Physical chastity vs mental chastity.

[kr****]

Eigh***. It was 18 days of physical chastity he was put through. Only to take his cage off when it was a necessity. I always loved the start of a chastity lock. I'd watch as he put it on, making him feel even more submissive along the way. I take the key, the lock, twist and pull. I always had the main key; a key was hidden for emergencies. It was 18 days of physical chastity he was put through. The physical part was, well, what you would imagine. He loved it. He hated it. He didn't know what to feel about it. The emotions were so very mixed but ultimately it was where he wanted and needed to be. We'd go out in public - the store or the park - he did not hesitate. He obeyed. He wore his cage for 18 days straight. This is where he's most submissive. There is no talking back. There is no playful attitude. It is only serving daddy.

Twenty. He's now on day 20 of mental chastity. I have allowed him to pleasure himself, but he *cannot* finish. The consequences will be severe, but he must be pushed to his mental and physical limits. He uses a vibrator on himself while scrolling through his phone looking at his favorite videos - as I directed him to. He asks me if I'll help him with the pleasure; I indulge. At some point it becomes so intense that he repeats "stop stop stop I'm going to finish, stop". He doesn't realize that I moved my hand away 5 seconds ago. His eyes rolled back so far that he was in a different world. 20 days of mental control is really starting to get to him. I can see it. I can feel it. I can sense it.

I'm not sure how much longer I'll keep this hold on him. At some point he does need some relief of his own. The question is when, and how?

[bl****]

I’m wet

[Se****]

I would say have a talk with him. 30/31 days is a full month and in my opinion, while ***, is possible. And when that time comes, you know it's going to be a fantastic bliss with lots of cuddling and care afterwords. Do a mental check in while keeping your dominance. I was once withheld and I lasted 45 days. On day 44, I couldn't handle it anymore. It was taking a horrible toll on my mental health, I got very depressed and was crying all the time. He realized it and on day 45, it was magical. The best day of my life. We had hours of fun, edging, and when he finally let me release, let's just say the pacific ocean had nothing on me that day. It made our bond so much stronger and brought us closer together. But 44 days is my limit. And he respected that. We did it a few times. I've never made it past 44, and because of the love, trust and respect we had for each other, he didnt push me past it. Hope that helps! 💚

[ba****]

I'm in awe 🫢 🥵