Submission Experiences

[Ho****]

@imalluring the rules are simples. They are the ones you have agreed with your dom. That would include stating your hard limits, which means the dom cannot cross it. As some one said above if he/she/they does then you need to run.

@BrambleBryar you should not drop any of your boundaries because a dom want you to!!! It needs to come from you to ask / agree with your dom to try to push them if you are interested but that's it.

The sub is the one in control, the dom only set the pace, the order of play and choose from the range of agreed / allowed activities.

[Ch****]

Unless it causes physical harm, I will endure any ***, discipline, or *** that does not physical

[Ch****]

…..harm! My last girlfriend was not experienced, but was an excellent sadistic ***r! She broke me down to tears, but then was able to pull it back!

[CopperKnob]

I have a new status on my profile, its my new mantra. You can always msg me. Ill be sober soon but i know how insular and isolating it can feel

[xLittle_Lady_of_Lotx]

I'm always happy to make sub friends!

[Ki****]

What you’re describing sounds a lot like “sub frenzy”. It’s worth looking into for any new subs. If you’re looking for an online community of subs, I recommend trying FetLife. The groups and forums are a lot more active than here, and there a lot more of them. If you really want to get to know some other subs though, I can’t recommend attending kink events highly enough. The kind most people start with are munches, which are gatherings of kinky people in vanilla social settings like pubs and bars. There’s usually at least one in every large town. People wear normal clothes and chat about normal stuff and it’s a great way to get to know other kinky people. The easiest way to find your local munch is on FetLife.