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hii im lily, i really want to talk and share pics with some ppl, but be nice please bc i am very new to this 😞
Female (18) Castle Point, Essex
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Who am I? I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness.. I enjoy control just as much as surrender.... Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same.. I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery.... I don’t chase fast thrills.... I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest.... Presence over promises always I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence.... And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness.... A lover of the complexities of the mind. I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful.... • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Female (39) Epping Forest, Essex
I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation. I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first. Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Female (33) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
My hair changes colour often- mostly from brunette to ginger to blonde im a mother first. I cannot talk 24/7. if you have a problem with that, then thats a you problem.
Female (29) Romford, Essex
My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (39) Harlow, Essex
I looking for fun.. right now for a people with same mindset to talk and relax. I do not looking for dates, meeting people in reality or one night fun . Looking forward to make friends that can understand my desires and have same interest in sex lifestyle **Desires and Fantasies** Anything good in the correct time
Female (30) Thurrock, Essex
Always happy to make friends but when dating someone will NOT cheat, or send sexy messages unless it's an open relationship, partners will be aware of everything. {NOT looking for anything EXCLUSIVE or LONG-TERM ATM.} {DON'T go looking for my other socials. ONLY use the ones I give you. Do you know how off putting it is getting talked to on apps I have family on?!} Pictures will still be posted. Not new, but eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Heavily into Praise and Creampies (I'm on the non hormonal coil). I prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop, so that means take me out for a drink and we'll see if the vibe check is passing or not before getting down and dirty. No long distance (needs to be in country) or cyber fun without a meet up first, I prefer in-person fun because that's just who I am. Hosting and travelling; Can host but only partly in that I have a room in a house share with strangers, and can only travel by public transport as I don't have a driver's licence yet. Enjoy; breeding, light choking, light bondage, spanking, tit slapping, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Preferences for nicknames; Baby, Baby Girl, Princess, Kitten, Bunny, and Brat and Slut (but only affectionately) basically as long as it's meant possessively sweet I'll be happy. Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually. Bit of a nerd in that I like anime, shows and books. My favourites: in anime; is isekai and reincarnation or just plain fantasy. in shows; *** mysteries, crime dramas, some action movies and some romance movies (ideally a mix of both) in books; Anything I can get my hands on. I'm an avid reader and I have kindle unlimited for a reason but nothing beats actual books in my hands. 420 friendly as I do occasionally smoke when I have it but I primarily vape non nicotine.
Female (24) Tendring, Essex
I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.
Female (38) Colchester, Essex
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (54) Basildon, Essex
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 28 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me and I can be there for them . I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),
Female (28) Barking, Essex
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more. **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal *** I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave. I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
Female (51) Colchester, Essex
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist
Female (26) Rochford, Essex
Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with. I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I love travelling, dancing, working out From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know) **Desires** Tied up Pussy spanking (I like it hard) Rough sex Oral Squirting Edging Orgasm denial Pussy exam with gloves Clit clamps/pump
Female (35) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Not sure what to write, really Things have been up and down Trying to find someone to connect with, not just in the lifestyle but outside it aswell.
Female (34) Romford, Essex
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (44) Basildon, Essex
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.
Female (52) Colchester, Essex
. **Slavic Siren, a Sin made to be worshipped.** . Monogamous as fuck. Taken. Online and real life domme with a small pack of good boys to take care off. I’m not interested in more subs, I’m a busy woman. Do not waste my time. .
Female (36) Colchester, Essex
in need of a firm hand looking for a dom or ddlg praise kink in the word of katy Perry - I kisseda girl and I liked it - intrigued to explore more
Female (43) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
hi!! I’m in a relationship with my partner and we live together, we’ve decided to open the relationship, so I am able to be with women! I’m very much so a sub but when I get comfortable I can dom, I just feel all embarrassed doing it so I prefer to do as I am told
Female (23) Colchester, Essex
I am located in Basildon, Essex. I do send pictures on request of myself. I enjoy a lot of forms of domination but I really enjoy foot domination. I love a human foot stool. Feel free to message me even for a chat.👋
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
I’m a Domme by nature who loves to role play, spank naughty bottoms and discipline naughty subs when they break my rules. I am looking for a LTR eventually, but time together, connection and respect of each other is also very important. come and chat and see if there’s a spark 🥰
Female (57) Colchester, Essex
Hi I’m Erin I have short Dyed hair (it’s red at the moment) so come and chat to me I don’t bite much.
Female (20) Castle Point, Essex
Princess vibes with a sweet grin and a teasing spark... A free-spirited little doll who loves sensation, indulgence, and playful power games. Masochistic by nature, hucow-aligned by desire—soft, body-positive, and a little bit spoiled. Polyamorous and demisexual, I’m all about intentional connections, slow-burn chemistry, and mutual excitement. I bounce between sugar and sass, drawn to confident energy, creative chemistry, and connections that feel like dress-up, ritual, and shared mischief.
Female (34) Thurrock, Essex
Sub 😇 I have my dom, not looking for another at present☺️ Looking for fun encounters of the kinky kind, but no fun without safety and connection Little queer slut, with a special interest in finding women who would like to play with me and my dom 😈 No unsolicited images pretty please
Female (33) Basildon, Essex

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hii im lily, i really want to talk and share pics with some ppl, but be nice please bc i am very new to this 😞
Female (18) Castle Point, Essex
Always happy to make friends but when dating someone will NOT cheat, or send sexy messages unless it's an open relationship, partners will be aware of everything. {NOT looking for anything EXCLUSIVE or LONG-TERM ATM.} {DON'T go looking for my other socials. ONLY use the ones I give you. Do you know how off putting it is getting talked to on apps I have family on?!} Pictures will still be posted. Not new, but eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Heavily into Praise and Creampies (I'm on the non hormonal coil). I prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop, so that means take me out for a drink and we'll see if the vibe check is passing or not before getting down and dirty. No long distance (needs to be in country) or cyber fun without a meet up first, I prefer in-person fun because that's just who I am. Hosting and travelling; Can host but only partly in that I have a room in a house share with strangers, and can only travel by public transport as I don't have a driver's licence yet. Enjoy; breeding, light choking, light bondage, spanking, tit slapping, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Preferences for nicknames; Baby, Baby Girl, Princess, Kitten, Bunny, and Brat and Slut (but only affectionately) basically as long as it's meant possessively sweet I'll be happy. Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually. Bit of a nerd in that I like anime, shows and books. My favourites: in anime; is isekai and reincarnation or just plain fantasy. in shows; *** mysteries, crime dramas, some action movies and some romance movies (ideally a mix of both) in books; Anything I can get my hands on. I'm an avid reader and I have kindle unlimited for a reason but nothing beats actual books in my hands. 420 friendly as I do occasionally smoke when I have it but I primarily vape non nicotine.
Female (24) Tendring, Essex
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Who am I? I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness.. I enjoy control just as much as surrender.... Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same.. I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery.... I don’t chase fast thrills.... I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest.... Presence over promises always I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence.... And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness.... A lover of the complexities of the mind. I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful.... • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Female (39) Epping Forest, Essex
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist
Female (26) Rochford, Essex
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (54) Basildon, Essex
My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (39) Harlow, Essex
Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with. I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I love travelling, dancing, working out From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know) **Desires** Tied up Pussy spanking (I like it hard) Rough sex Oral Squirting Edging Orgasm denial Pussy exam with gloves Clit clamps/pump
Female (35) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.
Female (38) Colchester, Essex
I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation. I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first. Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Female (33) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Not sure what to write, really Things have been up and down Trying to find someone to connect with, not just in the lifestyle but outside it aswell.
Female (34) Romford, Essex
I looking for fun.. right now for a people with same mindset to talk and relax. I do not looking for dates, meeting people in reality or one night fun . Looking forward to make friends that can understand my desires and have same interest in sex lifestyle **Desires and Fantasies** Anything good in the correct time
Female (30) Thurrock, Essex
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more. **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal *** I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave. I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
Female (51) Colchester, Essex
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 28 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me and I can be there for them . I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),
Female (28) Barking, Essex
My hair changes colour often- mostly from brunette to ginger to blonde im a mother first. I cannot talk 24/7. if you have a problem with that, then thats a you problem.
Female (29) Romford, Essex
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (44) Basildon, Essex
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.
Female (52) Colchester, Essex
I am looking for only a long-term relationship with monthly financial support. Don't write to me if you're not ready to support me or you don't have ***, I'm not interested.
Female (28) Chelmsford, Essex
i would describe myself as a switch. I have more experience as a sub, but my preference depends on the other person. I’m looking for online and in-person fun 😛
Female (18) Ilford, Essex
in need of a firm hand looking for a dom or ddlg praise kink in the word of katy Perry - I kisseda girl and I liked it - intrigued to explore more
Female (43) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
hi 👋 I’m looking for some online fun I love to be dominated and controlled having very little will but I can be a bit of a brat sometimes
Female (18) Colchester, Essex
Hi, thanks for stopping by. Looking for connection on all levels, conversations, play opportunities and ultimately a relationship with some kinky fun that might develop into a D/s dynamic. I have been on the scene for a few years and attend local munches and events when I can. It’s nice meeting in person to get an initial sense of a person and to decide thereafter where things might lead. I’m sub leaning and the other side usually only comes out when tying. Generally I prefer being on the receiving end of rope too. Zur Info für Diejenigen, die mich in deutschen chat rooms finden. Ich schaue dort ab und zu gerne aus Neugierde vorbei und freue mich über Kontakte mit/ aus meinem Heimatland.
Female (46) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Anna Cain | Financial Dominatrix | Ego Destroyer You don’t find me. You earn the privilege of being noticed. I'm Anna Cain. Cold, calculated, and completely uninterested in anything but control, obedience, and your ***. I don’t nurture. I don’t coddle. I take. I specialise in breaking weak men down to what they really are needy, desperate little wallets craving direction. If you get off on being reminded of your place, if your pulse quickens when you’re ignored, dismissed, or drained, if you know deep down you’re not built to lead…you’re exactly the kind of toy I enjoy. I expect: • Respect • Consistency I reward: • Obedience • Devotion • Financial sacrifice Don’t message me with empty words or fantasies you can’t afford. I have no time for time-wasters, dickheads, or broke boys pretending. Approach correctly. Or stay exactly where you belong beneath me, unseen.
Female (38) Rochford, Essex
I am located in Basildon, Essex. I do send pictures on request of myself. I enjoy a lot of forms of domination but I really enjoy foot domination. I love a human foot stool. Feel free to message me even for a chat.👋
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
I’m a curvy girl with green and blue eyes an blonde hair an a pair of bouncy G’s always looking for a dominant sadist male Hunter or pet owner to please
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