Shoe Fetish

Shoes, boots and footwear lovers

For everyone with a shoe fetish

The leather-clad dominatrix walking over the back of a prone submissive man while wearing vastly high spike stilettos is a hallmark of the popular perception of BDSM. While this does of course happen in real life it's not the be all and end all of shoe fetishes; people of all gender identities and sexual orientations often appreciate the look, feel and mystique of a good pair of shoes. For some people this can involve wanting to help people put them on and take them off, or wanting to lick the sole clean or suck on the heels; shoe worship is common amongst kinksters, too.

What is shoe fetish? 

Viewing shoes, boots and footwear of all kinds as sexually attractive means you have a fetish, not necessarily for feet but just shoes or maybe both. If the sexy shoe fits, be proud of your fetish!

Is it okay to have a women’s shoe fetish?

Yes, it is. Whether you enjoy wearing them, touching them or seeing women’s feet in shoes it’s totally fine to have a fetish for women’s shoes. If you’re concerned about your fetish, if you feel it’s taking up too much or your time or your thoughts, then get in touch with a medical professional. Otherwise, have fun!

Can I have a shoe fetish and not a foot fetish?

Yes, some people are just turned on by the shoes, not the feet in them and that’s perfectly fine. Enjoy your fetish your way.

Is it safe to have sex with high heel shoes?

Not really, no. Even if they’re brand new, the heel can rip and tear at the delicate internal flesh when inserted. There are shoes that have dildo heels especially for inserting, if you really want to do this, it’s best to buy something designed to be fucked.

Threads and discussions that include: Shoe Fetish

  • Feet on belly

    I love it when a woman rubs and caresses my bare belly with her bare feet. Is there anyone else that loves that? It is the reason I have a foot fetish. ...
  • Looking to see if the foot fetish is more common for the BARE soles and toes or more about high heels and stockings? Mine is for a ldies BARE feet ...
  • Feet in the scene

    Now, I’ve said this before on here, but I wouldn’t call myself gay…but I do get off on being dominated by males, and having my feet played with and/or punished by a master. My question is, how common ...
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