You have to find that one person that makes you just absolutely want to give your entire persona over to. To share every thought, dream, desire, past, present and future with. The good, the bad, the ugly. You crave to stay with that person, not because of what they can give you monetarily, but for the feelings they give you.
.
The first thing i need to emphasize is that yes, it is my decision to give up all control. i make that decision every time i follow a rule, guideline, perform a task, or ask Him to make a decision about something that may concern me. But, for me, the more rules i have, the more restrictive He can be and the more decisions He makes for me, gives me a feeling of freedom, safety, protection, absolute trust and unconditional love. i know that He would never put a rule in place to aggravate or harm me, or because He had a fit of jealousy. The rules are put in place because of many factors, the way i tend to run myself into the ground, is a fine example, and the affects it has on my life.
I am 5ft 7in, 250. Red hair, green eyes.
I am a bit of a hybrid, the deeper the control, the deeper my submission
5’3 and lots to offer. If you think you can handle curves then maybe I have something for you!
I have morales and respect so please come correct because I don’t tolerate fools.
* STOP ASKING FOR MY PRIVATE GALLERY AFTER ONLY SAYING “Hi” IT DOESN’T WORK THAT EASY. IF YOU SEND ME AN UNWANTED DICK SORRY MY GUY YOU WILL BE BLOCKED*
First and foremost im not a skinny size 4. I am a busty 44DD curvy woman with a belly. so if your not into thst please keep scrolling.
Im looking for men that willing to submit
im hoping to find a man or men that aren't afraid to allow a woman to take control. I would say im on the softer side. im more romantic and gentle. but make no mistake, if you don't follow my rules im not opposed to punishment.
im not a paid member but can read messages so if your interested in learning more about me please don't be shy, say something.
Im also into interested in *** if thats what your looking for.
Name is SINsational ..let me corrupt your existence or you can corrupt mine depending on how I’m feeling…you won’t ever regret it I’m not looking for anything long term but if it happens it happens…I am a milf and a bruja so tread lightly ..420 friendly… chains and whips excite me …I’m mom also
I’m not here for games that goes for if I accept you as my dom or my sub please don’t play with me at all
I'm easy going, low maintenance and mostly easy to please. I'm a gamer nerd, anime/DC/Marvel dork. I enjoy long walks and the beach.
Kink stuff: I'm a sub. Real life I'm a total alpha control freak. So on here, I expect to have that taken away. Trust and communication is paramount. I enjoy spanks, slaps, breath play, being marked, and completely dominated.
Welcome to my world, where control is both an art and a ritual. I am Mistress Mia, an experienced Dominatrix who thrives on the beauty of power exchange, discipline, and devotion. My presence is commanding yet intoxicating — I draw you in, strip away your pretenses, and reveal your truest self.
Hey beautiful, sexy kinksters!
I'm here to explore my new kinky side and find a man ... or men ... that want to submit themselves. He must be open minded and willing to try new things. MFM / MMF for instance. I absolutely love being in charge and can't wait to play. I would consider myself a soft romantic plus size woman. No reason to rush. Enjoy every inch of each other. I've been asked if I'm Domme/Mistress and the answer is no .... well, at least not yet. I'd love to one day earn that title. I def know what I want and expect to find it from my playmate here. If you want to learn more about me, please send me a message. I hope to hear from you soon! Suggestions are always welcome on any topic. I'm an open book, so don't be shy when reaching out. I am posting this for all the submissives who feel "generous" and want to get on my good side my *** $greeneyezgrl
p.s. I am not a paid member, so please message me with videos or :lick:
I know I was brought up to be obedient and attentive to Please and to Serve and provide, physical, Intellectual and Imaginative pleasures in both mind and body for other's use. To show them what I know and always be opened minded to never Judge anyone by their Looks, Size, Insecurity, or lack of knowledge and experience. But to learn from their experiences and observations and knowledge, so I can make them feel very special and give them the most greatest sexual Enjoyment and satisfaction and intense feelings of using me for their intimate and emotional pleasures and sexual arousal. The greatest emotional and physical feelings I have, is knowing my body provides the needs and desires and pleasures and sexual arousal for other's enjoyment. How could this be so pleasurable unless I actually experienced an emotional connection and heightened arousal in my efforts to please. I feel an obligation to help fully and mutually in providing my body for the pleasures of other's it's in my nature to do so.
I am very sensual and emotional, easy-going, but at the same time responsible. I am always for the positive in everything and for a healthy lifestyle. I will come to the first date without makeup and in an old dress. I want you to see, in addition to long legs and a beautiful appearance, an intellectual girl with an analytical mindset.
I’m looking for an experienced dom to have some fun with and see where things go. I have a love for bondage, toys, and orgasm control/ multiple orgasms.
I’m someone who thrives on curiosity – whether it’s trying a new recipe, learning about different cultures, or planning my next spontaneous adventure. I’m an unapologetic mix of ambition and warmth, and I believe in making every day count, no matter how small the moment. You’ll usually find me with a camera in hand, capturing the beauty of the world in unexpected places, or getting lost in a good conversation that lasts longer than planned. I’m looking for someone who is equally comfortable diving into deep talks or just sharing a quiet moment together. If you're the kind of person who sees life as an adventure and isn’t afraid to laugh at yourself, we might just click, who knows.
I have absolutely NO interest in MEN, and I don't care if you are part of a couple. I don't want to fuck you, dominate you, humiliate you, peg you, entertain you, or even touch you. Do not write to me or send me friend requests, I will block you.
I am a "TOP", with sadistic leaning, and very comfortable with that description.
Looking for a respectful equal relationship, with Top/bottom dynamics sexually. Only open to long term arrangements, no pick up play.
I love and prefer rough primal play, consensually. I want to smack you, whip you, and push your limits.
I'm a bit of a sadist, I will enjoy hurting you just as much as making you come like a fucking whore.
Must be AFAB. Generally attracted to a spectrum of gender expressions from femme to MOC women.
Be articulate. You must know yourself. Know what you like. Know what you want, and Know how to say it. I am only interested in women that KNOW how to be with other women, no newbies.
Be older than 25 and Single (If you're POLY/ ENM that's great, but I'm not interested).
Be able to host. Serious people only. Low effort responses will be ignored..
Thanks for the out of state love but unless you're in the DC Metro area (40 mins or less) or coming here in the near future, you can stop with the messages.
Confident in who I am, and at a point in life where I want to explore new experiences with honesty, curiosity, and passion. I’m drawn to genuine connection—someone who values trust, communication, and the energy that builds between two people who truly see each other. I’m looking for a relationship-oriented man who knows the balance between desire and respect. I love intelligent conversation, laughter, and the slow discovery of shared fantasies. Chemistry matters to me as much as emotional safety does. Outside of this space, I’m grounded, thoughtful, and have a playful side that comes out with the right person. I believe in exploration guided by consent, honesty, and mutual pleasure. If you’re someone who leads with respect, confidence, and an open mind, I’d love to get to know what makes you tick.
I don't want to seem too self-confident, but I think, I am a woman you need. I am beautiful, intelligent, educated, sporty, open-minded and have a good sense of humor. I have a gentle character and a kind heart. I am looking for a man, husband, future father of my ***, and a passionate lover. I don't pay much attention to physical beauty as it is not very important. I think an inner beauty is much more important and valuable. I have an intention to build a happy family and have a respectful and honest relationship. A strong relationship is like a delicate flower, it must be nurtured and cared for. It may grow thorns and hurt from time to time, but with communication, respect, and compromise we can grow it into something beautiful.
Looking for many things. Seeking a submissive for fun times and a potential 24/7 submissive. All around just looking for some kinky fun and kinky chats that could lead to more.
Hi my name is Lori. I’m new to the lifestyle. My husband and I were doing a little bit of ddlg but stopped for a while when our child was born. Now that they’re more independent I’m wanting to get back into the D/S side of things. We are in an open relationship. He knows I’m here. I’m interested in Shibari.
Hi, I'm a sub in a D/s relationship. My Dom and I seek a bottom female sub to enter into our sacred, trusted world. We seek a free spirited, hygienic, and trustworthy sub to join us for fun and exciting times. Let's get to know each other and explore. 420 friendly.
Seeing what’s around. Looking for some structure in my life, but am fully willing and able to weed through the fakes. I am very cautious of pictures due to my work/future work.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Hindsight read the damn profile, I will know if you haven't.
Please no friend requests if we have not met in person, it will get rejected.
Feel free to reach out to me. If you are interesting and my type, I'll reply back. And if not, don't be offended. I don't like wasting anyone's time and same goes for me.
No face photo on your profile?
Be sure to send one, I like to know who Im chatting with and won't otherwise in your greeting with me.
Why am I here?
Like many of you I'm here trying to explore and find my kinks and my interests.
I would like to find a full dom close to me, to help me explore the kinks I'm curious on. My preferably radius is 40 miles max unless your willing to drive to my area or meet at play events.
While I am exploring, straight men are my preference for now.
Some important facts/statments.
- I'm BBW
- I'm a swinger
- I'm a bottom never a top
- Im not a good rider (top)
- STD/STI testing is required to play - last tested 3/13/2026
- No online play (including photos/videos)
- No long distance unless we meeting up at play events.
- Looking for FWB (min 1x month)
- Looking for play partners for events
- In an open Marriage, cannot host at house
- Im a brat/bossy outside the bedroom, in the bedroom I'm Submissive
- No play on first meet!!!!
- I'm a busy person and want something casual, so no I may not text you back right away or at all between seeing eachother if we move forward. (Got a problem with this, please move on)
- I work 2 jobs so yes I SCHEDULE everything
Lets grab a drink and tell eachother the desires we want and from there let the fun begin. I must meet you in a public place first, Im not the type of girl that just goes over to a strangers house/hotel room without physically meeting, interacting, and seeing if we click in person over a drink.
I'm the submission type in the bedroom but dont get me wrong I can be a little bratty.
I like a man that can whisper and say dirty things, directs in the bedroom, and then in the end, call me good girl. 😈
I have realized after major scenes at play events, I will need aftercare at the end if we came together, by reclaiming and cuddling for the night.
I’m married and hoping to meet another married man for a long term affair. I’m an experienced sub and would like to meet someone dom leaning at least. I’m open to single men if you are understanding of my situation
Kinky domme married and to a dom looking for a slave to join us for a closed poly relationship.
Non-kinky interests include traveling to (supposedly) haunted places, cryptids, Josh Gates shows, true crime, Star Trek, and coffee (lots of it!).
61 bi female red-lupa Waldorf Md.
📢 I am NOT A SWINGER OR UNICORN
📢 I DO NOT HOST
📢 I am only interested in D/s
📢 Not 420 friendly
📢 Not interested in anyone under 45 ❗️
slave, middle, masochist, prey, pet, primal
Looking for 45 & older extremely Dominant Alpha ***inant.
Not looking for online but a ltr. Relocation is possible.
I lived as a 24/7 slave to a married couple for over 20 years. My middle is 9 to 14 & my main pet is lupa ( wolf).
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
Don't ask me what kind of slave I was. I am 100% old school, NOT this so-called. I'm this type of slave or that type of slave 🙄
100% do as it's told, with whomever it's told to be with & whenever it's told to do something it does it. The girl lived with no limits, no safe words & gave up total 100% control to its Owners.
homebody works a lot and It's no offense to anyone ...hmm tran, hermaphrodite..? hmm idk thinking with a big dick .. I'd be ur pet. I'm vanilla. still exploring. not perfect. but definitely eager to spice up my life. I hope to find my match ...friends...n grow. I would love a owner. love toys ...anal stretching.
* don't like cigarettes or crocs. major turn off...outside that. freaky experienced big dick lovable open minded to the front.
I'm easy going, low maintenance and mostly easy to please. I'm a gamer nerd, anime/DC/Marvel dork. I enjoy long walks and the beach.
Kink stuff: I'm a sub. Real life I'm a total alpha control freak. So on here, I expect to have that taken away. Trust and communication is paramount. I enjoy spanks, slaps, breath play, being marked, and completely dominated.
I don't want to seem too self-confident, but I think, I am a woman you need. I am beautiful, intelligent, educated, sporty, open-minded and have a good sense of humor. I have a gentle character and a kind heart. I am looking for a man, husband, future father of my ***, and a passionate lover. I don't pay much attention to physical beauty as it is not very important. I think an inner beauty is much more important and valuable. I have an intention to build a happy family and have a respectful and honest relationship. A strong relationship is like a delicate flower, it must be nurtured and cared for. It may grow thorns and hurt from time to time, but with communication, respect, and compromise we can grow it into something beautiful.
I’m someone who thrives on curiosity – whether it’s trying a new recipe, learning about different cultures, or planning my next spontaneous adventure. I’m an unapologetic mix of ambition and warmth, and I believe in making every day count, no matter how small the moment. You’ll usually find me with a camera in hand, capturing the beauty of the world in unexpected places, or getting lost in a good conversation that lasts longer than planned. I’m looking for someone who is equally comfortable diving into deep talks or just sharing a quiet moment together. If you're the kind of person who sees life as an adventure and isn’t afraid to laugh at yourself, we might just click, who knows.
Confident in who I am, and at a point in life where I want to explore new experiences with honesty, curiosity, and passion. I’m drawn to genuine connection—someone who values trust, communication, and the energy that builds between two people who truly see each other. I’m looking for a relationship-oriented man who knows the balance between desire and respect. I love intelligent conversation, laughter, and the slow discovery of shared fantasies. Chemistry matters to me as much as emotional safety does. Outside of this space, I’m grounded, thoughtful, and have a playful side that comes out with the right person. I believe in exploration guided by consent, honesty, and mutual pleasure. If you’re someone who leads with respect, confidence, and an open mind, I’d love to get to know what makes you tick.
Welcome to my world, where control is both an art and a ritual. I am Mistress Mia, an experienced Dominatrix who thrives on the beauty of power exchange, discipline, and devotion. My presence is commanding yet intoxicating — I draw you in, strip away your pretenses, and reveal your truest self.
I am very sensual and emotional, easy-going, but at the same time responsible. I am always for the positive in everything and for a healthy lifestyle. I will come to the first date without makeup and in an old dress. I want you to see, in addition to long legs and a beautiful appearance, an intellectual girl with an analytical mindset.
Seeing what’s around. Looking for some structure in my life, but am fully willing and able to weed through the fakes. I am very cautious of pictures due to my work/future work.
5’3 and lots to offer. If you think you can handle curves then maybe I have something for you!
I have morales and respect so please come correct because I don’t tolerate fools.
* STOP ASKING FOR MY PRIVATE GALLERY AFTER ONLY SAYING “Hi” IT DOESN’T WORK THAT EASY. IF YOU SEND ME AN UNWANTED DICK SORRY MY GUY YOU WILL BE BLOCKED*
You have to find that one person that makes you just absolutely want to give your entire persona over to. To share every thought, dream, desire, past, present and future with. The good, the bad, the ugly. You crave to stay with that person, not because of what they can give you monetarily, but for the feelings they give you.
.
The first thing i need to emphasize is that yes, it is my decision to give up all control. i make that decision every time i follow a rule, guideline, perform a task, or ask Him to make a decision about something that may concern me. But, for me, the more rules i have, the more restrictive He can be and the more decisions He makes for me, gives me a feeling of freedom, safety, protection, absolute trust and unconditional love. i know that He would never put a rule in place to aggravate or harm me, or because He had a fit of jealousy. The rules are put in place because of many factors, the way i tend to run myself into the ground, is a fine example, and the affects it has on my life.
I am 5ft 7in, 250. Red hair, green eyes.
I am a bit of a hybrid, the deeper the control, the deeper my submission
Hi my name is Lori. I’m new to the lifestyle. My husband and I were doing a little bit of ddlg but stopped for a while when our child was born. Now that they’re more independent I’m wanting to get back into the D/S side of things. We are in an open relationship. He knows I’m here. I’m interested in Shibari.
Hey beautiful, sexy kinksters!
I'm here to explore my new kinky side and find a man ... or men ... that want to submit themselves. He must be open minded and willing to try new things. MFM / MMF for instance. I absolutely love being in charge and can't wait to play. I would consider myself a soft romantic plus size woman. No reason to rush. Enjoy every inch of each other. I've been asked if I'm Domme/Mistress and the answer is no .... well, at least not yet. I'd love to one day earn that title. I def know what I want and expect to find it from my playmate here. If you want to learn more about me, please send me a message. I hope to hear from you soon! Suggestions are always welcome on any topic. I'm an open book, so don't be shy when reaching out. I am posting this for all the submissives who feel "generous" and want to get on my good side my *** $greeneyezgrl
p.s. I am not a paid member, so please message me with videos or :lick:
First and foremost im not a skinny size 4. I am a busty 44DD curvy woman with a belly. so if your not into thst please keep scrolling.
Im looking for men that willing to submit
im hoping to find a man or men that aren't afraid to allow a woman to take control. I would say im on the softer side. im more romantic and gentle. but make no mistake, if you don't follow my rules im not opposed to punishment.
im not a paid member but can read messages so if your interested in learning more about me please don't be shy, say something.
Im also into interested in *** if thats what your looking for.
Name is SINsational ..let me corrupt your existence or you can corrupt mine depending on how I’m feeling…you won’t ever regret it I’m not looking for anything long term but if it happens it happens…I am a milf and a bruja so tread lightly ..420 friendly… chains and whips excite me …I’m mom also
I’m not here for games that goes for if I accept you as my dom or my sub please don’t play with me at all
I know I was brought up to be obedient and attentive to Please and to Serve and provide, physical, Intellectual and Imaginative pleasures in both mind and body for other's use. To show them what I know and always be opened minded to never Judge anyone by their Looks, Size, Insecurity, or lack of knowledge and experience. But to learn from their experiences and observations and knowledge, so I can make them feel very special and give them the most greatest sexual Enjoyment and satisfaction and intense feelings of using me for their intimate and emotional pleasures and sexual arousal. The greatest emotional and physical feelings I have, is knowing my body provides the needs and desires and pleasures and sexual arousal for other's enjoyment. How could this be so pleasurable unless I actually experienced an emotional connection and heightened arousal in my efforts to please. I feel an obligation to help fully and mutually in providing my body for the pleasures of other's it's in my nature to do so.
Looking for many things. Seeking a submissive for fun times and a potential 24/7 submissive. All around just looking for some kinky fun and kinky chats that could lead to more.
Hi, I'm a sub in a D/s relationship. My Dom and I seek a bottom female sub to enter into our sacred, trusted world. We seek a free spirited, hygienic, and trustworthy sub to join us for fun and exciting times. Let's get to know each other and explore. 420 friendly.
I have absolutely NO interest in MEN, and I don't care if you are part of a couple. I don't want to fuck you, dominate you, humiliate you, peg you, entertain you, or even touch you. Do not write to me or send me friend requests, I will block you.
I am a "TOP", with sadistic leaning, and very comfortable with that description.
Looking for a respectful equal relationship, with Top/bottom dynamics sexually. Only open to long term arrangements, no pick up play.
I love and prefer rough primal play, consensually. I want to smack you, whip you, and push your limits.
I'm a bit of a sadist, I will enjoy hurting you just as much as making you come like a fucking whore.
Must be AFAB. Generally attracted to a spectrum of gender expressions from femme to MOC women.
Be articulate. You must know yourself. Know what you like. Know what you want, and Know how to say it. I am only interested in women that KNOW how to be with other women, no newbies.
Be older than 25 and Single (If you're POLY/ ENM that's great, but I'm not interested).
Be able to host. Serious people only. Low effort responses will be ignored..
Thanks for the out of state love but unless you're in the DC Metro area (40 mins or less) or coming here in the near future, you can stop with the messages.
I’m looking for an experienced dom to have some fun with and see where things go. I have a love for bondage, toys, and orgasm control/ multiple orgasms.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Hindsight read the damn profile, I will know if you haven't.
Please no friend requests if we have not met in person, it will get rejected.
Feel free to reach out to me. If you are interesting and my type, I'll reply back. And if not, don't be offended. I don't like wasting anyone's time and same goes for me.
No face photo on your profile?
Be sure to send one, I like to know who Im chatting with and won't otherwise in your greeting with me.
Why am I here?
Like many of you I'm here trying to explore and find my kinks and my interests.
I would like to find a full dom close to me, to help me explore the kinks I'm curious on. My preferably radius is 40 miles max unless your willing to drive to my area or meet at play events.
While I am exploring, straight men are my preference for now.
Some important facts/statments.
- I'm BBW
- I'm a swinger
- I'm a bottom never a top
- Im not a good rider (top)
- STD/STI testing is required to play - last tested 3/13/2026
- No online play (including photos/videos)
- No long distance unless we meeting up at play events.
- Looking for FWB (min 1x month)
- Looking for play partners for events
- In an open Marriage, cannot host at house
- Im a brat/bossy outside the bedroom, in the bedroom I'm Submissive
- No play on first meet!!!!
- I'm a busy person and want something casual, so no I may not text you back right away or at all between seeing eachother if we move forward. (Got a problem with this, please move on)
- I work 2 jobs so yes I SCHEDULE everything
Lets grab a drink and tell eachother the desires we want and from there let the fun begin. I must meet you in a public place first, Im not the type of girl that just goes over to a strangers house/hotel room without physically meeting, interacting, and seeing if we click in person over a drink.
I'm the submission type in the bedroom but dont get me wrong I can be a little bratty.
I like a man that can whisper and say dirty things, directs in the bedroom, and then in the end, call me good girl. 😈
I have realized after major scenes at play events, I will need aftercare at the end if we came together, by reclaiming and cuddling for the night.
Handle me properly or don’t handle me at all
Bratty princess. Playful… and a little bit of a problem.
I enjoy being led, but only by someone who’s patient, consistent, and knows how to handle a brat without losing control. I respond to intention, not ego.
I’m drawn to a firm, respectful presence—someone who enjoys structure, playful tension, and earning my softness over time.
Romance, effort, and being considered matter to me. Thoughtful dates, soft moments, laughter… I want a connection that feels good both inside and outside of a dynamic.
I lean into brat/princess energy with a curiosity for deeper dynamics, but I’m selective about who I explore that with.
Attracted to kind, generous, emotionally intelligent men who take care of themselves and know how to pursue a woman properly.
If you know how to lead without rushing, and you enjoy a woman who makes you work just a little…
You’ll like me.
Im bratty when i dont get my way or when i need to be put in my place. Im seeking a dominant person who can keep me level headed. I can be a nympho at times. My fetishes are based on being a pleaser so whatever you like, i like.
I love to be under my DADDY,Master or Owner. Prefer to keep the leash and collar at home. I like doing chores, sexual favors at random, and being praised.
ASK ME FOR MORE INFORMATION
I'm a down to earth 🌍 dom I'm not into users or *** hungry females or secretive ones if this matches you keep stepping on the gas cause I don't have time for your setups I want an honest friend go places with someone matches good energy if you smoke keep stepping on the gas as well!!
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