Dom play?!?!

[Deleted Member]

So I’m new to this app and the online bdsm scene, and in the matter of 3 days have encountered something that I’m not even sure how to process. What is with doms dming other doms and trying to assert their dominance? I find is quite pathetic and distasteful, and came across 2 over the past 3 days!! This is a high number for a truly petty move.
I mean a dom that specifically says I’m switch by all means, but get over yourself and stop trying to turn someone into your submissive when they specifically tell you what’s what.
Please do tell if this is a norm on this app, because I really have no patience for that and it makes me wanna *** the moron in front of me

[we****]

Possibly bots, possibly maladjusted humans.

[li****]

No that is not normal! It’s just flat out freaking weird and disrespectful

[TravellingDom71]

No its not the norm, its usually the first act of a very lazy and dim witted scam artist. Luckily the block button works well. Dont let it put you off.

[Deleted Member]

Glad to hear that you all, they were most likely not bot, but definitely lazy asses and the annoying kind😁I did block them both, just wanted to make sure it’s not a norm here

[we****]

There are pig slaughtering operations in Malaysia, in which real people are ***d to create long term relationships with people to get their trust and eventually bank account. Be safe!

[kinkymasterandrew]

First I've heard of it, all your roles are dominant. (I've seen some dominants pick "brat" but you didn't) so I have no idea what they are doing.

[Deleted Member]

Woth your answers I figured it out, they’re being ass holes. Or maybe like our friend suggested they’re bot trying to get to something else

[Ablaze]

After 50 shades vanillas gave themselves all kinds of unearned honorifics and others invented entirely new identites all jockeying for attention. Now we have subs playing referee between online trolls as if that connected to anything remotely like the actual lifestyle. . Members only venues are better.
Inclusivity ruins everything.

[La****]

Trust me. They’re all just bum ass degenerates who don’t have a spine of character. Either don’t read any infos about you bcs they don’t give a fuck, or just don’t respect you as yourself, only see women for servitude roles—therefore they tried to ‘assert dominance’ in the most loser way. Just block them.

[we****]

If they message 1,000 people and say 10% reply, that’s a “conversion funnel” with 100 leads, and a six week conversion with a message every 2 or 3 hours could yield 5,000$ value… There are plenty of people who are happy to lie to rich westerns for that kind of payoff.

Hey, why am I so fun? All in service. Arf!

[Deleted Member]

Yeah that happen a lot or they tell me that they a switch. A men without a profil that say they are a slave or sub dont trust them.

[Kr****]

Dammit girl, tell us how you ReAlLy feel! I love to hear a woman speak up, and you did it with style and grace! As a man, I would like to apologize for those of my gender who have not yet accepted the fact that they are not wanted by some, and have that "I'll change their mind" mentality. Some of us are anemic, and we have barely enough *** for one head to work at a time.

I hope that the mental midgets of the world leave you to your peace, and pleasure, sometime soon. I'm going to send you a friend request, because I like your moxie. You're wonderfabulous!

[Deleted Member]

13 hours ago, Ablaze said:

After 50 shades vanillas gave themselves all kinds of unearned honorifics and others invented entirely new identites all jockeying for attention. Now we have subs playing referee between online trolls as if that connected to anything remotely like the actual lifestyle. . Members only venues are better.
Inclusivity ruins everything.

Oh my you are absolutely correct, they just had to fuck up the scene. I’ve owned my dogs for 6-12 years between the 3 and never saw the need to use the apps(and thanks god for that) i guess it’s a love and learn type of thing, gotta find better ways to find a replacement 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Deleted Member]

12 hours ago, Lady_King said:

Trust me. They’re all just bum ass degenerates who don’t have a spine of character. Either don’t read any infos about you bcs they don’t give a fuck, or just don’t respect you as yourself, only see women for servitude roles—therefore they tried to ‘assert dominance’ in the most loser way. Just block them.

So true🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️they did get blocked, but it was kind of annoying and I wanted to make sure it wasn’t normal

[Deleted Member]

6 hours ago, MisstresRainbowdash said:

Yeah that happen a lot or they tell me that they a switch. A men without a profil that say they are a slave or sub dont trust them.

Gotta be wary of the red flags girl🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, KrazyScottChatleston said:

Dammit girl, tell us how you ReAlLy feel! I love to hear a woman speak up, and you did it with style and grace! As a man, I would like to apologize for those of my gender who have not yet accepted the fact that they are not wanted by some, and have that "I'll change their mind" mentality. Some of us are anemic, and we have barely enough *** for one head to work at a time.

I hope that the mental midgets of the world leave you to your peace, and pleasure, sometime soon. I'm going to send you a friend request, because I like your moxie. You're wonderfabulous!

Wow thanks Scott. I’m really happy in the world of such morons, men like yourself still exist. For fuck’s sake I even ask subs if it’s ok to call them pup before doing so; I guess some people just weren’t taught manners. And it was wonderful meeting you

[we****]

*takes the w for being useful*

[Kr****]

Well damn, I lost my message to you so here's the re-write. Composure, respect, giving a partner a feeling of security and safety. Those are the things that the hormone chasers lack. They're too busy trying to get as many as possible. They have no concept of what a healthy relationship is.
I'm new here, and would like to add you as a friend. I believe that, with your knowledge and my eagerness to learn,

[Kr****]

We could enjoy something that they can only dream about...

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, well-kept said:

*takes the w for being useful*

Agreed

[Deleted Member]

43 minutes ago, KrazyScottChatleston said:

We could enjoy something that they can only dream about...

I’m new too, just went ahead and added you

[Kr****]

Yay for us! I love it when good things happen to good people. If you're not busy, I am free to chat a little bit. But I'm really enjoying the sunset. Starting to get a little chilly. Might have to put some clothes on. Dammit. I'm not a big fan of clothing when I am not in public...

[Ha****]

Like seriously I'm glad someone said something it's about time ...

[Wi****]

Well said