About me
I’m looking for:
- Kinky Dates
- NSA (no strings...)
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Im a 54 year old married Dom. I travel all over the UK for work and im looking for subs to hook up with while im away working during the week. Im happy to host at whatever hotel im staying at and will happily bring bondage gear and impact toys to use on you. I am only interested in meeting and chatting with females or the odd cuck male if you are interested in me playing with your wife/gf.
I have lots of interests but the main ones are bondage, impact play and orgasm control. I am very generous with giving pleasure but it will always be on my terms. I am a Dom that likes to give oral but you will be in tight bondage when I do it and maybe screaming into a gag when I keep going past your first orgasm.
I am happy to play at any level of intensity, if you want me to leave marks i will but I will always respect boundaries, limits and safe words. Always SSC but enjoy RACK aswell.
If you like the look of my profile get in touch.
Im an absolute gentleman in public, but a very kinky Dom who will use your kinks to turn you into an obedient and enthusiastic sextoy in private Xxx.
Limits
, underage, branding, cutting, .
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Hook (Active)
- Anal Play (Active)
- Anal Sex (Active)
- Anal Beads (Active)
- Anal Plugs (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag (Active)
- BDSM (Active)
- BDSM Collar (Active)
- BDSM Gimp (Active)
- Begging (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Shackles (Active)
- Bondage Belt (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs (Active)
- Bondage Harness (Active)
- Bondage Hood (Active)
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Breast Binder (Active)
- Caregiver / little (Active)
- Chains (Active)
- Collar & Leash (Active)
- Corsets (Active)
- Cuckold (Active)
- Lingerie Fetish (Active)
- Dildos (Active)
- Dirty Talk (Active)
- Discipline (Active)
- Domination (Active)
- Double Penetration (Active)
- Edgeplay (Active)
- Edging (Active)
- Elbow Harness (Active)
- Erotica (Active)
- Exhibitionism (Active)
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- Face Slapping (Active)
- Restraints (Active)
- Fetish Wear (Active)
- Fingering (Active)
- Fisting (Active)
- Floggers (Active)
- Foreplay
- Gags (Active)
- Glove Fetish (Active)
- Rubber Fetish (Active)
- Hair Pulling (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Heterosexual (Active)
- High Heel Fetish (Active)
- Humiliation (Active)
- Hobble Skirt (Active)
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Head Harness (Active)
- Patent Leather Fetish (Active)
- Latex Fetish (Active)
- Leather Fetish (Active)
- Licking
- Armbinder (Active)
- Nipple Clamps (Active)
- Nipple Play (Active)
- Nipples
- Nylon Fetish (Active)
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control (Active)
- Spanking Paddles (Active)
- Pinching (Active)
- Post Orgasm Torture (Active)
- Posture Collar (Active)
- PVC Fetish (Active)
- Ring Gag (Active)
- Role Play (Active)
- Sadism (Active)
- Shoe Fetish (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Sex Chat (Active)
- Younger Sex Partners (Active)
- Older Sex Partners (Active)
- Sex Toys (Active)
- Slave Training (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Spit Fetish (Active)
- Stocking Fetish (Active)
- Suspension Cuffs (Active)
- Underwear Fetish (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
- Voyeurism (Active)
- Whips (Active)
My places
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I think maybe those first questions are to establish if there is compatibility. I have always practised the SSC and RACK approach so I make the assumption that the person im chatting with will know their safety is my most important concern. Its enlightening to be shown that It might not have been Read more… as obvious to them as it is to me that I think that way, but that's a me problem because I had communicated that at the outset.
Thank you for highlighting this, as I hadn't thought about it before.
No its not the norm, its usually the first act of a very lazy and dim witted scam artist. Luckily the block button works well. Dont let it put you off.
Ablaze you must be very wise indeed if you know what all singles want.
There seems to be a lot of judgement on here. Im married and I put it on my profile and i make sure anyone im talking to about meeting knows that. In the past 5 years I have had 2 long term play partners, both married women. One for 18 months and my current sub for 2 1/2 years and still going Read more… strong. In both dynamics we were/are getting something from eachother that we weren't getting at home and rather than ending our otherwise very happy but sexless marriages, one involving 3 *** we as grown up rational adults decided to cheat. The comments from people who say it lacks integrity, or lack of communication skill, or im not acting my age or anyone else that is scandalised by such behaviour seems to be very narrow minded. I am an open minded person, I dont discriminate against anybody when it comes to race, religion or sexual orientation so why would I do it when it comes to marital status. Im a hedonist, I try to get enjoy all aspects of my life.
I am in this situation myself. Im lucky that I work away from home a lot so I can keep separation, avoid doing things on my doorstep and my company pay for the hotels. In my experience very few women are totally anti married guys if you click, but some will just block you.
I can remember going to the south downs in Sussex to watch the leonid meteor shower that happens in December. I always wanted to see a meteor. We took a flask of hot chocolate and blankets to lie on, found a good spot and waited hoping to see one. It was a clear night and at the height of the Read more… shower we were counting about 15 a min between us it was spectacular, fucking cold but spectacular.
Respect is earned, but if you respect someone are you not gifting them your admiration for what they stand for or how they conduct themselves. If you agree that this is how respect works then is submission not the same?
Most people have a preconceived notion of what they are looking for in a partner, the best thing you can do is be your authentic self, then the people you click with are probably looking for someone like you. Then all you need to do is break the ice and seduce them, easy right.
I think its natural that things evolve, even your kinks. Most humans are inquisitive by nature which is why we have evolved to dominate our rock. Your kinky evolution is probably a microcosm of that. I think the best thing you can do is find a partner or partners that you trust who is/are as Read more… experimental as you and revel in it. Some things will always be staples, for instance oral sex and bondage are never going out of fashion, but trustful exploration can never be a bad thing.
I am happy and content as a human being. I know i have sexual proclivities that not everyone would agree with but I am happy in the fact that I can share them with like minded people on sites like this and find sexual partners with reciprocal kinks and fetishes to have great sex with. I dont Read more… however feel the need to broadcast this or inflict it on the vanilla world. If that is what you are suggesting I would encourage you to begin your campaign with a long hard look in mirror and think long and hard about what you are trying to achieve.
I largely agree with Leoloves and Ms Red. Seeing as this issue is largely with friends and acquaintances I would recommend a very specific safe word that you can use in chat or in person and explain to them that if you use it its because they are overstepping and they need to backtrack and talk Read more… with you for further explanation. The genuine people will learn very quickly about these boundaries and modify their behaviour. The ones who don't are not people you should allow the opportunity to overstep. Hope this helps.
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