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Zxpie
Looking for someone to help me explore my Dom side

Hi, I'm semi-new to the BDSM community and am looking for someone to either chat with or agree to be my play partner as I explore different sides of my personality. All boundaries will be respected.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 25km around USA Aberdeen
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Arnee
Kinky af

Looking for a domme or a switch that’ll enjoy messing me up or if you’re a sub I’ll definitely take my time doing the same😮‍💨
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 500km around USA Mount Vernon
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CraftytheSub
Submissive seeking dominant to take anal virginity

I've got all the stuff, (a strapon, bondage gear, nipple clamps etc) but due to unforeseen circumstances I've never had the chance to use any of it. If anyone wants to help take my anal virginity then drop me a message. I'll worship anyone who demands it of me. I can host, in fact I'd prefer to. Dinner is on me as well ;)
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 35 years ● 50km around UK London
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DomAngel213
Seriously, I need some help

Hey there, I'm experimental, love giving and receiving , giving controlling and receiving care, but mostly I'm a sadist and mommy Dom.

Now I’m worried that maybe I’m too tough that ruined my sub’s experience. Therefore, to improve my understanding of BDSM, I'm now looking for someone (sub, gentle switch, or dom) to talk with and maybe to experience what a sub feels. Maybe club buddy as well, we can go events together.

For sub, I’m looking for a tough guy who can stand my and not give up so easily, to work things out together.

please ignore this ad if you are not in Auckland, I don't accept any kind of long-distance relationship, thank you ❤️
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 40 years ● 20km around New Zealand Auckland Central
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hypedupluv
Brat fun

I want a dom that is bold enough to put me in my place when I spit in their face just because I wanna be difficult. I want someone who's going to make me regret that decision then love and baby me. So who's that gonna be?
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 245km around USA Shawnee
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lennyheyyyhey
any ladies interested in a pleasure sub?? i promis

i would loveee to spend the whole night catering to your needs. im pretty flexible kink wise as long as im making you moan hehe. would love to try breast play or just giving you head for a while. send me a message!!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around USA Concord
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ZerkerCope
Looking for new people to interact with see if the

Looking for new people to discuss the life, nuances, learn more, see where the discussion take us. I am generally very private about what I do day to day, and keep this life completely separate! Feel free to message me, and we can discuss. My current roles are sadist/daddy dom, have questions or genuinely curious about topics feel free to reach out!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Salt Lake City
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Subguy4U2use
Maso seeks sadistic Dom

Bi WM submissive is seeking a Dom who enjoy giving *** to Subs. I am very open minded and enjoy experiencing new things that keeps the excitement level high.
BDSM Play Partner ● 45 to 70 years USA Huntsville
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thadood
Bit of a weird one

Put bluntly: I'm looking for a sub that's into being on the receiving side of watersports play. Feel free to reach out!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 58 years ● 245km around USA Cordova
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EmoMetal33
Lonely and horny, buff not fat

Look for casual stuff. I'm both sub and Dom. 18 year old male and emo. Try texting my ig emometal.33 or cal 413 413 472 8403 sat to sun, 8 am to 3pm
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 25km around USA Amherst
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buffalo176874
Need mommy mistress

I wanna be owned and I'm looking for a mistress I can worship while she controls me I'm in to bondage chastity edging worshipping my mistress while she explores my limits are you looking for a sub to own and explore I'm looking forward to having a mommy mistress that will love me for my submissive ness and keep me yearnn to her control by building a great relationship with me as play to u will keep you moaning while I worship you mistress
BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around USA Buffalo
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dwntwntempe
Let’s play for real!

Into absolutley anything and everything! Completely open book, any fantasy you want to try let’s do it! I’m a dom and a sub and can play with anyone! I love everything from toys, roleplay, BDSM, Chasity, fuck machines, bondage and more!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around USA Tempe
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ougrad
Play Partner

I’m seeking a kinky likeminded individual to explore and have fun with. I’m 420 friendly and open to fun in and outside the bedroom. I’m a single professional respectful college educated male. If interested give me a shout.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Columbus
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Sengo
Looking for sub

Looking for a partner to educate
Punish
Train
Also in a psychological way
BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around Netherlands Leiden
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larry112775
Mistress are you around

Sub boy 4 mistress
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 65km around USA Baton Rouge
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rayita
big d latino in need of dom mommy

need a dom mommy for this big d latino
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA King City
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rayita
big dick lastno need dom mommy

big 19 year old latino needing mommy
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA King City
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Pompoms
Looking for a femme dom

I’m looking for a femme dom who can anal train me over a few weeks or months. There will be an element of CNC due to my intense *** of anal. Want someone to make me take it until I’m not afraid anymore!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 50km around USA Toledo
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LoveBendsDKJ17
Subby Female 4 Couple Play Date

looking for a girl to come play with me until my hubby/ Dom gets home.. then come play with us 💕💕
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Cape Coral
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Deanp113
Asian male dom

Looking for someone who wants to serve my cock and be my submissive.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 5km around USA Garden Grove
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MattyWolf
Date tn

Looking for any ladies searching for a fem presenting goth cutie whose a sub, trying to have an evening of fun evening with me tn, hmu🖤
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 55km around USA Edwardsville
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Mackenzie2005
19F, single, bi, sub-leaning switch

Hi, I'm kinda new to this lifestyle. I have had only 1 partner before and looking for a new one(LTR or FWB). I am looking for a single, male or non binary person from ages 19-22 that is a switch or dom.
I could also be open to joining a couple
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 22 years ● 115km around USA Statesboro
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bigdaddy16
Looking for a new brat, sub, BG

Looking for a bratty sub for some fun 😁
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 325km around Canada Calgary
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Tampadom
7.5" Hung Dom 4 Roleplay, public, etc

7.5" cis-male dom looking for a partner to roleplay with, maybe record a video?
Into intruder / soft noncon roleplay and fetish costuming (Ask for pics), I'm into cute femme sissy boys and women as well.
Wanting to record some amateur BDSM type stuff with a cute sub, binding / breeding roleplay, etc
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 75km around USA Tampa
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.