You're All Fake!

[Hex1]

Censorship. Hate this place already.

[ma****]

Seriously if ur so fed up why complain and make the rest of us read a long ass paragraph to say that ur disappointed in a mingle app?? Delete it and move on? Why bitch about something you literally won't take control over anyway!? Does life really get that boring when ya grow up 😭

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Yesterday at 04:13 PM, matt_kelsey8003 said:

Seriously if ur so fed up why complain and make the rest of us read a long ass paragraph to say that ur disappointed in a mingle app?? Delete it and move on? Why bitch about something you literally won't take control over anyway!? Does life really get that boring when ya grow up 😭

Hun no one made you read it. Maybe take your advice and move on too 😉

[Female_diogenes]

It's married guys who are like what you described. They never upload pics because they don't want the wife finding out 

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6 hours ago, Female_diogenes said:

It's married guys who are like what you described. They never upload pics because they don't want the wife finding out 

Especially if they are only wanting discretion, only can meet in the morning then they are cheating from what I've seen. So many couples on here have accounts together or even connect their accounts to show that it is an open relationship. The men in open relationships are even open to you talking to their wife about it if you are uncomfortable talking to their husband without their permission. Of course the wife's account can also be faked (but they at least put in the effort hahaha).

[Female_diogenes]

15 hours ago, Fillmedaddy said:

Especially if they are only wanting discretion, only can meet in the morning then they are cheating from what I've seen. So many couples on here have accounts together or even connect their accounts to show that it is an open relationship. The men in open relationships are even open to you talking to their wife about it if you are uncomfortable talking to their husband without their permission. Of course the wife's account can also be faked (but they at least put in the effort hahaha).

Couples are even more annoying than just married cheating guys

Edited February 6, 2025 by Female_diogenes

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1 hour ago, Female_diogenes said:

Couples are even more annoying than just married cheating guys

Why say that? If I may ask.

[Female_diogenes]

1 hour ago, Fillmedaddy said:

Why say that? If I may ask.

I was trying to scratch my craving to sleep with women for a while but I didn't want to date them so I thought trying to be a unicorn would be the best way to get casual sex with women since couples often think adding a woman would spice things up. But it was just all maledom couples I was finding online, I was looking on feeld a lot, but other places too, where the woman didn't seem actually interested in sleeping with women herself, and more interested in me doing stuff with the husband/BF. And I have no desire to be submissive to a man unless he's a bull for me and my cuck. I was single back then too

[ey****]

6 hours ago, Female_diogenes said:

Couples are even more annoying than just married cheating guys

I can understand that.  

There's a couple of female friends I know who do like doing stuff with couples - but they're very cautious for folk online, especially any form of "couples profile" - reasons, you're pretty much always talking to the guy, so it's likely to be about his wants than the f partner (if, ahem, there is one) there's a lot of bait and switch where come the day the f partner will suddenly be unavailable "but we can have fun, right" which often questions if there was a female partner, or if she was even aware.     Then as you say, when it is a couple, because the woman hasn't really been included in negotiations/discussions she's less likely to be engaged with the lady coming in.

 

[Farney]

So your trying too hook up with couples ??

[Deleted Member]

@Female_diogenes mmmmm yeah I do see that a lot. A women wanting to just watch you engaged with their partners... Which I thought was weird because (my man, my man, my man mindset you know) but I am also new on this site so I didn't want to kink shame if a woman actually likes that. But @eyemblacksheep yeah that does sound about how I would think a meet up would go. The women suddenly "being unavailable" no matter how many weeks in advance y'all planned it.

[Si****]

41 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I can understand that.  

There's a couple of female friends I know who do like doing stuff with couples - but they're very cautious for folk online, especially any form of "couples profile" - reasons, you're pretty much always talking to the guy, so it's likely to be about his wants than the f partner (if, ahem, there is one) there's a lot of bait and switch where come the day the f partner will suddenly be unavailable "but we can have fun, right" which often questions if there was a female partner, or if she was even aware.     Then as you say, when it is a couple, because the woman hasn't really been included in negotiations/discussions she's less likely to be engaged with the lady coming in.

 

Yuuup. Had that happen quite a lot when my sub and I were trying to find a full swap couple, and even when trying to organise a MMFF 😒

[ey****]

15 hours ago, Fillmedaddy said:

yeah that does sound about how I would think a meet up would go. The women suddenly "being unavailable" no matter how many weeks in advance y'all planned it.

the first time I think I heard someone mention it, I was a bit "OK, I'm sure that happens but can't be that common, surely..." and, alas.

So whenever I see couples struggling to find someone online; one of my things is - yeah, that's cos the person you're talking to can never be sure who she is talking to, if you're a real couple or how aware the other person is of the conversation - and so on.

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1 hour ago, eyemblacksheep said:

the first time I think I heard someone mention it, I was a bit "OK, I'm sure that happens but can't be that common, surely..." and, alas.

So whenever I see couples struggling to find someone online; one of my things is - yeah, that's cos the person you're talking to can never be sure who she is talking to, if you're a real couple or how aware the other person is of the conversation - and so on.

I feel like the only way to really get is by vc with everyone involved. I would even take it one step further to have everyone in separate rooms in separate accounts so you can talk to each person individually as well since as @female_diogenes mentioned the woman didn't actually seem interested. By having a private conversation you can probably (hopefully) allow her more space to actually speak her peace.

[Si****]

5 hours ago, Fillmedaddy said:

I feel like the only way to really get is by vc with everyone involved. I would even take it one step further to have everyone in separate rooms in separate accounts so you can talk to each person individually as well since as @female_diogenes mentioned the woman didn't actually seem interested. By having a private conversation you can probably (hopefully) allow her more space to actually speak her peace.

That would work.
That reminds me of one time me and my sub met up with a couple for a social. We were looking for a couple with a bi female so girls could play with each other. But during the social it came to truth that the male was more interested in sucking cock than the female was interested in playing with another female 🤣

[ey****]

I think some depends on what the single person wants from the couple, which can vary.

Some of the swinging sites, couples profiles are a bit more common, and a lot have kinda 'testimonials' and some of those are achieved cos the couple will go out together to swinging events and folk can vibe check

Also if there's any kinda online site where you can see two people are a couple, but also acting distinctively on site - especially if someone can again link them back to the 'real world'

 

[br****]

Well there is some validity to it I mean I just look at all the visits my profile gets through the night and by the next day all those profiles are blocked for not following Community standards or for not verifying so obviously there are a lot of fakes out there not to say everybody but a lot I mean we all know what goes on here people advertising trying to make *** probably prostitution I don't know have an encountered it but it is what it is a small price to pay for having Arena such as this to enjoy. I did get a good shot a lot of the inclusivity and warm welcoming arms I'm assuming the poster has never expressed a controversial view on politics religion birth control or any of those topics because I can promise you if you're not good stepping with the crowd you will be attacked for your opinion and it won't be in a cerebral way it'll be slurs and trash talk and derogatory stuff. Found it very disappointed you couldn't expect a forum such as this to welcome different viewpoints and have discussions about it without it instantly degrading into name calling. Just my experience though maybe different for everybody else

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7 minutes ago, bruins said:

Well there is some validity to it I mean I just look at all the visits my profile gets through the night and by the next day all those profiles are blocked for not following Community standards or for not verifying so obviously there are a lot of fakes out there not to say everybody but a lot I mean we all know what goes on here people advertising trying to make *** probably prostitution I don't know have an encountered it but it is what it is a small price to pay for having Arena such as this to enjoy. I did get a good shot a lot of the inclusivity and warm welcoming arms I'm assuming the poster has never expressed a controversial view on politics religion birth control or any of those topics because I can promise you if you're not good stepping with the crowd you will be attacked for your opinion and it won't be in a cerebral way it'll be slurs and trash talk and derogatory stuff. Found it very disappointed you couldn't expect a forum such as this to welcome different viewpoints and have discussions about it without it instantly degrading into name calling. Just my experience though maybe different for everybody else

My profile was blocked for no reason at all and took days to get it back. So while I don't doubt there are scams and workers, you really can't say they all are... especially because you can't really ask unless they come back.

But as for the name calling.... I'm not surprised. Every group in the world does it. No matter how much they don't think they do, they do... they just believe it's justified.

[br****]

I was extremely here to point out that it's not all not even close to all but a large number significant we can say and I got to say it's just the irony of the community of people who have fought so long and so hard to be treated as equals and respected for their differences quickly turn into those that they hated the most by passing judgment on any kind of point of view or opinion that goes against what they feel is right not to say one size right the other side is wrong none of that just doesn't really scream out we are the group of acceptance without judgment who accept all the matter what their difference Maybe I'm sure you can see my point it's pretty tough to stand on top of the hill at the pulpit preaching for acceptance of all no matter there sexual orientation religious beliefs color of skin or sexual appetite and in the same breath just feel the same hatred that the community is suffered so long with.

[ey****]

I guess mind, if someone views or messages you and then the next day you look and find they've been removed - it's a sign that the site DOES take action against fakes/scammers/people-asking-cash which gives more confidence in those that are here. 

[Ki****]

15 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I guess mind, if someone views or messages you and then the next day you look and find they've been removed - it's a sign that the site DOES take action against fakes/scammers/people-asking-cash which gives more confidence in those that are here. 

Not gonna lie, I lead until I’ve a few screenshots of duplicity, then use the Infinity gauntlet on them.

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2 minutes ago, Kinky_Auld_Bastehrd said:

Not gonna lie, I lead until I’ve a few screenshots of duplicity, then use the Infinity gauntlet on them.

Infinity gauntlet?

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19 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I guess mind, if someone views or messages you and then the next day you look and find they've been removed - it's a sign that the site DOES take action against fakes/scammers/people-asking-cash which gives more confidence in those that are here. 

Right again as someone who was falsely accused of being a scam, you can't just say that they are definitely a scammer

[Ki****]

They get Thanos-ed. Gone. Once more free roaming electrons no longer twisted and bent into shells asking for your email…

[ey****]

31 minutes ago, Fillmedaddy said:

Right again as someone who was falsely accused of being a scam, you can't just say that they are definitely a scammer

oh absolutely - if anything the steps are often over-zealous than under