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Tnybkt
Looking for that special person

Hi I’m 69 but in great condition just love spanking and can be both dom and sub under the right conditions - have a vanilla partner so looking for some fun hope to find someone local
BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around New Zealand Christchurch
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megawatt75
Sub male. Very kinky

I'm seeking a fantasy date for some kinky, nasty experiences. Is there something you have thought about doing to a man? I'm game to try it. My previous g/f was dominant and freaky. She once put padlocks on my balls, a plug in my ass, and made me keep it in all weekend even when we went out. That's not even the kinkiest experience.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 45 years ● 300km around USA Elgin
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boytoy444
hi :3

transmasc pet seeking a dom<3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 32 years ● 65km around USA Tampa
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brattylittlegirl420
Seeking a CG

Hellos I’m Jessie and I’m seeking a DD/CG I’m into gaming ***s movies ice cream I love sunsets sunrises I’m 420 friendly so ideally I’d enjoy it if you were too
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 41 years ● 5km around USA East Walpole
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TheDarkStar
In search of Dom or Sub

Looking for someone to get a lil wild with, whether that means you’re in control, or I am, I can get down with either. Just looking for a fun time 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 80 years ● 150km around USA Caseville
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italiandom17
Experienced M Dom seeking F slave

Let me break you. Brainwash, gaslight, mirror turn, *** you to your very last shred of sanity. Then I will rebuild you into the perfect fuck toy. Looking for a limitless dream whore.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Rumford
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de-pere342306
sub sissy Slave seek's a Dom

-A wonderful Dom. being a Mistress or master that's Looking for a she male Sub to collar
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA De Pere
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Amorita
New sub in irland <<33

Hii, im new to irland, Dublin and im looking for some casual... Something hihi
Trying to find a dom or a domme here <3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 5km around Ireland Dublin 15
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Kyrie_007
Switch?

Im looking for someone who can be both submissive and Dom, I want to be able to fulfill your desires just as you are to fulfill mine.
I’m open to all scenarios!
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 40 years ● 65km around USA Plainfield
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Moeydsad4
Looking for a play partner in Sydney.

Hey, I'm looking for a BDSM partner near me to have fun with, I can travel(if in Sydney). Any couples/females/trans any age message me. I'm super kinky, can be a sub or Dom(I switch), and always ready to tryout new things hehe. BDSM is my favourite kink lol. so, hmu please. I like no strings fun, but we can become friends 😄too.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 25km around Australia Chester Hill
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BandK208
Idaho Couple (M35, F30) seeking female to adventur

Hey, we are looking for someone (female, 18 to 40) who wants to join us for all kinds of adventures in and out of the bedroom. Looking more towards long term, with a strong friendship base.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 44 years ● 115km around USA Nampa
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loganmendez
need a dom

i want a someone to hardcore dom me. i want to be your pet.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Dublin
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loganmendez
looking for dom

i need someone to hardcore dom me. I want to be someone’s pet
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Dublin
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GirthyMan007
Dom looking for a sub

SWM Dom looking for a sub in the Wayne , NJ are me to meet up tonight .
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● TES NYC in USA New York
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AJ2307
Looking for Sub/couple in south wales

Looking for a submissive female or a couple to have fun with in the south wales area
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 42 years ● 25km around UK Neath Port Talbot
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luna3333
naughty girl need be spank

About me:
21 years old, 169cm tall, 48kg. I have a relatively soft ENFP personality, enjoy sharing and communicating, and can be affectionate and clingy. Currently studying in university, I have a bit of a bratty side, enjoying teasing and playful banter, but I'm not unreasonable, and my usual demeanor is quite calm and not too boisterous. My interests are broad, I can't resist small s, and I'm especially fond of music and movies. I played in a band in high school and college as a keyboardist and drummer, I also enjoy writing stories and anything free-spirited and romantic. I'm willing to explore your interests, and we can ski, swim, workout, or take photos together (although I'm not a big fan of sports!). I'm extroverted, but not for the reasons you might think; I simply enjoy the company of friends and sharing experiences. I also enjoy sharing a book or a movie, spending a quiet afternoon together. I love food and can cook up a storm! I enjoy sharing, so you won't be bored, believing in the warmth and companionship of mutual relationships, I'm not just seeking attention but also aiming to bring happiness and enthusiasm to you.

I lean more towards being a sub or spankee, with very few dominant tendencies, and it's not just about physical ; I prefer emotional intensity, as long as it's built on understanding and connection.

Interests: spanking, bondage, ddlg,exhibitionism.

I'm not into extreme kinks, and I don't tolerate vulgar or insulting language. I prefer being submissive, especially under a firm hand, and I'm more inclined towards discipline and guidance...
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around Australia Chippendale
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italistali69
Sub seeking dom with plenty of gear

Im Ready to take the next steps with the right dom. Looking for a dom with furniture and devices for long training sessions
BDSM Play Partner ● 50km around USA Sacramento
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SubWantingToLearn
Looking for mentor

Hi! I'm looking for a dom who can help me learn about what it means to be a good submissive.
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 40 years ● 105km around USA Dayton
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b00b00kitttty
Dom daddy / pet owner

Need a dom daddy/pet owner to come play with me and tell me im a good girl 😇

Aftercare is important. Sometimes I might need a cuddle if we are playing rough or I just might be having a tough week and just need that.
Respectful. Mature. Open minded.
Not into ONS. Something regular and local preferred.

  • stretching
    -anal
    -bondage
    -lingerie
    -rough play
    -face fuck
    -toys
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 40 years ● 5km around Australia Melton West
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Toungemaster69
Seeking spanked nearby

I am very kinky and sensual I'm a dom of many yrs seeking a woman who likes kink is what I'm looking for a submissive female who wants to be spoiled In bed and out
BDSM Play Partner ● 32 to 73 years ● 65km around USA Valparaiso
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tightbelt8181
Wide tight belts and corsets

A dom that loves to tie up and peg her slave and loves belts and corsets
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 51 years ● 110km around USA Grand Junction
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cocklover9591
Looking for a Dom online who doesn't mind a brat

I would like a Dom who is OK with online play and OK with a brat
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 500km around USA Rutherford College
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masterbird89
Looking for my forever slave/sub

Hi I’m a master/dom from Brisbane Australia. Been trying to find my slave/sub that I can treat like queen in streets and slave in the sheets. There is a lot I’m into but also want to try new things as well. I work away in the mines and work a 7/7 roster. Would love to talk so message me to find out more
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 500km around Australia Caboolture
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.