Tips for butt plugs

[Fo****]

I recently got with this girl who showed an interest in butt plugs and want tips or suggestions 🤔

[Deleted Member]

Put it in her bottom is a good place to start ....:)

[Deleted Member]

Start with the smallest plug you can get and slowly move up to bigger sizes....take your time and practice!! ( USE A SHIT TON OF LUBE TOO )

[JigglyStuff]

slow and steady wins the race

[Ja****]

What do you want to know? I've got extensive experience with all types of toys from butt plugs of all sizes and more

[Be****]

Most sex shops have plug starter kits. The plugs range in length and width. I’d start on the smaller side if she’s never tried anything like that. Maybe you guys try your finger and see how it fits so you have a baseline for size

[Sir-K]

Don't forget, plenty of lube!!

[Lu****]

Don’t overthink it.
Relax
Enjoy

If it’s difficult to get in play with a finger and plenty of lube. Don’t *** anything - the times not right.

Done.

Btw - you’re a lucky fella!

[sl****]

Depends what kind she was looking at. You can get butt plug anywhere. If she like tail one then you might want to get a maid outfit as a bonus

[st****]

Lots kissing and touching some lube and slide it in

[sl****]

I have a whole outfit that goes with my butt plug. when I feel like my femboy side wants to come out. Just be careful. It's an addiction once you get a complete outfit with it

[ga****]

Does she want it done to her or do it to you?
-have to make the person aroused
-lots of lube or anal eaze cream but becareful and don’t rim after applying your lips and tongue with go straight up numb 🤣🤦🏼‍♂️ i know
-slow and patient

[xS****]

Always go slow. Start off with fingers before inserting any plug. Use LOTS of lube. It’ll help if she’s really aroused. Get her to relax as it can feel odd at first and might make her resist a little. For beginners avoid glass/metal toys or anything too rigid, highly recommend silicone it’s flexible and will move naturally with her body.

[Ba****]

Get a 3 plug kit and lube. start anal training from small to large. Take your time with this so she enjoys it and doesn’t have a bad experience.

[so****]

And do not use numbing lube! You both need to be able to respond to how it feels, and make sure no one gets hurt.

[Sp****]

Okay I'm not even going to try to be discreet with this one. Like others have said, you want to do the three size kit. I won't kink shame anyone, if it's for you or her. The person needs to be relaxed, sometimes I have found that putting it in some warm or hot water for a couple minutes also be benefiting. Start with a glob of lube right at the opening as well as smeared all over the plug take it and slide it around the hole and slowly go in and out. Maybe even use a finger preferably a pinky first. The person needs to relax, it can feel like the person is pooping. . (No Way Around It) It can have that feeling until you've learned to relax enough. The silicone ones are the best because they do move around with your positioning, they're not rigid, and they still hold the heat from the hot water. I would say not to leave it in for a long time and then just pull it out.. I would say dance around with the In-N-Out for a while so that the opening can relax and doesn't bite down on it. If that happens when you pull it out it will not be a very fun feeling.

[Ha****]

Squarepeg toys egg plugs. Best butt plugs ever. Get the soft orange silicone ones.

[ja****]

There's no such thing as too much lube. Literally. Just don't use anything that numbs or has sone type of effect because if something were to go wrong, unlikely, you want to be able to it and stop immediately. If it's numb and you tear something, there's higher chance of doing damage and not noticing.
Also do some research on Bodysafe toys and what lubes don't mix with which toys. And that's in general, not just buttstuff.

[un****]

I’d also like to mention enemas. I think they really help alleviate some of the anxiety about hygiene issues. It takes time and there’s a learning curve, but it makes you more relaxed to start as well. I’d also say that eating a high carb low fat diet 24 hours before is very helpful.

[Di****]

If you're going for long term wearing steer clear from silicone or any other type of semi porous material, stainless is your best bet, and if you're after dilation training you'll want to go up incrementally, I've got a link for a dilation plug training set I've brought for my subs

[Kr****]

You do not need an enema. A small anal shower, which removes the stuff close to the entrance is perfect to take her *** of being visibly dirty away, but does not hurt the bacteria that schould stay in there for a healthy body.

Get a starter kit with different sizes and take lots of time.

Use plenty of lube, that does not damage the toy and is fit for anal use. Standard water based lube will dry very fast and then wearing the toy won't be fun. Silicone lube damages silicone toys. There are oile based lubes (expensive) and special anal ones, that are water based but mixed with a bit if silicone. So it works better analy but does not damage toys.

[Deleted Member]

Butt plugs are fun an all but ladies have you had a guy put an ice cube inside your bumhole yet??

[Vulkan69]

On 6/27/2025 at 2:37 PM, MrLzf1050 said:

Butt plugs are fun an all but ladies have you had a guy put an ice cube inside your bumhole yet??

They can cause ice burns so you need to be careful