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ltlbean
Looking for My Dom

I'm still fairly new, and I'm looking for a soft or daddy dom who can guide me and help me figure out my kinks. I've listed more in my profile.

Must be local to Orlando.
BDSM Play Partner ● 41 to 57 years ● 80km around USA Clermont
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hashdome
SUB Seeking DOMS

I am a switch seeking dommes. Preferably something consistent where we can get to know each other and build trust. I’m curious about exploring TPE as well so trust and safety would be important. Really want to try rigging and being tied if anyone has experience. Pls HMU if you’re looking for this or a toy to use and stretch to get your frustrations out.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 160km around USA Solana Beach
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t4teclipse
Iso sub

Looking for an enthusiastic willing submissive to let me practice rigging, needles, flogging, and other fun stuff, only after meeting up and negotiating to establish trust and boundaries of course. Also interested in obedient service subs who will earn their rewards
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 34 years ● 45km around USA Long Beach
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wanttobeasissy444
Looking for a dom

I want to meet a mistress or a dominant couple to use and *** in anyway they see fit!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 70km around USA Memphis
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ellis936465
20 Yr old daddy don male looking for female

Hi, I’m a 20 yr old slim American male (daddy dom) looking for a female submissive/babygirl/brat under 25 years old. Want to do kinky roleplay involving baths, spankings, and anything else kinky you’d like to try
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 24 years ● 300km around Italy Firenze
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allie907
Looking for Dom partner

I’m a sub bottom femboy looking for a top/dom. I have a lot of things I really wanna experience and/or try. Looking for someone who can help me with that.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 165km around USA Kenai
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FarmerIra
Looking for a dom

I'm looking for a dom who's willing to both educate me in the ways of bsdm as well as mold me into their submissive pet. All i ask is that we get to know each other a bit before starting anything fun so to speak
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 405km around USA Harrington
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Erisedbound
Seeking Experienced Dom

Looking for an experienced Dom, for an MfM encounter.We are: Intermediate experienced female service sub, and Dominant leaning male looking for experience from another experienced Dom. Happy to provide more details on each of us, including kinks/fetishes, and Hard and soft limits.
BDSM Play Partner ● 34 to 52 years ● 180km around USA Brattleboro
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dms47905
Who wants to play?????

I am looking for a female sub that wants to play! Light bondage, spanking, toys, ropes, handcuffs, blindfold, oral sex(giving and receiving.
BDSM Play Partner ● 200km around USA Lafayette
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niceguywookies
Looking for the right sub

I'm looking for the right sub that wants an ltr and that is a little bit of brat bc brats are so much fun to tame
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 48 years ● 210km around USA Palm Coast
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evansville0731
Seeking Dom/pegging

Looking for a Mistress to use me and peg me. Open minded. Looking for cis women but any gender is okay 🖤
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA New Harmony
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round-rock583806
Looking for a dom female

I’m 46 m looking for a soft dom female to help me ease into this fetish. I’ve been in nothing but vanilla relationships and I’m ready to change things up. If this could possibly be you hit me up.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 57 years ● 145km around USA Round Rock
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Therealass_eater
Best fwb

Looking for a female partner to help.me explore this new life style as well as my kinks together if you like a chubby African American male new dom hit me up. (can't host )
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 47 years ● 25km around USA Alafaya
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KinkyAli1
All subs welcomed

Currently looking for a good sub. I don't mind taking brats. My dm is open. New to this community wanting to explore n have some fun. Lets see what it leads us to.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 51 years ● 25km around UK Manchester
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jaythepompypup
Female/trans masc puppy sub Looking for a dominant

I mean is it not self-explanatory... 👀

I'm looking for someone who will help lead me and explore the world of BDSM deeper to help me find what I enjoy most, where my limits lay (if I have them ) and just generally have fun with .

It could be a one time thing or something regular but not serious just yet idk if I'm ready for another relationship... But if I like you enough who knows
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 33 years ● 10km around UK Portsmouth
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jor-no
seeking milfs.

In need of fun and genuine, deep experiences..!!
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Qualicum Beach
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Daemonprincess
Looking for DD

I am looking for someone that is a mix of daddy and soft Dom.
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 55 years USA Forest Park
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Calm24127
Wants to feel that closeness

Caregiver/Dom seeks something real
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 10km around UK Warmley
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SirYesSir214
CUM TO ME

Although I'm excited you made it here, please approach with caution and respect. Entering my house of kink is both an honor and a great experience. Address all your concerns respectfully using the proper etiquette and, as always, do what you agree to. I'm not just a Dom, I'm an artist, I take my artistic expression just as seriously as my professional career, so discretion is a must. Although I'm tenured and enjoy an experienced sub, what i enjoy even more is creating customized experiences for newbies. I travel and arrange travel to me so distance is not an issue. Safety is a top priority of mines, not just physical but emotionally and physiologically. This a safe space to act out your submissive desires.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 320km around USA Lakewood Village
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cutebicd
Little sub cd gurl

Looking i find other who like to peg snd strapon play I'm a sub cd girl and love to please
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 51 years ● 90km around Canada Ottawa
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chad_powers
Where's my riverwalk kinksters!?

Looking to meet some like minded freaks while I'm visiting for a few weeks.

I'm a dom leaning switch: and would love to explore all sides and connect with any and all friends!

I have been in the lifestyle for over 15 years and absolutely love it
BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around USA San Antonio
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PhillyHungDOM
Dominate Male for Submissive local FEMALE ONLY

very experienced DOM started very young with is a great story in itself. Looking for a local to Philadelphia PA area submissive female only. I am just as comfortable with an experienced Submissive female as I am an experienced submissive females
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 5km around USA Bensalem
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xxxbrutus
A Daddy Dom without his lg

Feeling Dommy. I am a pleasure Demi DD who is without a lg. I make use of ***, audio and video calls.

If you want to start chatting and just see where things go hit me up.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 41 years ● 500km around Canada Vaughan
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benjamin37
Sub seeking Domme in Maine

I have experience looking for someone to worship. Hit me up, let's talk about kinks and other fun stuff.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Biddeford Pool
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.