Subs, do you care if you're attracted to your dom?

[Deleted Member]

Attraction is important to me. This is more than a physical attraction but also a mental attraction.

[Re****]

I mean it helps. But maybe I need more practice lol

[Vi****]

Attraction is very important

[Deleted Member]

Well I have almost cum from just a text message so I think that’s a no. The right technique and self confidence is all it takes

[Ki****]

I absolutely would NOT submit to someone I wasn't physically attracted to. For me it would be outright impossible to submit to someone unless I thought they were sexy.

[Deleted Member]

I rather be physically attracted to my dom

[ta****]

Attraction is everything! But my attractions are very character/energy based, not exactly physical. I'm not blind but I certainly become more physically attracted to a person when their character and personality spark something.



I don't primarily base my attractions around physical characteristics alone

[Deleted Member]

I’d need to be attracted to the person

[Pl****]

For sure mines super hot and it would be rly hard to respect him if he wasn't 

[Lucycanb22]

Definitely care but since I’m wired differently I may have not been initially attracted to them and their intelligence changed my mind

[Sc****]

Not if they can start me the way I want

[sl****]

I'm demi sexual so I need the emotional connection and honestly m more attracted to the connection than anything else so looks don't matter to me

[ta****]

For me it's the act I like an am into. I am sure looks do matter but I am more into the service and the act of submitting to their authority

[id****]

Well, yeah. I feel like that's a must lol

[Su****]

I need to feel attraction. After all that’s usually what we see first. And then it’s the depth and character behind it that really makes the connection stronger.

[ne****]

No

[no****]

Both