I seek a Dom whose essence is rooted in something deeper - a man attuned to the sacred dance of polarity. You embody the Divine Masculine not as a performance, but as a presence. Stable, intentional, and aware of what the feminine truly needs to soften, open, receive, and thrive.
You’re spiritually inclined - holding knowledge of the esoteric, emotionally intelligent, and mentally stimulating.
I am sapiosexual. Words, wisdom, and self-awareness turn me on far more than aesthetics ever could.
You’re someone who sees D/s for what it truly is:
Not just roles and rituals, but a deeply intimate, evolving container of trust, clarity, friendship, and mutual devotion.
You know when to lead and when to simply listen.
You desire to discover me - not just my preferences, but my nervous system, my history, my soul.
And I will do the same for you.
Emotional availability is non-negotiable.
I do not chase. I will not beg for presence, affection, or clarity. May beg for other things, though.
Your consistency is your credibility.
You are somewhat trauma + neurodivergence-informed, understand how it plays a role in these dynamics, and not threatened by depth, vulnerability, or silence (our lives can get unexpectedly busy)
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I do not do polyamory.
I value honesty over pretense - masks are only welcome if we’re playing. 😉
I see behind facades easily, so spare us both the performance. Therefore come as you are, even if it’s messy. I care for real over polished.
Yes, I’m a masochist, but I will feel it in my bones if your sadism stems from wounded masculinity or the desire to dominate women without care.
This is about power with, not power over.
We are equals in different energetic roles, your leadership must be anchored in empathy, not ego.
I am careful with whom I share sacred sexual energy with, and I am still a beginner in certain ways.
Other subs may be more experienced and that may be your preference - follow it.
Patience, consideration and aftercare are essential. Cuddle me. Play with my hair. Ground me.
I’m not here for confusion, power games, or small talk. Not necessarily seeking conventional commitment, but do crave emotional presence. If you are emotionally absent I cannot flow as my authentic self.
Show up with your heart space open, your energy grounded, and actions aligned.
Casual energy often won’t meet me, I’m looking for something conscious and passionate.
I require a partner who leads not just with dominance, but with discernment and depth.
So whether we’re walking together for a season or a lifetime, I ask only that you walk with sincerity.
Think: sacred connection without attachment to outcome
I love to laugh.
Please don’t message me unless you truly resonate with this energy, we will not be compatible.
I am not for everyone - and I like it that way.
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PS/About me section: I come across strong here because it’s necessary, but really… I am cutie patootie lil angelic ball of sunshine.
Whilst the idea of a cool blade to my throat is thrilling, if you manage to coax out my inner little girl - the one who giggles, plays, and beams without restraint, you’ve won and will reap the rewards~
Deeply drawn to all things soul-led.
Nature, meditation, breathwork, self-development, ***s, and insightful + reflective conversations.
I am an alchemist, highly intuitive, and ‘Heyoka’ as they call it (although I have an aversion to labels)
Movement is medicine to me, I dance to feel alive.
I feel through music, it’s a love language - send me a tune you love.
Fond of photography, travel, scenic walks, gaming when I have time, and the occasional joint (stoner days are over). Also enjoy the gym and have been on a tough yet disciplined weightloss journey. I can cook a steak that’ll ruin you for all others.
I am South African/Italian.
There’s an abundance of lightness here once you’ve earned your way past the gates.
