I'm incredibly independent, enjoy dressing punk or like tomboy but love my high heels (I'm 6'3 when wearing them)
I love both worlds in most things.
Choking, Biting, Scratching. Both being degraded and praised. LOVE to be made to feel small (prey/hunter kink)
I'm a bit delulu so the whole serial killer/stalker thing turns me on. (Knife play/Mask kink)
I love being a massive brat but LOVE IT even more when I'm put in my place and made to be completely submissive.
Honestly dunno what I'm looking for but welcomed to whatever happens
Dom-leaning switch looking for subs. 😝💕
I just got out of a long term relationship and im not looking for another. im also not looking for a dom at the time.
I love chatting and making new friends as well. ask me anything, im an open book!
Kinks -
femdom
***
bondage
feminization
chastity
limits -
***
***
vomit
***s
ageplay/diapers
Strong woman who submits to whom she chooses.
I've got a ton of filthy kinks and fetishes, but my number one fetish is intelligent men who are mindful, communicative, calm, confident, and empathetic. If we can't talk about our lives and the world with a decent conversation - nothing else is going to happen.
Best wishes to everyone in their search.
YES TO:
* DD/lg dynamic (must have)
* Spankings and other really hard impact play without "you've been a bad girl" messaging - I love it! 😍
* Firm, structured, disciplined-but-positive Dominants
* Men 45 years old+
* Health-conscious men 😍
* Those very local to the Phoenix Metro Area
NO TO:
* Smokers - it tastes yucky to kiss 🤷♀️
* Grouchy people 😂
* Switches, Subs, Vanilla, or "I'm so horny" guys / those "kinda curious about this stuff"
* Doms who live to "punish" w/ "bad girl"
* People who ghost other people
* Doms who aren't comfortable being called Daddy
* Men under 45
* MAGA people - I'm a centrist
* Heavy alcohol or 420 users
* Men who aren't health-conscious
* More than 40 miles from N Phoenix
* ***, kids, *** play, ***s
Hello~! I’m Lilith, I’m newly 18 and glad to be on betr! I am 100% a Dom, do not ask me to sub or I will block! I am relatively new to the scene but very cultured ;) Send me a message ♥️
Aye yo.
Just a babygirl, brat, sub (in that order) trying to survive another day.
Looking for my DaddyDom, so if you think you can handle this little ball of chaos, say hi.
Xoxo
Me 😘
Curvy, confident, and here for a good time 💋
I’m a plus-size woman who knows what she wants—fun, connection, and real chemistry. I love good conversation, playful flirting, and seeing where things naturally go.
Open-minded and drama-free. Whether you’re here to chat, vibe, or explore something more… I’m all about mutual energy and respect.
Bonus if you can make me laugh 😉
Let’s see what kind of trouble we can get into.
I would like to meet a person with whom we will lead the happiest moments of our life together. I am looking for a man who will be caring and reliable. I don't have a specific wish list, if we match each other in spirit, then we will definitely need to get to know each other better.
I can tell you a lot about myself, but everything you need to know about me you can see in the depths of my eyes. I don't want long conversations, I want a real relationship.
I’m the type who’ll make you laugh mid-flirt and then look at you like I just undressed you with my eyes. Equal parts trouble and temptation, with a heart that actually gives a damn—because attraction is fun, but connection? That’s the real turn-on.
I don’t do boring. I want sparks, smirks, and someone who knows how to turn playful banter into something a lot less innocent. I’m into deep convos, dirty laughs, spontaneous plans, and unapologetic passion. I’ll challenge you, compliment you, and maybe even corrupt you a little—but only if you can handle it.
If we vibe, don’t be surprised if I text you “can’t sleep, you up?”… and mean it in every way possible.
What I’m Looking For:
Someone who flirts back with fire, not emojis. You’ve got confidence, curiosity, and just enough edge to keep things interesting. You’re not afraid of intensity, but you also know the power of a well-timed smirk or slow burn.
We can start with laughs and innuendos—but if the chemistry’s right, don’t expect it to stay PG for long.
Pleasure doms to the top. I’m looking for something local and probably won’t respond if you’re not local.
Bonus points if you’re: A little sarcastic A lot bold And absolutely dangerous in a hoodie
Let’s skip the small talk and get to the part where we’re both smiling too much.
I’m just a woman in her 40s here to find friends and rediscover her kinky self after being in a long term marriage
I enjoy some of the more taboo side of thing but I also never judge
I am a dominant woman, who enjoys training loyal subs on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please me and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.
I am pregnant (SMBC) and looking for someone to occasionally spend time and release tension with. I am not looking for a serious relationship or co-parent, but I do want something more like friends, or friends w/ benefits. I have been curious about BDSM and Fetish play, but this is my first time looking into it.
I have a kink for kinks, there aren't many things i won't or haven't tried. However, from the depths of my most intimate desires what excites me most is having a woman to serve devotedly. I was a lifestyle sub/slave for several years but for a number of reasons my contract was breached and I left. I have been searching aimlessly trying to find a woman to pick up my leash. the depths to my devotion have no bounds when it comes to serving a mistress. with my previous master, id cleaned the house, make sure dinner was ready when he got home from work, and wait kneeling by his front door wearing heels and lingerie. unfortunately though I did my best to appease him, Ive never actually ever been into men, but due to my desire to submit I chose to take a chance and see if it maybe my feelings could change. I was wrong. I found that I can spend endless hours day dreaming about what I desire from a mistress l, but have never spent more than a couple minutes trying to be enjoy the thought of being under a masters rule again. If your a woman searching for a sexy, cute, occasionally bratty sub who's drive for life comes from my desire to worship and serve you the way every mistress should be worshiped. please feel free to inquire.
My name is christiana Gomez and I love traveling, cooking, reading, etc. I’m looking for someone who’s easygoing, funny, and enjoys . Am, an easy going person and kind hearted
First and foremost guys I ask that you start a normal conversation with me before jumping into asking dirty questions or saying dirty things to me. I will block you immediately if you just start off being dirty or saying nasty things or ask dirty questions.
I work hard for things in my life. I'm looking for a relationship with someone like minded looking for long-term. I have a pretty high tolerance to *** especially pleasurable ***. Blindfold me and tie me up if you wish to. If I feel comfortable with it I'll try anything.
**I am in a relationship and he is my priority in all things. If this is an issue, please see yourself out now**
We are both pretty chill and have a taste for sharing. He likes to see me enjoying myself with others, and he's bisexual and we are hoping to indulge that aspect some more so always looking for bisexual tops to join us in our fun 😊
For people who want solo time with me, that is an option but he and I both have to agree to it and there is a factor to that which can be discussed later that you would have to be OK with. Obviously if you have questions please ask.
Looking for a long term relationship. I am a woman of harmony, strength and joy. I am attracted to everything that fills the soul, body and heart: from active recreation to deep inner balance. I can say for sure that in my arms there is peace, in my words there is inspiration, and next to me you want to become a better man. And I strive to give my love to whoever is next to me.
I am somewhat conservative, but am adventurous and love doing things from relax, listen to wide-range of music, watch good films, to taking walks along the beach or curling up in front of a fire with that special someone.
I mind my business until I don't
Looking for someone who knows how to flirt back immediately and Wouldn't act brand new .
Discretion? Yes. Innocent? Never.
Professional, single female, new to the lifestyle looking for a LTR Dom who is willing to teach me and test my limits. I know I liked to be spanked, just haven't had the opportunity to test my limits. Looking for that special someone to dominate in the bedroom but share and enjoy all other things life has to offer. I would not be considered submissive outside of the bedroom.
I am pregnant (SMBC) and looking for someone to occasionally spend time and release tension with. I am not looking for a serious relationship or co-parent, but I do want something more like friends, or friends w/ benefits. I have been curious about BDSM and Fetish play, but this is my first time looking into it.
Curvy, confident, and here for a good time 💋
I’m a plus-size woman who knows what she wants—fun, connection, and real chemistry. I love good conversation, playful flirting, and seeing where things naturally go.
Open-minded and drama-free. Whether you’re here to chat, vibe, or explore something more… I’m all about mutual energy and respect.
Bonus if you can make me laugh 😉
Let’s see what kind of trouble we can get into.
I would like to meet a person with whom we will lead the happiest moments of our life together. I am looking for a man who will be caring and reliable. I don't have a specific wish list, if we match each other in spirit, then we will definitely need to get to know each other better.
Aye yo.
Just a babygirl, brat, sub (in that order) trying to survive another day.
Looking for my DaddyDom, so if you think you can handle this little ball of chaos, say hi.
Xoxo
Me 😘
I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone i can confide in and someone ready to live the alternate BDSM kinky lifestyle with me secretly.
I am a dominant woman, who enjoys training loyal subs on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please me and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.
Hi I'm a Pleasure FemDom with a Goddess kink. I am in a Goddess/devoted sissyboi dynamic with my boyfriend.
I are exploring ethical non-monogamy. I would love to connect with a confident trans woman. Open-minded, respectful, and looking for a genuine connection.
Exploring cnc and abduction play with a mask fetish 😈.
I’m looking to share my submissive side with a very dominant man.
In my vanilla life I love to hike, snowboard, and read. I’m a single mom to an 18yo son. He keeps me young!
Professional career in local government.
I mind my business until I don't
Looking for someone who knows how to flirt back immediately and Wouldn't act brand new .
Discretion? Yes. Innocent? Never.
I am somewhat conservative, but am adventurous and love doing things from relax, listen to wide-range of music, watch good films, to taking walks along the beach or curling up in front of a fire with that special someone.
Looking for a long term relationship. I am a woman of harmony, strength and joy. I am attracted to everything that fills the soul, body and heart: from active recreation to deep inner balance. I can say for sure that in my arms there is peace, in my words there is inspiration, and next to me you want to become a better man. And I strive to give my love to whoever is next to me.
I can tell you a lot about myself, but everything you need to know about me you can see in the depths of my eyes. I don't want long conversations, I want a real relationship.
I'm a plus size dommie who has 20+ years in the life and know I still have a lot to learn. I have had a few different subs over the years and they always teach me something new. I'm a bit of a sadist but have my gentle moments. I love video games, table top, larps, and anime. I love just hanging out and relaxing with subs and friends.
Dom-leaning switch looking for subs. 😝💕
I just got out of a long term relationship and im not looking for another. im also not looking for a dom at the time.
I love chatting and making new friends as well. ask me anything, im an open book!
Kinks -
femdom
***
bondage
feminization
chastity
limits -
***
***
vomit
***s
ageplay/diapers
i tend to be fairly busy but open minded & kink friendly. i love meeting new people, friends , etc- ideally looking for long term/consistent depending on vibes.
I’m just a woman in her 40s here to find friends and rediscover her kinky self after being in a long term marriage
I enjoy some of the more taboo side of thing but I also never judge
I’m the type who’ll make you laugh mid-flirt and then look at you like I just undressed you with my eyes. Equal parts trouble and temptation, with a heart that actually gives a damn—because attraction is fun, but connection? That’s the real turn-on.
I don’t do boring. I want sparks, smirks, and someone who knows how to turn playful banter into something a lot less innocent. I’m into deep convos, dirty laughs, spontaneous plans, and unapologetic passion. I’ll challenge you, compliment you, and maybe even corrupt you a little—but only if you can handle it.
If we vibe, don’t be surprised if I text you “can’t sleep, you up?”… and mean it in every way possible.
What I’m Looking For:
Someone who flirts back with fire, not emojis. You’ve got confidence, curiosity, and just enough edge to keep things interesting. You’re not afraid of intensity, but you also know the power of a well-timed smirk or slow burn.
We can start with laughs and innuendos—but if the chemistry’s right, don’t expect it to stay PG for long.
Pleasure doms to the top. I’m looking for something local and probably won’t respond if you’re not local.
Bonus points if you’re: A little sarcastic A lot bold And absolutely dangerous in a hoodie
Let’s skip the small talk and get to the part where we’re both smiling too much.
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I have a kink for kinks, there aren't many things i won't or haven't tried. However, from the depths of my most intimate desires what excites me most is having a woman to serve devotedly. I was a lifestyle sub/slave for several years but for a number of reasons my contract was breached and I left. I have been searching aimlessly trying to find a woman to pick up my leash. the depths to my devotion have no bounds when it comes to serving a mistress. with my previous master, id cleaned the house, make sure dinner was ready when he got home from work, and wait kneeling by his front door wearing heels and lingerie. unfortunately though I did my best to appease him, Ive never actually ever been into men, but due to my desire to submit I chose to take a chance and see if it maybe my feelings could change. I was wrong. I found that I can spend endless hours day dreaming about what I desire from a mistress l, but have never spent more than a couple minutes trying to be enjoy the thought of being under a masters rule again. If your a woman searching for a sexy, cute, occasionally bratty sub who's drive for life comes from my desire to worship and serve you the way every mistress should be worshiped. please feel free to inquire.
Hello~! I’m Lilith, I’m newly 18 and glad to be on betr! I am 100% a Dom, do not ask me to sub or I will block! I am relatively new to the scene but very cultured ;) Send me a message ♥️
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