Pa**** Posted October 16, 2022 Posted October 16, 2022 What do you feel are the roots of your dominance/submission? Do you think it has something to do with childhood? Is it a relationship management tool as in the practice of domestic discipline? Is it a sexual thrill or something else? Previous (days) questions@ Q5, Q4, Q3, Q2,, Q1
Pa**** Posted October 16, 2022 Author Posted October 16, 2022 D: Dont want to go all freudian on this, but maybe the reverse of some powerfull people wanting to submit to release I do want control that I was not allowed to have I am good at/in control but do mnot want imore in a professional capacity , as in complete control. The dominance is not a sexual thing, my sadism is however
Petticoatnpearls Posted October 16, 2022 Posted October 16, 2022 For me I stay so in control all the time. That having someone that I trust that I can feel safe relinquishing my control over to id the only way I can release.
jo**** Posted October 16, 2022 Posted October 16, 2022 I’m just super kinky. I have been pretty much all of my life. I have no idea what tripped the switch, but I find the more I explore the more I enjoy. I used to have play dates with a mistress dom friend where we would visit kink clubs and she’d beat my ass until I collapsed. We’d then laugh and joke about freaking out people for the rest of the evening. Why? Simply because it was fun. It wasn’t a lifestyle, it was just us playing around. Right now I’m flying solo following a rough period in my life which included divorce. I’ve been celibate for over two years and I’m just now starting to come out of my shell.
DTeasedHubby Posted October 16, 2022 Posted October 16, 2022 Mine stems from school. Hearing the girls in my class giggling and laughing for some reason always turned me on, especially at upper school. I didn’t realise at the time but as I hit my twenties I started to understand the kinks out there for *** and realised in early 30’s I was a sub!!
Lord_Talion Posted October 16, 2022 Posted October 16, 2022 Being pushed down and oppressed by society hs 2 results
Convocing Posted October 16, 2022 Posted October 16, 2022 I think it's a mixture of both nature and nurture for me.
Deleted Member Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 I've had a very busy lifestyle and career, my fetishism started out as an escape from it all. Now it is something I partake in for fun
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