Ladies/ Dominatrix | How do you like to bust balls

[bo****]

Just wondering how do you ladies like to bust balls? Do you squeeze them till they are blue? Do you like to kick them? Do you jerk the cock and then bust them? Details please

[ma****]

Love it

[sillysub]

2 hours ago, madameronnie said:

Love it

I think he asks what your methods of ball busting are not if you enjoy it 

[Deleted Member]

Tying them up to a post and watching subs strangle their own balls on all fours while they try to crawl to my bare pussy mere inches away for a veritable feast ❤️

[ol****]

I always wanted to ask, the action of hurting, do subs ever *** that their own dom doesn’t respect them? Like bull busting, that could easily get very messy if done wrong, don’t you guys *** losing use of your testicles? Apologies I’m not criticising, I’m just a little confused as I’m not one to partake in this sort of thing, and personally I’ve started to believe that some people claim to be doms, sadistic, but don’t actually value the individual? Is this a wrong assumption or has the idealisation of domination changed? For example, if your balls actually did bust would the dominant person take ownership? As I don’t think they’re suppose to burst right?

[Deleted Member]

14 minutes ago, oliver6996 said:

I always wanted to ask, the action of hurting, do subs ever *** that their own dom doesn’t respect them? Like bull busting, that could easily get very messy if done wrong, don’t you guys *** losing use of your testicles? Apologies I’m not criticising, I’m just a little confused as I’m not one to partake in this sort of thing, and personally I’ve started to believe that some people claim to be doms, sadistic, but don’t actually value the individual? Is this a wrong assumption or has the idealisation of domination changed? For example, if your balls actually did bust would the dominant person take ownership? As I don’t think they’re suppose to burst right?

In my case, that is very much the wrong assumption. My boys are on pedestals. I'm just on the much higher pedestal overlooking them.

But genuinely as in all good kink, it's all about being responsible and communicating.

[ol****]

12 minutes ago, BBWDomme said:

In my case, that is very much the wrong assumption. My boys are on pedestals. I'm just on the much higher pedestal overlooking them.

But genuinely as in all good kink, it's all about being responsible and communicating.

Do you mean a literal or metaphysical pedestal in this case? - and if the assumption is very much wrong, how do you dissociate from your actions of hurting your sub - do doms ever have remorse even if a person wants it?

Again apologies I’m trying to gain understanding, and if my words offended that’s purely not my intention

But as you said it’s all about communication and responsibility

[Deleted Member]

8 minutes ago, oliver6996 said:

Do you mean a literal or metaphysical pedestal in this case? - and if the assumption is very much wrong, how do you dissociate from your actions of hurting your sub - do doms ever have remorse even if a person wants it?

Again apologies I’m trying to gain understanding, and if my words offended that’s purely not my intention

But as you said it’s all about communication and responsibility

It's a mutual thing love. They're asking to be hurt, we're giving them what they want. What we also enjoy. And aftercare is huge, making sweet Littles feel safe, warm, and loved.

[ol****]

24 minutes ago, BBWDomme said:

It's a mutual thing love. They're asking to be hurt, we're giving them what they want. What we also enjoy. And aftercare is huge, making sweet Littles feel safe, warm, and loved.

But isn’t the action of wanting to be hurt actually just self harm? But they aren’t doing it themselves? Although a crude example, if someone asks you to cut off their arm, because they want it- do you do it?

Actually I guess that depends on your level of *** you chose to inflict and they chose to agree to - but do you ever wonder, if you care so much about your subs that your actions are wrong or right for them?

I guess that level of trust must come with the caveats of knowing everything on how your sub may respond

Oh and as for aftercare, how do you dissociate from being the person who inflicts *** to the one that gives a sense of warmth?

These dynamics really are interesting, maybe that level of trust is what all people need- but I wonder, if your sub would suddenly change and no longer want said dynamic, would you still love them? Or would you find the relationship no longer compatible

Guess those are some deep questions, but I’m interested to know your answer, as you seem very familiar with the subject.

I guess it comes down to again trust, respect, love, and understanding- if a person wants what they want, and you live them, I guess you do what you do to make them feel happy.

[Deleted Member]

5 minutes ago, oliver6996 said:

But isn’t the action of wanting to be hurt actually just self harm? But they aren’t doing it themselves? Although a crude example, if someone asks you to cut off their arm, because they want it- do you do it?

Actually I guess that depends on your level of *** you chose to inflict and they chose to agree to - but do you ever wonder, if you care so much about your subs that your actions are wrong or right for them?

I guess that level of trust must come with the caveats of knowing everything on how your sub may respond

Oh and as for aftercare, how do you dissociate from being the person who inflicts *** to the one that gives a sense of warmth?

These dynamics really are interesting, maybe that level of trust is what all people need- but I wonder, if your sub would suddenly change and no longer want said dynamic, would you still love them? Or would you find the relationship no longer compatible

Guess those are some deep questions, but I’m interested to know your answer, as you seem very familiar with the subject.

I guess it comes down to again trust, respect, love, and understanding- if a person wants what they want, and you live them, I guess you do what you do to make them feel happy.

I would say message me if you'd like to hear more thoughts, you're blowing up poor OPs post

[It****]

I have never done this. I have had men ask me or tell me they want me to do it. I will say I have been cumming hard to ball busting videos. But part of me thinks I would feel bad afterwards lol. I am definitely more on the softer side but I have a feral side. If that’s what they want then I would bust the hell out of their balls….it’s so hot. I would make sure to provide lots of aftercare though.

[Va****]

I haven’t yet ball busted anyone……. Yet. Busy slowly I get my subs to like their balls being tied up and flicked. One day they’ll need more a *** stimulus

[Th****]

It all depends on the sub. They are not the same. Your choices are as big as your creativity and imagination.

[Ni****]

i like to kick more than squeeze

[Di****]

Just now, NinaFatal said:

i like to kick more than squeeze

Not on a first date!

[Ne****]

As a submissive who has enjoyed extreme ballbusting for over 20 years, this is one of my favorite things to have done. I enjoy the ***. I also enjoy the fact that a Domme is getting pleasure from dealing this *** to me.

[Ne****]

Payne = ***

[Deleted Member]

Probably different but I’ve always wanted to be the submissive/dominated one in a 2 on 1 femdom ballbust but with me wearing a Muay Thai cup. So more like cup testing.

[Do****]

Providing the sub is up for it….. squeezing with hand; hitting with cane, paddle or crop; using a ball stretcher; attaching weights; humbler; ball crusher device (the ones that squash them as your turn the screws); electro stim on them; Violet wand on them; nettles; pin wheel; taping them; wrapped in film;

[Jucal]

I'm not looking for quick scenes.
I'm not here for attention, flattery, or fantasy chats.
I’m seeking one, for something that takes time, patience, and surrender.

Long-term to Me means structure, growth, and deep obedience.
It means protocol when you’re with Me—
and restraint even when you’re not.

I enjoy training. I enjoy molding. I enjoy control that reaches beyond the bedroom.

This is not about daily ***, but daily presence.
This is for someone who wants to belong, not just serve.

Gender is open.
Intent is not.

Message with clarity, respect, and purpose.
Don’t tell Me what you want.
Tell Me what you can give—and how long you’re willing to give it.

[Di****]

2 hours ago, Jucal said:

I'm not looking for quick scenes.
I'm not here for attention, flattery, or fantasy chats.
I’m seeking one, for something that takes time, patience, and surrender.

Long-term to Me means structure, growth, and deep obedience.
It means protocol when you’re with Me—
and restraint even when you’re not.

I enjoy training. I enjoy molding. I enjoy control that reaches beyond the bedroom.

This is not about daily ***, but daily presence.
This is for someone who wants to belong, not just serve.

Gender is open.
Intent is not.

Message with clarity, respect, and purpose.
Don’t tell Me what you want.
Tell Me what you can give—and how long you’re willing to give it.

Now this is an interesting take, confusing actually. Oh well. You remember we are talking about crushing your nuts yeah? Remember this old song?





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What you need is someone strong to guide you
Deaf and blind and dumb and born to follow
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Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life now?
Open my eyes, blind me with your light now
If you want to get your soul to heaven
Trust in me now, don't you judge or question
You are broken now, but faith can heal you
Just do everything I tell you to do
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life now?
Open my eyes, blind me with your light now
Jesus Christ, why don't you come save my life now?
Open my eyes, blind me with your light now
Deaf and blind and dumb and born to follow
Let me lay my holy hand up, hand upon you
My God's will
Becomes me
When he speaks
He speaks through me
He has needs
Like I do

[ro****]

I like being kicked and stomped 

[Gr****]

I recently saw video of someone using them as a s***d bag: the man was above, sitting on some sort of platform with a hole in it. She was wearing some sort of padded mitt or tape around her knuckles. She was putting some power behind her punches.

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I'd pictured more of a relaxed, constant motion of both hands the way I've seen people use s***d bags where there's a lot of warm-up before the serious punches start.