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BoundBear92
BoundBear92
I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation. I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first. Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Female (34) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Submissive_summer
Submissive_summer
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Who am I? I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness.. I enjoy control just as much as surrender.... Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same.. I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery.... I don’t chase fast thrills.... I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest.... Presence over promises always I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence.... And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness.... A lover of the complexities of the mind. I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful.... • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Female (40) Epping Forest, Essex
Dancerx01
Dancerx01
Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with. I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I do expect the same in return. Love travelling. I’m also a dancer outside of my job, so I’m a busy girl but I’ll absolutely make time to meet. Working in London From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know) **Desires** Tied up Pussy spanking (I like it hard) Rough sex Oral Squirting Edging CNC Orgasm denial Pussy exam with gloves Clit clamps/pump
Female (35) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Cat-6279
Cat-6279
Always happy to make friends but when dating someone will NOT cheat, or send sexy messages unless it's an open relationship, partners will be aware of everything. {NOT looking for anything EXCLUSIVE or LONG-TERM ATM.} {DON'T go looking for my other socials. ONLY use the ones I give you. Do you know how off putting it is getting talked to on apps I have family on?!} Pictures will still be posted. Not new, but eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Heavily into Praise and Creampies (I'm on the non hormonal coil). I prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop, so that means take me out for a drink and we'll see if the vibe check is passing or not before getting down and dirty. No long distance (needs to be in country) or cyber fun without a meet up first, I prefer in-person fun because that's just who I am. Hosting and travelling; Can host but only partly in that I have a room in a house share with strangers, and can only travel by public transport as I don't have a driver's licence yet. Enjoy; breeding, light choking, light bondage, spanking, tit slapping, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Preferences for nicknames; Baby, Baby Girl, Princess, Kitten, Bunny, and Brat and Slut (but only affectionately) basically as long as it's meant possessively sweet I'll be happy. Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually. Bit of a nerd in that I like anime, shows and books. My favourites: in anime; is isekai and reincarnation or just plain fantasy. in shows; *** mysteries, crime dramas, some action movies and some romance movies (ideally a mix of both) in books; Anything I can get my hands on. I'm an avid reader and I have kindle unlimited for a reason but nothing beats actual books in my hands. 420 friendly as I do occasionally smoke when I have it but I primarily vape non nicotine.
Female (24) Colchester, Essex
Leelou87
Leelou87
I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.
Female (38) Colchester, Essex
SmittenNewt
SmittenNewt
My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (39) Harlow, Essex
BABYGIRLC97
BABYGIRLC97
looking for the right " Dom" to put me in my place, im an open book. fairly expierenced. ask me anything. My hair changes colour often- mostly from brunette to ginger to blonde - so yes that is me in every picture 😅 im a mother first. I cannot talk 24/7. if you have a problem with that, then thats a you problem.
Female (29) Romford, Essex
Summer2679
Summer2679
I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as being able to communicate. Please be respectful. I would like a Dom to lead me, take control, although I know what I enjoy and am open minded to try new things. A connection mentally is essential. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom who enjoys the sensual aspect. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.
Female (47) Ilford, Essex
kimutu72
kimutu72
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (54) Basildon, Essex
Karina97
Karina97
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 28 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me and I can be there for them . I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),
Female (28) Barking, Essex
Sara654
Sara654
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more. **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal *** I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave. I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
Female (52) Colchester, Essex
RagingRed25
RagingRed25
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist
Female (26) Rochford, Essex
Stephiehelen
Stephiehelen
I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since. A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s. Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids. I insist on a safe word, even for discipline. I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me. I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing. Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for. Stephie
Female (62) Harlow, Essex
Sweetpea80
Sweetpea80
Hi all, I'm newish to all this and am just starting out openly like this, I'm a mum of 4 grown up *** and not body confident so am looking for a dominant person to tame me a little because I do love being a brat but also love being controlled. Do you have it in you to tame this fiery red head that is very bratty as has always had to be in control I'm most things in life due to situations and struggles to be able to let go sexually.
Female (46) Colchester, Essex
BiteRiskAsterisk
BiteRiskAsterisk
Butch bi woman looking for a connection via common interests in both kink and non-kink spheres. While "submissive" might be the catch-all term, alas, I tend to find myself as someone who needs some push and pull as part of a scene. I like leather in the form of jackets, harnesses, cuffs and collars, hoods, and boots. Haven't tried floggers but I'll take a paddle. More familiar with cunt but I'll take a cock. Honestly, I'm of the mind that I'll try most things once (maybe more!). Outside of kink? You'll find me at metal gigs or comic con/expos. Come talk to me about Ayreon or Igorrr, or Trigun or IWTV. I'd say I don't bite but that would be a big fucking lie. I'll bite in a fun way.
Female (33) Colchester, Essex
Sarah-9450
Sarah-9450
BBW looking for nearby romantic Dom. I am a sub and need to get to know that we'll click. Ideally in the Havering area. can't accommodate. Fwb, threesomes mmf, gangbang, regular meet ups are all welcome.
Female (51) Tendring, Essex
Typicalwoman
T**********n
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.
Female (52) Colchester, Essex
Prettycandy
P*********y
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (44) Basildon, Essex
JulyM
J***M
And NO, the profile picture is obviously not me. Please, if you have to ask that, don't bother, save us both time! As it seems not clear enough, I am NOT submissive, I am NOT looking for a dom, master, daddy, whatever. As of now, I am NOT looking for meet ups, calls, videocalls, etc. That might, and I stress 'might' come with trust. I decide when that trust is enough. I am into younger, androgynous, preferably East Asian men. NO 6 packs please, NO bodybuilders, NO overly muscular/bulky built. Medium/long hair are very much appreciated. CFNM = Clothed Female Naked Male is what I am mostly into. Other kinks can be discussed. If I like them, I might try and see how it goes. Also if you're into watching a woman smoke (capnolagnia) that can be arranged as well. Be clear and straightforward on what you are looking for, do not waste my time AND yours. Do not be afraid to say it as it is, I very much prefer the truth to time-wasters. That might even be appreciated and rewarded in ways that would surprise even myself.
Female (45) Tendring, Essex
Secret_Mistress
S*************s
Genuine, verified, mature and caring mistress from UK looking for guys interested in having Dom / Sub consensual online kinky fun sessions and to hear your fantasies & experiences. Open to relationship with younger boy toys 21 - 28 who want to be trained to explore their kinks and limits online. Secret because nobody knows outside this app! Need to be very discreet because I’m married 🦹‍♀️🙈 Love being called Mummy or Mistress! Honesty, respect and discretion is very important.
Female (42) Romford, Essex
BlueberryIsBack
B*************k
. **Slavic Siren, a Sin made to be worshipped.** . Monogamous as fuck. Taken. Online and real life domme with a small pack of good boys to take care off. I’m not interested in more subs, I’m a busy woman. Do not waste my time. .
Female (36) Colchester, Essex
dommeTia
d******a
looking for a fun and meeting up, I am a mistress and I expect to be treated as such. you want to be pegged? line up 😈 dream goal is to dom a straight guy into ***d bi play/***
Female (33) Chadwell Heath, Essex
kees164
k*****4
some of you have the weirdest pictures on your profile, like really ?. dont message me if you plus 200lb, have long hair or a long beard, smoke, or live abroad. looking for: Trust and safety emotional and physical connection long term dating / relationship / training rules in and out of the bedroom (reasonable rules) pleasure / *** dominant / master experienced age 36 min - 50 max good sense of humour can control a brat (without resorting to extreme ***) more then just a dynamic doesn't just want to talk about sex as thats such a small part of it. i thrive with: Emotional attunement, Warmth and connection, Psychological intimacy. A Dom who reads me, not manages me, Soft structure, not rigid rules, A dynamic that grows organically, Trust before obedience, Playfulness and chemistry. My submissiveness is: responsive, intuitive, relational, emotional, sensual. Im not a ritualprotocol sub. I'm a connectionpsychology sub.
Female (38) Harlow, Essex
Sadistic_Rose
S***********e
I am Goddess DarkRose. A vampiric sovereign with a sadistic soul elegant in presence, merciless in command. Cold. Intoxicating. Unapologetically dominant. I do not roleplay power. I embody it. Those who approach me understand there is one throne and one will. Submission is not assumed it is earned. Obedience is not requested it is expected. I train submissives. I own slaves. I know the difference. Gender is irrelevant. Your position is decided by how well you kneel, listen, and endure. I offer RT & Online Dominant Sessions, including: • Foot worship • Pegging • Tease & Denial / Edging • *** & Draining • Sissification • Discipline, Authority & Psychological Control • Impact Play • CBT / Ballbusting (fetish impact only) • Watersports (fetish domination only) • Obedience & Behavioural Training I do not chase. I do not rush. You speak when permitted. You serve when commanded. Do not contact me to negotiate, fantasise idly, or test boundaries. I have no patience for weakness masquerading as curiosity. If you are here to submit fully, intelligently, and without entitlement then approach correctly. Tribute. Manners. Consistency. Obedience. These are not suggestions. Your devotion sustains me. Your *** amuses me. Book respectfully below only if you are ready to be shaped. https://www.goddessdarkrose.co.uk/
Female (24) Southend-on-Sea, Essex

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BoundBear92
BoundBear92
I’m looking for a connection that goes deeper than just a weekend hobby. For me, D/s is about the psychological weight as much as the physical sensation. I am looking for a Master, not a pen pal or a flake. I value consistency, clear communication, and someone who actually follows through on their word. If you’re someone who leads with integrity and expects a dedicated submissive, we’ll get along just fine. I’m not looking for bruises that last a month, but I crave the sting that clears the mind. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. Will not rush into things straight away, form believer of discussing things first. Likes include Bondage, Light Impact Play, Medical Play, Needles and Wax Limits include ***, Watersports & Permanent Marks
Female (34) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
BiteRiskAsterisk
BiteRiskAsterisk
Butch bi woman looking for a connection via common interests in both kink and non-kink spheres. While "submissive" might be the catch-all term, alas, I tend to find myself as someone who needs some push and pull as part of a scene. I like leather in the form of jackets, harnesses, cuffs and collars, hoods, and boots. Haven't tried floggers but I'll take a paddle. More familiar with cunt but I'll take a cock. Honestly, I'm of the mind that I'll try most things once (maybe more!). Outside of kink? You'll find me at metal gigs or comic con/expos. Come talk to me about Ayreon or Igorrr, or Trigun or IWTV. I'd say I don't bite but that would be a big fucking lie. I'll bite in a fun way.
Female (33) Colchester, Essex
Sweetpea80
Sweetpea80
Hi all, I'm newish to all this and am just starting out openly like this, I'm a mum of 4 grown up *** and not body confident so am looking for a dominant person to tame me a little because I do love being a brat but also love being controlled. Do you have it in you to tame this fiery red head that is very bratty as has always had to be in control I'm most things in life due to situations and struggles to be able to let go sexually.
Female (46) Colchester, Essex
Sarah-9450
Sarah-9450
BBW looking for nearby romantic Dom. I am a sub and need to get to know that we'll click. Ideally in the Havering area. can't accommodate. Fwb, threesomes mmf, gangbang, regular meet ups are all welcome.
Female (51) Tendring, Essex
Cat-6279
Cat-6279
Always happy to make friends but when dating someone will NOT cheat, or send sexy messages unless it's an open relationship, partners will be aware of everything. {NOT looking for anything EXCLUSIVE or LONG-TERM ATM.} {DON'T go looking for my other socials. ONLY use the ones I give you. Do you know how off putting it is getting talked to on apps I have family on?!} Pictures will still be posted. Not new, but eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Heavily into Praise and Creampies (I'm on the non hormonal coil). I prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop, so that means take me out for a drink and we'll see if the vibe check is passing or not before getting down and dirty. No long distance (needs to be in country) or cyber fun without a meet up first, I prefer in-person fun because that's just who I am. Hosting and travelling; Can host but only partly in that I have a room in a house share with strangers, and can only travel by public transport as I don't have a driver's licence yet. Enjoy; breeding, light choking, light bondage, spanking, tit slapping, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Preferences for nicknames; Baby, Baby Girl, Princess, Kitten, Bunny, and Brat and Slut (but only affectionately) basically as long as it's meant possessively sweet I'll be happy. Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually. Bit of a nerd in that I like anime, shows and books. My favourites: in anime; is isekai and reincarnation or just plain fantasy. in shows; *** mysteries, crime dramas, some action movies and some romance movies (ideally a mix of both) in books; Anything I can get my hands on. I'm an avid reader and I have kindle unlimited for a reason but nothing beats actual books in my hands. 420 friendly as I do occasionally smoke when I have it but I primarily vape non nicotine.
Female (24) Colchester, Essex
Submissive_summer
Submissive_summer
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Who am I? I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness.. I enjoy control just as much as surrender.... Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same.. I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery.... I don’t chase fast thrills.... I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest.... Presence over promises always I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence.... And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness.... A lover of the complexities of the mind. I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful.... • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •
Female (40) Epping Forest, Essex
Summer2679
Summer2679
I am a sub who is looking for an experienced Dom. Having intelligence is important to me as well as being able to communicate. Please be respectful. I would like a Dom to lead me, take control, although I know what I enjoy and am open minded to try new things. A connection mentally is essential. I would probably lean towards someone less strict, so maybe a soft/pleasure Dom who enjoys the sensual aspect. Although I am based in Sussex, I travel to London frequently.
Female (47) Ilford, Essex
Stephiehelen
Stephiehelen
I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since. A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s. Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids. I insist on a safe word, even for discipline. I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me. I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing. Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for. Stephie
Female (62) Harlow, Essex
RagingRed25
RagingRed25
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist
Female (26) Rochford, Essex
kimutu72
kimutu72
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (54) Basildon, Essex
SmittenNewt
SmittenNewt
My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (39) Harlow, Essex
Dancerx01
Dancerx01
Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with. I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I do expect the same in return. Love travelling. I’m also a dancer outside of my job, so I’m a busy girl but I’ll absolutely make time to meet. Working in London From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know) **Desires** Tied up Pussy spanking (I like it hard) Rough sex Oral Squirting Edging CNC Orgasm denial Pussy exam with gloves Clit clamps/pump
Female (35) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Leelou87
Leelou87
I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.
Female (38) Colchester, Essex
Sara654
Sara654
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more. **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal *** I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave. I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
Female (52) Colchester, Essex
Karina97
Karina97
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 28 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me and I can be there for them . I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),
Female (28) Barking, Essex
BABYGIRLC97
BABYGIRLC97
looking for the right " Dom" to put me in my place, im an open book. fairly expierenced. ask me anything. My hair changes colour often- mostly from brunette to ginger to blonde - so yes that is me in every picture 😅 im a mother first. I cannot talk 24/7. if you have a problem with that, then thats a you problem.
Female (29) Romford, Essex
JulyM
J***M
And NO, the profile picture is obviously not me. Please, if you have to ask that, don't bother, save us both time! As it seems not clear enough, I am NOT submissive, I am NOT looking for a dom, master, daddy, whatever. As of now, I am NOT looking for meet ups, calls, videocalls, etc. That might, and I stress 'might' come with trust. I decide when that trust is enough. I am into younger, androgynous, preferably East Asian men. NO 6 packs please, NO bodybuilders, NO overly muscular/bulky built. Medium/long hair are very much appreciated. CFNM = Clothed Female Naked Male is what I am mostly into. Other kinks can be discussed. If I like them, I might try and see how it goes. Also if you're into watching a woman smoke (capnolagnia) that can be arranged as well. Be clear and straightforward on what you are looking for, do not waste my time AND yours. Do not be afraid to say it as it is, I very much prefer the truth to time-wasters. That might even be appreciated and rewarded in ways that would surprise even myself.
Female (45) Tendring, Essex
Prettycandy
P*********y
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (44) Basildon, Essex
Typicalwoman
T**********n
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.
Female (52) Colchester, Essex
dommeTia
d******a
looking for a fun and meeting up, I am a mistress and I expect to be treated as such. you want to be pegged? line up 😈 dream goal is to dom a straight guy into ***d bi play/***
Female (33) Chadwell Heath, Essex
Secret_Mistress
S*************s
Genuine, verified, mature and caring mistress from UK looking for guys interested in having Dom / Sub consensual online kinky fun sessions and to hear your fantasies & experiences. Open to relationship with younger boy toys 21 - 28 who want to be trained to explore their kinks and limits online. Secret because nobody knows outside this app! Need to be very discreet because I’m married 🦹‍♀️🙈 Love being called Mummy or Mistress! Honesty, respect and discretion is very important.
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fetdoll
f*****l
Princess with a playful pet side. Looking for an owner who enjoys structure, affection, attention, and a genuine connection. Spoil me, tame me, adore me.
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ndaese
n****e
I am genuine person who is submissive ( woman) in a beautifull D/s dynamic with my Dom (Man) and arw now looking to meet a respectful, genuine submissive woman who is interested in becoming part of our D/s dynamic. I am interested in finding someone who is open-minded, trustworthy, communicative and understands that a healthy dynamic is built on consent, respect, trust and clear boundaries. We are not going to rush into anything. I'd rather get to know the right woman to join me, establish a connection and see whether our personalities and desires naturally fit. If you’re a submissive woman interested in exploring a dynamic with a through and through Dominant Man and his submissive woman, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for and what a D/s relationship means to you. Please note that a SH testing will be required. Connection first. Trust always. Submission by choice.
Female (38) Barking, Essex
boston70974
b*********4
hey!! I'm inexperienced but want to try as much as I can (anal virgin) let's try something new together? looking for something in person, sorry!! (also a bad texter, but I do try) specific likes - CNC - Freeuse - breeding kink - somnophilia
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