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Rockstudson
Fun Dom male seeking cute, fun girl

Brisbane based Dominant male seeking fun female for chat or games..I prefer intelligence and humour
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 66 years ● 400km around Australia Brisbane
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Bigredbeard
Dom looking for sub

I’m a primal sadomasochist dom with a medical fetish looking for a sub to play online, in person, text , or Snapchat if you like my profile or have question or want to please DM me I’m a member and I’m out of ice breaker chat starters lol
I’m game to learning new things as well
Hope to hear from y’all
BDSM Play Partner ● USA Allensville
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bigdickaug
Who needs an experienced online dom?

DM with why I should pick you, willing to travel if you prove to me that I should. Dm asap. 😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Augusta
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Cakey
Dating/LTR

First time creating these... Wow... Hey I'm Cake, looking for a long term relationship with someone and go on adventures with. I'm very clingy and I love to game and read. I'm also really into mommy dommes. But I'm also a switch. I lean more sub though. Excited to meet you if you do decide to approach.... If not have a good day then :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 40km around USA Clackamas
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Irishviking1994
Married couple seeking female fwb

Female looking for a fun couple
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 48 years ● 110km around USA Swannanoa
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lauren0199
Where’s daddy?

Looking for a daddy dom
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 51 years ● 85km around USA High Point
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MrChris88
Joliet pleasure Dom looking for his rope bunny

Any sub/ rope bunnies in the Joliet or Chicagoland looking for a daddy? Let's chat and see if we click
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 45 years ● 75km around USA Joliet
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Raven4967
Would love to find a Dom to finish my training

I love to be bound and brought to my sweet limits while sucking cock
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 65 years ● 25km around USA Bangor
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ChicagoJoe
Sub looking for his Domme

Hi! Tool and Die Maker by day and sub every other time. I've played with pros but now I'm looking for a long- term relationship. I have my own house, which I've done most of the updating myself. Except for electrical, I'm handy with most household repairs. I can cook as long as you give me a recipe to follow.
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 43 years ● 100km around USA Chicago
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jordant92
Be my new sub

Looking to collar a new sub to be mine and do what I desire . To pleasure in every way imaginable and give *** as well . In rockland county new York
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 58 years ● 400km around USA Pearl River
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MrChris88
Pleasure Dom looking for his rope bunny

35yo pleasure Dom/rigger looking for my long term sub/rope bunny in the Chicagoland area. Hmu and let's see if we click
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 50 years ● 50km around USA Joliet
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emillielane
Transbian seeking femdom

Don't really know what to put here. i'm soon to be new to the area, and i'm poly, looking for play partners (or more). i'm 100% sub, so i'm looking for someone who's switch, or Dominant. i cannot host, and i'm disabled and can't drive (i know...what a catch).
BDSM Play Partner ● 100km around USA Phillipsburg
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subpoa
Procuro domme em Porto Alegre e região

Olá! Sou um sub novinho e muito obediente, com várias experiências práticas especialmente em chuvas, podolatria e facesitting. Adoraria encontrar uma domme para me abusar da forma que quiser, tenho pouquíssimos limites! 😁
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 38 years ● 160km around Brazil Porto Alegre
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Dragos89
Sub wanting Dom

Neeeeeeding another Dom…. TOTAL sub… willing to do BASICALLY anyyyyyything…. ;)

Want to meet a Dom.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 45 years ● 75km around USA Clarksville
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FacesittingLover5445
Sub looking to be vetted and owned

I’m Lorenzo i’m from Brooklyn New York I’m looking for femdoms or mistresses and fetishists and kinksters looking for a sub or slave that are into facesitting and smothering and that are open to multiple kinks my dms and messenger is always open I’m an open minded fetishist and kinkster
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Long Island City
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Shakie1234
Seeking a LTR with a masochistic sub

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with a female sub. I'm happy to chat with anyone that's interested, though I'd prefer you either be reasonably local willing to relocate - I would like to actually meet you in person once we've got to know each other
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 32 years ● 495km around UK Salford
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wills31
Let's loosen those chains!

I am strong minded, but like to act as the sub for a woman who wants to exercise her dominant tendencies so we can achieve great pleasure and satisfaction for both parties...also happy to switch!
Must be a discreet relationship.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 48 years ● 25km around UK Birmingham
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mehbeh
Dom ISO sub

Any local subs online and looking for their possible Dom?
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 105km around USA Vandalia
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unicorn737
Sapiosexual

Sapiosexual woman seeking a person who speaks in full sentences to sweep me off my feet and keep me as a pet.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 80km around USA Newark
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nikos89
A genuine D/S dynamic

Tired of getting ghosted? People who put minimum effort? If you are looking for a special sub, look no further. Lets explore the ideal D/S dynamic together. However, a D/S dynamic will not last without communication, honesty, and chemistry to name a few. I am looking for someone who is willing to give me their time of their day outside of playtime as i will do likewise. I want to be a choice, not an option. No brats, no players, no kink dispensers, no ***.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 500km around Greece Egaleo
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James-8005
Fit m23 seeking mistress

Hey there, im a young kinky and fun sub seeking his new mistress, some of my fav Kinks are sounding, chastity, rope play, collaring, feet, bondage, gags , role play, 24/7 . Wax.

I hope to hear from you soon mistress
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 40 years Netherlands Amsterdam
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alexisKat
Sub wanted

I want a sub. Only woman. Send your application. Deadline: 31 march.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Romania Bucureşti
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.