HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who tought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.
I am seeking a Submissive or Slave or DDLG or Pet or Primal relationship or NSA depending on what your looking for I belive in Mutual respect and respect the right of Consent. I am open to NSA or Polly type relationship I am into impact play Degrading and CNC play I enjoy Bondage Shabari and Orgasam Denile Love to SPANK nipples clit thys inner and outter frount and back butt and sholders I can be hardcore if you request it Caining Spanking pussy lips I will punish the slut in you and make you beg for forgivness. I am also into hypno erotica Orgasams squirting and Oral enjoyment. I have wild fetishes with toys like leg spreaders and masks and Wax and Anal training for her. I enjoy gagballs for her and d Orgasams
Chastity Belts I am open to a lot of fun and take on new and experinced submissives and Slaves DDLG and Pets I do not allow Subbing from the bottom up I am always in control of my emotions mental end emotional and physical Urges. Its not about me its about pleaseing you I am strict as a Daddy and have Structure nightly sessions and am very sexual in nature. I enjoy some one who wants to get naked and freaky be tied to the wall or bed. I am a bad boy and know how to please you Message me and find out. The more freaky the better if your looking for a mongamus relationship i would like to know you spend time with you and have sessions with you before any comitment of LTR. I can be very strict love to punish and spank enjoy pushing your limits and bringing you out of your comfort zone. Submission is not d it is given, Lets have a conversation let me know what type of dynamic your looking for and what you expect in the dynamic, I am not a pay PIG I am a Master/Dominate I will ban you if you ask me to be your Sugar DADDY or pay for anything if you want gas then you must get here first. Have respect I am not here for that so move along. I require you talk on voice and video confrenceing or call me voice if you would like to have a Internet incounter with me. Pictures and sexy text alone is not enough. Media files that are not you Faking orgasams and play will get you banned I dislike fakes I am not here to play games. On your knees and calling me on video or voice is fine on here At least let me understand what it is your looking for the type of play you want to expernice your limits and hard limits if any what you want to consent to and what you do not want to consent to message and when you have the chance call mel.

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