What're the greatest barriers to orgasm you've encountered?

[Deleted Member]

Test

[Mi****]

For me it'd be insecurity or doubting the other person.

[Deleted Member]

Losing the key!!

[ne****]

15 hours ago, Caged_*** said:

Losing the key!!

As in to your cage?

[ne****]

On 2/10/2022 at 11:14 AM, MissyLoveU22 said:

For me it'd be insecurity or doubting the other person.

Makes sense. The following study identified 'lack of feeling safe' as the primary obstacle to female orgasm.

ncbi*

Edited February 11, 2022 by FETMOD-TF
*External link removed

[ne****]

Wednesday at 06:29 PM, buffalo947 said:

Test

As in testosterone?

[Deleted Member]

Just not being in the right mindset and trying to *** yourself to be in the mood, I would rather a partner just tell me straight up like hey I’m actually not feeling it today than for us to just not have a good time

[Deleted Member]

Never can relax enough to orgasm from just oral. I often wonder if it’s me or the partners I’ve had

[ShySailor98]

Not being fully comfortable with my partner. Also there was never enough foreplay. Always sex was too quick for me. I had to fake a lot.

[tr****]

Psych meds *** fetishes age fantasies experience and of course if it wasn’t for bad luck then I would have no luck at all LOL

[Ig****]

The face of “aren’t you going to cum yet? Cause I’m trying hard here” when I like to take that to the edge…

[JR****]

Wait . I know this one. ADD . Freakin squirrels.

[Deleted Member]

around the time I stopped working out, drank a bit more and a friend of mine passed away. It took some serious critical reflection 

[St****]

The greatest barrier is definitely me, myself and I. I just really REALLY like to postpone it as long as possible and fully immerse myself in the high I get, caused by the sight, the feeling, the smell the sound, and the reaction of my partner. When I'm in that high I get more and more uninhibited, start to dirtytalk automatically and that feeling or that state of mind basically feels just as good,or even better, than cumming to me... and I just keep on stalling and stalling

[re****]

ADHD.

[to****]

When someone says “c*m for me baby!” I immediately dry up. 😂