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VenomousRose
Looking for Experienced Female Dom

Looking for an Experienced FemDom to be a slut/ toy to this week. I’ve been getting turned on on the idea of fuck machine, getting restraint, to even become a toy for a right femDom. Bonus if you have you own toys.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 30 years ● 5km around USA Muncie
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Smitttty
Looking for friends with benefits, ongoing fun

I am in an ethical non monogamous relationship and cannot host. I tend to be an affectionate Dom but I am exploring at the moment. I'm 6', white, 160 lbs, slim, long hair, and facial hair. I live in Toronto but visit Kitchener often. I am into music, sports, comedy, video games, card games, fusion food. Let's chat and see what you like and want to fulfill as well. I'm easy going and an open book, just ask!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 25km around Canada York
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TheWebsWeWeave
Anyone up near poughquag ny

Looking for a female sub. Would like to talk see how we vibe. And maybe see where things go
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 80 years ● 260km around USA Alpena
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mimurr
Young new sub

I am looking for a curvy woman (young or old) to come dominate me and show me the ropes who is willing to travel.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 150km around USA Lakewood
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BabyWolf943
Looking for bi guys

Me and my male submissive are looking for a bi guy to play with us and help me Dom him. Message me with questions if any. Must be close to Cincinnati
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Cincinnati
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new-york249936
Looking to get tied

I want to meet a dom hot man
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 66 years ● 25km around USA New York
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ryanfun
Looking for all types of kinky fun!

Into:

  • online or in person
  • being submissive/slave to females or a couple
  • using toys as a dom on a sub female

  • normal/regular hook ups

    I’m very to trying to new experiences so just ask if you’re curious
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Waterloo
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Mac20
Where the switches at

Switch looking for another switch or a dom/sub
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Akron
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Needanescape
Looking for a master/mistress

Hoping to find a dominant person or dom couple to do pretty much whatever they want to me within 25ish km
BDSM Play Partner ● 25km around Canada Listowel
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desiroman
Looking for DOM/MISTRESS

I am a Sub living in Rome. Looking for a DOM/Mistress who can satisfy me and remains gentle.

Maybe we can also meet in person if you live in Rome or nearby.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Italy Roma
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wickedoracle93
New Sub needs a lesson

I am very new to BDSM. I need someone to teach me how to be a good sub. Please be slow and gentle (at first). I am a little nervous but very excited. I'm a woman looking for a woman. Please no men.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 465km around USA Cockeysville
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Lawrence1
I’m looking for someone to teach the reigns and to

I’m a 18yo sub and I would love for someone to teach me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around UK Spaldwick
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Dim3la
Sub needed

I need someone that’s soft and kind. I’d like you to honor and obey me, wait on me hand and foot, and let me have fun with you. Maybe you’ll get rewarded if you don’t beg. I love surprises
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 26 years ● 500km around USA Jacksonville
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PheonixMoonfire
Is this you?

I want to meet a woman in the Tacoma area(Seattle is also okay) who is wanting a Daddy Dom.

You should be able to laugh, have a dark sense of humor and not be looking for a hook up, one night stand or side Dom( I am okay with poly, but not with owned submissives.)

Goths, gamers and geeks go to the front of the line.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 120km around USA Fort Lewis
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GothIdiot
Just wanna serve

Inexperienced sub/bottom with a praise kink. Looking to serve a godess entirely. I dont want rights anymore. I just wanna be a good slave.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Worcester
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someonematchmykinky
Need a full time partner sub/switch

Would love to be dominated by a girl. Pegged role play thic woman are so hot 🔥

Perfer full time partner/gf/owner

Treat me right il do what ever u want 💋
And il do the same
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Ottawa
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PNWGinger
Wanting to explore and have fun.

I'm more of a Dom and looking to explore my kinky side.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 46 years ● 40km around USA Boring
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UtDaddyDom4Babygirl
37 Daddy looking for kitten

Any baby girl / kitten looking for a pleasure dom to keep them tied and plugged? HMU
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Lehi
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ProfessorKink
Daddy/pleasure dom seeking sub

Willing to travel to see the right lady. Experienced teacher and guide ready to make your fantasy come to life. Tell me about your secret desires and I’ll make them happen for you.
Not opposed to a kinky party but I’m actively searching for something more stable than that.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 420km around USA Enid
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PhoenixRiSeN
Ready, Willing, and….

50F sub- but still a novice- lifelong learning!
I want, I desire- practice makes perfect
But what I have learned most? Desperately want most?
Is to hear the heavy breathing, closing eyes, and stillness of utter satisfaction.
However, please don’t mistake me for common, there’s more to this and to me than meets the eye.

Almost ready to jump? Umm hmmm. But will never ask how high.

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BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 55 years ● 50km around Canada Whitby
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fredericksburg243
Looking for female sub to eat me out

Must be in or around Fredericksburg
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 37 years ● 75km around USA Fredericksburg
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John7270
Looking for a play partner

I am looking for two things. I am interested in either a dom who is looking for a sub or a woman/couple looking for a bull. Please let me know if you would be interested.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 125km around USA Prospect
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fredericksburg243
Looking for female sub in Fredericksburg or around

Good at eating pussy n taking ***
Look to meet up and play
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years ● 95km around USA Fredericksburg
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west-point542258
Mature, passionate c/d seeking a dominant ( male/

Dominant male or female with patience and strict rules is what I'd like to find. Someone to explore my sexuality with me and enjoy some fun, kinky times
BDSM Play Partner ● 31 to 65 years ● 160km around USA West Point
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.