Advice on spanking

[Sh****]

Hey all curious about something I have a play partner who loves being put over the knee and spanked. She claims I spank harder and more ***fully than her other play partner but even with hands let alone other tools he leaves much nicer colours and bruises on her ass. Am I missing something as far as technique to specifically bruise rather than just inflict ***? 🤔 Thank you in advance for advice I'm not hugely experienced.

[Deleted Member]

Different implements leave different marks what are you using

[20****]

^true

[Deleted Member]

Make sure it stings but the sing spreads out

[Ti****]

Blunt instrument tends to bruise ' better"

[Ti****]

And heat applied afterwards can encourage the marks to last

[Sh****]

Current using hand, a wooden paddle, a sex toy paddle the flat covered in faux leather kid (not a big fan, some wooden spoons and belts are what I have tried. Want to expand collection with loggers, whips, canes and more.

[Sh****]

2 minutes ago, Tigersmilk said:

And heat applied afterwards can encourage the marks to last

Best way to apply heat afterwards?

[Sh****]

14 minutes ago, Shortyvibes said:

Different implements leave different marks what are you using

I've used hand, hard wood paddle, belts, wooden spoons. Would like to add whips, floggers, and canes to the collection any other recommendations to add?

[Sh****]

6 minutes ago, Tigersmilk said:

And heat applied afterwards can encourage the marks to last

Thanks best way to apply heat after?

[dr****]

My sub likes stingy more than thuddy. I warm her up with the flogger, move to a riding crop. When the *** is flowing I finnish off with a large wooden paddle that has holes in it for air flow. This will bruise. The crop will leave some marks as well.

[sardonicus87]

The key to bruises is warmup, not how hard you hit. A lighter, longer warmup gets *** flowing to the area. More *** in the skin/capillaries, the more the bruise.
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That said, just making bruises or marks shouldn't be the goal. What you need to do is talk to them about how they want to be spanked. Spank them how they want it, bruising be damned.
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Furthermore, if you're seeing pics of the bruising, understand those could be older pics. Many spanking enthusiasts tend to bruise less over time, and bruise less with regular play. Also don't discount the fact that, if it's pics where you're seeing the bruises, the pics could be enhanced.

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6 hours ago, Shinjax_XIII said:

Thanks best way to apply heat after?

Prolly a heat pad

[MH****]

I have used, paddles, flogs, cat-o-9, spoons etc. it seemed like the more attention and work up to get the**** flowing the better it looked when we were finished. The spoons worked, cat and crop but the cane even used left beautiful w*lts and bruises (bruises were not my thing but it’s not all about me) the tigers milk that has been mentioned works great too.