BDSM Dating in Columbus

I’m looking for a consistent partner. More into women, but dudes are ok too. We could meet first and see how things play out before venturing into more. Bonus points for those who can tie. Counterintuitive, but I’m more into monogamous FWB while not ready for anything serious unless it organically leads into that path dudes, please be 35-40 & under 7”. Weird, I know.