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I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation.
I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind.
Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first.
Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax
Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission.
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Who am I?
I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness..
I enjoy control just as much as surrender....
Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same..
I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery....
I don’t chase fast thrills....
I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest....
Presence over promises always
I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence....
And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness....
A lover of the complexities of the mind.
I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful....
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
A poetic soul, drawn to the path of beauty. 🌹Sapiosexual. Creative being. 🌹Seeking to find a sensual rope partner / rigger - who will delight in having a muse.
Increasingly intrested in the feminine. While deeply grateful for the presence of a grounded masculine.
The bunny in me is hungry for intimacy. Wrapped up in the arms of love. Bound in stillness as time disolves.
My way of relating:
For a long time, submission to dominance fascinated me. Yet, through the journey of coming home to myself - I have found my inner world shift, towards reverence over control. A different kind of relating - rooted in equality, deep presence and respect.
I want to feel cherished. Adorned. Held with care.
I seek a space to soften and blossom open.
I am gratefully under the protection of my Guardian. His presence has taught me much about discernment, trust and being lovingly held while remaining myself.
My body is my temple space. To be greeted in devotion.
Not something to be consumed, conquered or taken from, but something to approach with care. Something to listen to. Something to discover slowly.
I’ve received messages from men who seemed to believe that my submission was something they were entitled to — something owed to them simply because they desired it.
Over time, I began to notice how familiar that energy felt.
The taking. The consuming. The assumption that what is beautiful exists for us to extract from.
It made me think about the wider world we live in, and our relationship with the Earth herself.
I’m interested in another possibility.
A return to reciprocity.
To reverence.
To beauty, balance and harmony.
I’m drawn to people who have the patience to discover rather than the desire to possess. Who can meet me as an equal, and create enough safety for my senses to open.
I love creating spaces where this kind of connection can unfold: beautiful surroundings, music, soft light, rope, conversation, stillness and deep presence.
There can be eros without expectation.
Sensuality without extraction or an end goal - delighting in the process and the present.
I still love deep eye contact. I still love electricity, tension and the delicious edge of anticipation. And, when there is genuine trust and mutual desire, perhaps a little power play too.
But I’m no longer interested in power as something to be taken.
I’m interested in what happens when power is consciously shared.
When two sovereign beings meet with curiosity, care and reverence.
If you are a curious rigger - come and say hello. Let's explore the sensual delights and art we may create together ❤️ 🌹🐍
I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as being able to communicate. Please be respectful. I would like a Dom to lead me, take control, although I know what I enjoy and am open minded to try new things. A connection mentally is essential. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom who enjoys the sensual aspect. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.
i am small, cute, sassy and cheeky. am I looking for friends and conversations, maybe something blooms from that. we'll have to wait and see. I will not send nudes or dirty pics so don't ask me to! Also, when you message please answer this question
Does kinky means easy to you?
Ghosting is a shit thing to do, do not contact if you're someone who does this, I'm interested in connecting deeper than a fuck.
If you're not then I'm not the person you're looking for
**Desires and Fantasies**
bondage
orgasm control
spanking
whips
collars
corsets
heels
hair pulling
this could go on and on.......... ?
Toys
shibari
Hey welcome to my profile
So I have been in this life style for around 10 year.
I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on.
I am looking for real meets with real guys,
if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection.
My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago.
All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy
Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you
I cnt see "likes" so come say hi.
Please read my hard limits as they are important.
I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you
Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other.
My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you.
If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you
Happy hunting and good luck
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more.
**Desires and Fantasies**
I want to just be taken controlled used verbal ***
I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave.
I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed.
I would love to be collared and owned.
My pet side is a Dragon.
I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related
I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
97% Brat
86% Degradee
84% Rope bunny
80% Slave
72% Masochist
62% Primal (Prey)
62% Vanilla
49% Experimentalist
48% Pet
18% Voyeur
14% Switch
8% Exhibitionist
3% Non-monogamist
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Boy/Girl
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Sadist
Saggy udders 🐄
A large hucow who deserves ***
Also a breast feeding fetish ( currently no milk) just sucking and playing, binding..
Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with.
I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I do expect the same in return. Love travelling. I’m also a dancer outside of my job, so I’m a busy girl but I’ll absolutely make time to meet. Working in London
From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know)
**Desires**
Tied up
Pussy spanking (I like it hard)
Rough sex
Oral
Squirting
Edging
CNC
Orgasm denial
Pussy exam with gloves
Clit clamps/pump
I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since.
A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s.
Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids.
I insist on a safe word, even for discipline.
I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me.
I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing.
Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for.
Stephie
Hi all, I'm newish to all this and am just starting out openly like this, I'm a mum of 4 grown up *** and not body confident so am looking for a dominant person to tame me a little because I do love being a brat but also love being controlled. Do you have it in you to tame this fiery red head that is very bratty as has always had to be in control I'm most things in life due to situations and struggles to be able to let go sexually.
Butch bi woman looking for a connection via common interests in both kink and non-kink spheres. While "submissive" might be the catch-all term, alas, I tend to find myself as someone who needs some push and pull as part of a scene.
I like leather in the form of jackets, harnesses, cuffs and collars, hoods, and boots.
Haven't tried floggers but I'll take a paddle. More familiar with cunt but I'll take a cock. Honestly, I'm of the mind that I'll try most things once (maybe more!).
Outside of kink? You'll find me at metal gigs or comic con/expos. Come talk to me about Ayreon or Igorrr, or Trigun or IWTV. I'd say I don't bite but that would be a big fucking lie. I'll bite in a fun way.
BBW looking for nearby romantic Dom. I am a sub and need to get to know that we'll click. Ideally in the Havering area. can't accommodate. Fwb, threesomes mmf, gangbang, regular meet ups are all welcome.
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is.
Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes
I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked.
Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club
**Desires and Fantasies**
I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin.
I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels.
Do like a guy caged.
If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.
And NO, the profile picture is obviously not me. Please, if you have to ask that, don't bother, save us both time!
As it seems not clear enough, I am NOT submissive, I am NOT looking for a dom, master, daddy, whatever.
As of now, I am NOT looking for meet ups, calls, videocalls, etc. That might, and I stress 'might' come with trust.
I decide when that trust is enough.
I am into younger, androgynous, preferably East Asian men.
NO 6 packs please, NO bodybuilders, NO overly muscular/bulky built.
Medium/long hair are very much appreciated.
CFNM = Clothed Female Naked Male is what I am mostly into. Other kinks can be discussed. If I like them, I might try and see how it goes.
Also if you're into watching a woman smoke (capnolagnia) that can be arranged as well.
Be clear and straightforward on what you are looking for, do not waste my time AND yours.
Do not be afraid to say it as it is, I very much prefer the truth to time-wasters. That might even be appreciated and rewarded.
If you're looking for just sex, don't bother.
If you're looking for hook ups, don't bother.
If you're unable to sustain a deep, cultural, artistic, or historical conversation, ABSOLUTELY DON'T BOTHER!
Your pretty cock, won't make you interesting or worthy of my time. Your big cock leaves me completely unfazed. Go find a chavette if you think that alone would make you win.
Gamers are very welcomed and encouraged [Actually looking for someone to try out Skyrim RP].
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub.
A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you.
One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is)
I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it!
I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too.
I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet.
I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude!
I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
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**Slavic Siren, a Sin made to be worshipped.**
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Monogamous as fuck. Taken.
Online and real life domme with a small pack of good boys to take care off.
I’m not interested in more subs, I’m a busy woman. Do not waste my time.
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No, I won’t switch for you. Just stop.
pretty s👱🏻u🧑🏼b👱🏼b👱🏻♂️o👱🏼♂️ys don't exist
I'm strict sassy picky domme
bring no ego with your knees down
★Sub Questionnaire★
- I'm horny ➡️ you're not a sub
- I'm switch ➡️ you're not a sub
- want to be pegged ➡️ think first if you're a gay
- sorry I am at work, sorry I can't do now...blah blah ➡️ sorry you're not my boy
- wanna try new things ➡️ no teacher here
- for fun ➡️ it's not for fun, it's a lifestyle
- I'm sissy or cross-dresser ➡️ strictly forbidden
- I have body or face hair ➡️ I'm grossed out
- I can't send dm, message me ➡️ UPGRADE
- anyways I will send dm ➡️ I don't reply to the illiterate or blind
- don't tick anything up to here ➡️ tell me ur fave fruit in dm to get my response
my chat list is long, but my blocklist is longer
I’m a dominant women, I hope you can handle the sweet and spicy.
I am looking for a good Sub to obey my every wish. You will be rewarded for all your hard work. I am a pleasure Dom but I don’t always play nice.
My kinks are
pegging, choking, spitting, foot-worship, rimming, bondage, bed restrains, sissy/ Harnesses. Spanking and whips.
Just a Sub looking to be Dominated!
All holes available.
I'm willing to try anything at least once.
I don't have the most experience but I'm willing to learn more.
Hard limits:
Feet, ***, poo, vomit, excessive breath play, anything illegal, ***, face slapping.
Emo, metal corporate good girl 😏
Finding myself and my likes after spending my whole adult life in one relationship.
I'm trouble and a bit chaotic, so need someone pretty strong willed. Don't give obedience easily, but in my happiest space when I do.
Open to long term, also won't meet until trust has been established. Slightly jaded by everything dating related recently, need someone who can show me that there's still good guys.
Essex based
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I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation.
I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind.
Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first.
Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax
Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Saggy udders 🐄
A large hucow who deserves ***
Also a breast feeding fetish ( currently no milk) just sucking and playing, binding..
Butch bi woman looking for a connection via common interests in both kink and non-kink spheres. While "submissive" might be the catch-all term, alas, I tend to find myself as someone who needs some push and pull as part of a scene.
I like leather in the form of jackets, harnesses, cuffs and collars, hoods, and boots.
Haven't tried floggers but I'll take a paddle. More familiar with cunt but I'll take a cock. Honestly, I'm of the mind that I'll try most things once (maybe more!).
Outside of kink? You'll find me at metal gigs or comic con/expos. Come talk to me about Ayreon or Igorrr, or Trigun or IWTV. I'd say I don't bite but that would be a big fucking lie. I'll bite in a fun way.
Hi all, I'm newish to all this and am just starting out openly like this, I'm a mum of 4 grown up *** and not body confident so am looking for a dominant person to tame me a little because I do love being a brat but also love being controlled. Do you have it in you to tame this fiery red head that is very bratty as has always had to be in control I'm most things in life due to situations and struggles to be able to let go sexually.
A poetic soul, drawn to the path of beauty. 🌹Sapiosexual. Creative being. 🌹Seeking to find a sensual rope partner / rigger - who will delight in having a muse.
Increasingly intrested in the feminine. While deeply grateful for the presence of a grounded masculine.
The bunny in me is hungry for intimacy. Wrapped up in the arms of love. Bound in stillness as time disolves.
My way of relating:
For a long time, submission to dominance fascinated me. Yet, through the journey of coming home to myself - I have found my inner world shift, towards reverence over control. A different kind of relating - rooted in equality, deep presence and respect.
I want to feel cherished. Adorned. Held with care.
I seek a space to soften and blossom open.
I am gratefully under the protection of my Guardian. His presence has taught me much about discernment, trust and being lovingly held while remaining myself.
My body is my temple space. To be greeted in devotion.
Not something to be consumed, conquered or taken from, but something to approach with care. Something to listen to. Something to discover slowly.
I’ve received messages from men who seemed to believe that my submission was something they were entitled to — something owed to them simply because they desired it.
Over time, I began to notice how familiar that energy felt.
The taking. The consuming. The assumption that what is beautiful exists for us to extract from.
It made me think about the wider world we live in, and our relationship with the Earth herself.
I’m interested in another possibility.
A return to reciprocity.
To reverence.
To beauty, balance and harmony.
I’m drawn to people who have the patience to discover rather than the desire to possess. Who can meet me as an equal, and create enough safety for my senses to open.
I love creating spaces where this kind of connection can unfold: beautiful surroundings, music, soft light, rope, conversation, stillness and deep presence.
There can be eros without expectation.
Sensuality without extraction or an end goal - delighting in the process and the present.
I still love deep eye contact. I still love electricity, tension and the delicious edge of anticipation. And, when there is genuine trust and mutual desire, perhaps a little power play too.
But I’m no longer interested in power as something to be taken.
I’m interested in what happens when power is consciously shared.
When two sovereign beings meet with curiosity, care and reverence.
If you are a curious rigger - come and say hello. Let's explore the sensual delights and art we may create together ❤️ 🌹🐍
BBW looking for nearby romantic Dom. I am a sub and need to get to know that we'll click. Ideally in the Havering area. can't accommodate. Fwb, threesomes mmf, gangbang, regular meet ups are all welcome.
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission.
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Who am I?
I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness..
I enjoy control just as much as surrender....
Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same..
I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery....
I don’t chase fast thrills....
I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest....
Presence over promises always
I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence....
And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness....
A lover of the complexities of the mind.
I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful....
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as being able to communicate. Please be respectful. I would like a Dom to lead me, take control, although I know what I enjoy and am open minded to try new things. A connection mentally is essential. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom who enjoys the sensual aspect. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.
I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since.
A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s.
Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids.
I insist on a safe word, even for discipline.
I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me.
I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing.
Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for.
Stephie
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
97% Brat
86% Degradee
84% Rope bunny
80% Slave
72% Masochist
62% Primal (Prey)
62% Vanilla
49% Experimentalist
48% Pet
18% Voyeur
14% Switch
8% Exhibitionist
3% Non-monogamist
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Boy/Girl
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Sadist
Hey welcome to my profile
So I have been in this life style for around 10 year.
I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on.
I am looking for real meets with real guys,
if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection.
My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago.
All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy
Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you
I cnt see "likes" so come say hi.
Please read my hard limits as they are important.
I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you
Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other.
My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you.
If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you
Happy hunting and good luck
My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed.
I would love to be collared and owned.
My pet side is a Dragon.
I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related
I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with.
I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I do expect the same in return. Love travelling. I’m also a dancer outside of my job, so I’m a busy girl but I’ll absolutely make time to meet. Working in London
From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know)
**Desires**
Tied up
Pussy spanking (I like it hard)
Rough sex
Oral
Squirting
Edging
CNC
Orgasm denial
Pussy exam with gloves
Clit clamps/pump
i am small, cute, sassy and cheeky. am I looking for friends and conversations, maybe something blooms from that. we'll have to wait and see. I will not send nudes or dirty pics so don't ask me to! Also, when you message please answer this question
Does kinky means easy to you?
Ghosting is a shit thing to do, do not contact if you're someone who does this, I'm interested in connecting deeper than a fuck.
If you're not then I'm not the person you're looking for
**Desires and Fantasies**
bondage
orgasm control
spanking
whips
collars
corsets
heels
hair pulling
this could go on and on.......... ?
Toys
shibari
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more.
**Desires and Fantasies**
I want to just be taken controlled used verbal ***
I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave.
I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
And NO, the profile picture is obviously not me. Please, if you have to ask that, don't bother, save us both time!
As it seems not clear enough, I am NOT submissive, I am NOT looking for a dom, master, daddy, whatever.
As of now, I am NOT looking for meet ups, calls, videocalls, etc. That might, and I stress 'might' come with trust.
I decide when that trust is enough.
I am into younger, androgynous, preferably East Asian men.
NO 6 packs please, NO bodybuilders, NO overly muscular/bulky built.
Medium/long hair are very much appreciated.
CFNM = Clothed Female Naked Male is what I am mostly into. Other kinks can be discussed. If I like them, I might try and see how it goes.
Also if you're into watching a woman smoke (capnolagnia) that can be arranged as well.
Be clear and straightforward on what you are looking for, do not waste my time AND yours.
Do not be afraid to say it as it is, I very much prefer the truth to time-wasters. That might even be appreciated and rewarded.
If you're looking for just sex, don't bother.
If you're looking for hook ups, don't bother.
If you're unable to sustain a deep, cultural, artistic, or historical conversation, ABSOLUTELY DON'T BOTHER!
Your pretty cock, won't make you interesting or worthy of my time. Your big cock leaves me completely unfazed. Go find a chavette if you think that alone would make you win.
Gamers are very welcomed and encouraged [Actually looking for someone to try out Skyrim RP].
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub.
A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you.
One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is)
I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it!
I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too.
I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet.
I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude!
I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is.
Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes
I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked.
Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club
**Desires and Fantasies**
I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin.
I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels.
Do like a guy caged.
If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.
pretty s👱🏻u🧑🏼b👱🏼b👱🏻♂️o👱🏼♂️ys don't exist
I'm strict sassy picky domme
bring no ego with your knees down
★Sub Questionnaire★
- I'm horny ➡️ you're not a sub
- I'm switch ➡️ you're not a sub
- want to be pegged ➡️ think first if you're a gay
- sorry I am at work, sorry I can't do now...blah blah ➡️ sorry you're not my boy
- wanna try new things ➡️ no teacher here
- for fun ➡️ it's not for fun, it's a lifestyle
- I'm sissy or cross-dresser ➡️ strictly forbidden
- I have body or face hair ➡️ I'm grossed out
- I can't send dm, message me ➡️ UPGRADE
- anyways I will send dm ➡️ I don't reply to the illiterate or blind
- don't tick anything up to here ➡️ tell me ur fave fruit in dm to get my response
my chat list is long, but my blocklist is longer
I’m reaching out for a play date for me and my husband. a lilttle treat for us both…. message me if this sounds like something you might be interested in. especially if you are open minded 🤪 please don’t message if you’re just time wasting.
Looking for someone who likes to spoil a woman who knows exactly what she wants. 💋
I’m into submissive people, *** dynamics, generosity and letting me take the lead, but I’m also interested in something more genuine than simply exchanging ***.
I want chemistry, flirting, conversation, trust and a connection where the dynamic naturally develops between us. Be respectful, be generous, know your place… and maybe I’ll give you some attention in return. ;)
Princess with a playful pet side.
Looking for an owner who enjoys structure, affection, attention, and a genuine connection.
Spoil me, tame me, adore me.
I am genuine person who is submissive ( woman) in a beautifull D/s dynamic with my Dom (Man) and arw now looking to meet a respectful, genuine submissive woman who is interested in becoming part of our D/s dynamic.
I am interested in finding someone who is open-minded, trustworthy, communicative and understands that a healthy dynamic is built on consent, respect, trust and clear boundaries.
We are not going to rush into anything. I'd rather get to know the right woman to join me, establish a connection and see whether our personalities and desires naturally fit.
If you’re a submissive woman interested in exploring a dynamic with a through and through Dominant Man and his submissive woman, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for and what a D/s relationship means to you.
Please note that a SH testing will be required.
Connection first. Trust always. Submission by choice.
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