. It takes skills and knowledge and education to even train your mistresses your Dom‘s your owners to keep their own emotions in check, on top of everything else that they’re responsible for, you do realize are 100% in that person‘s hands.. a true Dom in this lifestyle does not take that lightly and once you have that type of experience as a submissive or slave, or brat… that’s when it becomes a difference between a lifestyle decision for you or just a kink you do on occasion. I really do hope that you get to experience this and please again excuse my sassiness and run-on sentences lol. I don’t deal with bras as much anymore, but it’s always fun. 🤩 ❞
i’m so sorry oops I forgot to mention this part so PSS… I know plenty of male Dom’s/ slave owners that charge double triple what a female mistress does and that’s a whole Other ball game!! when you start talking about learning rope play, and things like that that a lot of women cannot do as far as lifting weight like that, come on now there’s a LOT of *** being made by men owners and no, it’s not just gay men paying them, there’s sooo many rope bunnies paying lots and lots of ***! 💪
So let me ask you this, if your best friend’s wife was a baker.. and you have twin eight-year-old boys, suddenly you need two birthday cakes by tomorrow afternoon for their birthday party, let’s just say the other baker that was booked was found on Google, or Craigslist, and weren’t exactly educated.. or had the skills to pull off something that daunting.. or maybe they just got overbooked right? For that service, that your best friend‘s wife is going to provide for you, for two birthday cakes in less than 24 hours for your twin sons, I mean we’re talking about your best friend‘s wife here. Do you think she’s gonna ask you to pay for that? For her time for her knowledge for her skills? Not only that, but are you the type of friend that always expects free items and discounts from your friends and family instead of supporting their small businesses or careers?
I can tell you with my whole chest that lady would laugh in your face and tell you to go get you a Duncan Hines box mix…. And I know this because my other “job” is my own custom cake and wedding catering business that I’ve had for seven years. I work full-time sometimes six days a week during busy season. What you’re missing in all of this is, this isn’t a hobby for a lot of of us! I’m not really sure your experiences have been of a true Dom sub dynamic because I don’t think if you had that, and had it with someone truly experienced and wanting to tame you.. you’d know it’s a huge toll and responsibility. It takes skills and knowledge and education to even train your mistresses your Dom‘s your owners to keep their own emotions in check, on top of everything else that they’re responsible for, you do realize are 100% in that person‘s hands.. a true Dom in this lifestyle does not take that lightly and once you have that type of experience as a submissive or slave, or brat… that’s when it becomes a difference between a lifestyle decision for you or just a kink you do on occasion. I really do hope that you get to experience this and please again excuse my sassiness and run-on sentences lol. I don’t deal with bras as much anymore, but it’s always fun. 🤩 ❞
i’m so sorry oops I forgot to mention this part so PSS… I know plenty of male Dom’s/ slave owners that charge double triple what a female mistress does and that’s a whole Other ball game!! when you start talking about learning rope play, and things like that that a lot of women cannot do as far as lifting weight like that, come on now there’s a LOT of *** being made by men owners and no, it’s not just gay men paying them, there’s sooo many rope bunnies paying lots and lots of ***! 💪
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· 29.11.2025 14:30:30
Steph_Kit8288 ➦Steph_Kit8288 quote Steph_Kit8288:❝Thank you for your opinion, but what you described is not a dominant/sub dynamic. What you are describing, just like you said in your second to last sentence is a girlfriend experience where you share kinks and I can promise you, it’s a lot more than just buying Read more… toys and books.
So let me ask you this, if your best friend’s wife was a baker.. and you have twin eight-year-old boys, suddenly you need two birthday cakes by tomorrow afternoon for their birthday party, let’s just say the other baker that was booked was found on Google, or Craigslist, and weren’t exactly educated.. or had the skills to pull off something that daunting.. or maybe they just got overbooked right? For that service, that your best friend‘s wife is going to provide for you, for two birthday cakes in less than 24 hours for your twin sons, I mean we’re talking about your best friend‘s wife here. Do you think she’s gonna ask you to pay for that? For her time for her knowledge for her skills? Not only that, but are you the type of friend that always expects free items and discounts from your friends and family instead of supporting their small businesses or careers?
I can tell you with my whole chest that lady would laugh in your face and tell you to go get you a Duncan Hines box mix…. And I know this because my other “job” is my own custom cake and wedding catering business that I’ve had for seven years. I work full-time sometimes six days a week during busy season. What you’re missing in all of this is, this isn’t a hobby for a lot of of us! I’m not really sure your experiences have been of a true Dom sub dynamic because I don’t think if you had that, and had it with someone truly experienced and wanting to tame you.. you’d know it’s a huge toll and responsibility. It takes skills and knowledge and education to even train your mistresses your Dom‘s your owners to keep their own emotions in check, on top of everything else that they’re responsible for, you do realize are 100% in that person‘s hands.. a true Dom in this lifestyle does not take that lightly and once you have that type of experience as a submissive or slave, or brat… that’s when it becomes a difference between a lifestyle decision for you or just a kink you do on occasion. I really do hope that you get to experience this and please again excuse my sassiness and run-on sentences lol. I don’t deal with bras as much anymore, but it’s always fun. 🤩 ❞
If you get to have that experience soon, please tag me and let me know how it goes for you! Where are you worship your mistress, gift her the way she deserves to be gifted since we can’t say that word, and you’re truly fulfilled safely to the point where you can’t wait to come back for more and not in a month not on your birthday, do you want it now. 💖
So let me ask you this, if your best friend’s wife was a baker.. and you have twin eight-year-old boys, suddenly you need two birthday cakes by tomorrow afternoon for their birthday party, let’s just say the other baker that was booked was found on Google, or Craigslist, and weren’t exactly educated.. or had the skills to pull off something that daunting.. or maybe they just got overbooked right? For that service, that your best friend‘s wife is going to provide for you, for two birthday cakes in less than 24 hours for your twin sons, I mean we’re talking about your best friend‘s wife here. Do you think she’s gonna ask you to pay for that? For her time for her knowledge for her skills? Not only that, but are you the type of friend that always expects free items and discounts from your friends and family instead of supporting their small businesses or careers?
I can tell you with my whole chest that lady would laugh in your face and tell you to go get you a Duncan Hines box mix…. And I know this because my other “job” is my own custom cake and wedding catering business that I’ve had for seven years. I work full-time sometimes six days a week during busy season. What you’re missing in all of this is, this isn’t a hobby for a lot of of us! I’m not really sure your experiences have been of a true Dom sub dynamic because I don’t think if you had that, and had it with someone truly experienced and wanting to tame you.. you’d know it’s a huge toll and responsibility. It takes skills and knowledge and education to even train your mistresses your Dom‘s your owners to keep their own emotions in check, on top of everything else that they’re responsible for, you do realize are 100% in that person‘s hands.. a true Dom in this lifestyle does not take that lightly and once you have that type of experience as a submissive or slave, or brat… that’s when it becomes a difference between a lifestyle decision for you or just a kink you do on occasion. I really do hope that you get to experience this and please again excuse my sassiness and run-on sentences lol. I don’t deal with bras as much anymore, but it’s always fun. 🤩 ❞
If you get to have that experience soon, please tag me and let me know how it goes for you! Where are you worship your mistress, gift her the way she deserves to be gifted since we can’t say that word, and you’re truly fulfilled safely to the point where you can’t wait to come back for more and not in a month not on your birthday, do you want it now. 💖
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· 29.11.2025 14:26:38
Steph_Kit8288 ➦Steph_Kit8288 quote Krateros:❝I never heared of a woman being asked to pay for sex/kink in general, so I guess it is unlikely to ever hear them complain about it... ^^'
Personally I need a connection. Feeling wanted is more important than the act itself and paying for a service ridicules the whole Read more… idea of being dominated to begin with. I have no issue with safe and honest sex work. It's just not my cup of tea and the men colmplaining often say that it started with regular flirting and when they have feelings she asks for payment. That is unethical in my opinion.
Like... There are dungeon masters, who offer generic pen&paper sessions for ***. If one of my friends I play with on a regular basis came up with the idea to charge us *** for his investments in his hobby ... books he wants to read... miniatures he wants to own..., I would scratch my head, too. We often offer each other to share material or buy books. And to close the circle to kink: I buy lots of toys my girlfriend finds interesting... but it is offered not demanded. That makes a huge difference to me. ❞
Thank you for your opinion, but what you described is not a dominant/sub dynamic. What you are describing, just like you said in your second to last sentence is a girlfriend experience where you share kinks and I can promise you, it’s a lot more than just buying toys and books.
So let me ask you this, if your best friend’s wife was a baker.. and you have twin eight-year-old boys, suddenly you need two birthday cakes by tomorrow afternoon for their birthday party, let’s just say the other baker that was booked was found on Google, or Craigslist, and weren’t exactly educated.. or had the skills to pull off something that daunting.. or maybe they just got overbooked right? For that service, that your best friend‘s wife is going to provide for you, for two birthday cakes in less than 24 hours for your twin sons, I mean we’re talking about your best friend‘s wife here. Do you think she’s gonna ask you to pay for that? For her time for her knowledge for her skills? Not only that, but are you the type of friend that always expects free items and discounts from your friends and family instead of supporting their small businesses or careers?
I can tell you with my whole chest that lady would laugh in your face and tell you to go get you a Duncan Hines box mix…. And I know this because my other “job” is my own custom cake and wedding catering business that I’ve had for seven years. I work full-time sometimes six days a week during busy season. What you’re missing in all of this is, this isn’t a hobby for a lot of of us! I’m not really sure your experiences have been of a true Dom sub dynamic because I don’t think if you had that, and had it with someone truly experienced and wanting to tame you.. you’d know it’s a huge toll and responsibility. It takes skills and knowledge and education to even train your mistresses your Dom‘s your owners to keep their own emotions in check, on top of everything else that they’re responsible for, you do realize are 100% in that person‘s hands.. a true Dom in this lifestyle does not take that lightly and once you have that type of experience as a submissive or slave, or brat… that’s when it becomes a difference between a lifestyle decision for you or just a kink you do on occasion. I really do hope that you get to experience this and please again excuse my sassiness and run-on sentences lol. I don’t deal with bras as much anymore, but it’s always fun. 🤩
Personally I need a connection. Feeling wanted is more important than the act itself and paying for a service ridicules the whole Read more… idea of being dominated to begin with. I have no issue with safe and honest sex work. It's just not my cup of tea and the men colmplaining often say that it started with regular flirting and when they have feelings she asks for payment. That is unethical in my opinion.
Like... There are dungeon masters, who offer generic pen&paper sessions for ***. If one of my friends I play with on a regular basis came up with the idea to charge us *** for his investments in his hobby ... books he wants to read... miniatures he wants to own..., I would scratch my head, too. We often offer each other to share material or buy books. And to close the circle to kink: I buy lots of toys my girlfriend finds interesting... but it is offered not demanded. That makes a huge difference to me. ❞
Thank you for your opinion, but what you described is not a dominant/sub dynamic. What you are describing, just like you said in your second to last sentence is a girlfriend experience where you share kinks and I can promise you, it’s a lot more than just buying toys and books.
So let me ask you this, if your best friend’s wife was a baker.. and you have twin eight-year-old boys, suddenly you need two birthday cakes by tomorrow afternoon for their birthday party, let’s just say the other baker that was booked was found on Google, or Craigslist, and weren’t exactly educated.. or had the skills to pull off something that daunting.. or maybe they just got overbooked right? For that service, that your best friend‘s wife is going to provide for you, for two birthday cakes in less than 24 hours for your twin sons, I mean we’re talking about your best friend‘s wife here. Do you think she’s gonna ask you to pay for that? For her time for her knowledge for her skills? Not only that, but are you the type of friend that always expects free items and discounts from your friends and family instead of supporting their small businesses or careers?
I can tell you with my whole chest that lady would laugh in your face and tell you to go get you a Duncan Hines box mix…. And I know this because my other “job” is my own custom cake and wedding catering business that I’ve had for seven years. I work full-time sometimes six days a week during busy season. What you’re missing in all of this is, this isn’t a hobby for a lot of of us! I’m not really sure your experiences have been of a true Dom sub dynamic because I don’t think if you had that, and had it with someone truly experienced and wanting to tame you.. you’d know it’s a huge toll and responsibility. It takes skills and knowledge and education to even train your mistresses your Dom‘s your owners to keep their own emotions in check, on top of everything else that they’re responsible for, you do realize are 100% in that person‘s hands.. a true Dom in this lifestyle does not take that lightly and once you have that type of experience as a submissive or slave, or brat… that’s when it becomes a difference between a lifestyle decision for you or just a kink you do on occasion. I really do hope that you get to experience this and please again excuse my sassiness and run-on sentences lol. I don’t deal with bras as much anymore, but it’s always fun. 🤩
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· 29.11.2025 14:25:31
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Oh my god.... this has me, I want this, I need a house like this! 🤤
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