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Looking for a Dom to use and *** me

I am a straight every day guy looking to be taken from that and turned into a toy for your amusement. Not many limits that I am aware for but hit me up with a message to see if we can make a connection
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 51 years ● 120km around Australia Wollongong
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PlayalindaFagHole
Sub Slave looking for fatherly figure

Looking for someone who will dominate me, and buy me large toys to play with together. Interested in real life or cam2cam. Love rough, big toys, hole training, and chem. Please hit me up if you are interested in a father/son relationship.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 550km around USA Titusville
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Topshelfhelper
Looking for a sub or slave for nasty, rough fun

Looking for fun kinky dates close to Newmarket. Hard, dirty bdsm with lots of toys.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 50km around Canada Newmarket
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cheddargoblin
Looking for long term DD/MD/CG

Hello ❤️ I'm Mae, nice to meet you! I'm 31 and enjoy all sorts of nerdy things like anime, video games, horror novels/movies and D&D. While I'm not new to kink as a whole, I am new to exploring this side of myself, but I really would like to find a Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver Dom to teach me and help me feel safe and loved 💕 Preferably open to a romantic relationship as well, but not necessary! Just want to be able to have that trust with you. As a limit: no hard age play, no diapers. I'm a little shy, and can take a bit to feel comfortable, but I'd love to chat if you're interested!
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 50 years ● 80km around USA Columbia
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donethat
Sub

I am looking for a domina
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 235km around Denmark Slagelse
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Bigkcguy
BBC Dom

So lately I really been thinking about fucking someone and never knowing what they look like.

We can meet somewhere and put a blindfold or a mask on before we walk in the room. Not being able to see each other only able to feel each other. If we want to we could just leave and never know what the other looks like even if we passed each other on the street or we could take them off when we’re about walk are separated way but only if we both decided to….

Is there any women who would like to do this?
BDSM Play Partner ● 100km around USA Kansas City
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daddy8008
Looking for a sub

I would like sub that likes being degraded and used for their doms pleasure
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 550km around USA Rockport
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LeoSir
Dom Devon UK looking for female submissive

Devon Dom looking for a mature female submissive for monogamous long term relationship - must be within easy reach of Devon.
Open and friendly experienced Dom, you should be intrigued and curious with fetish and kinks - I am happy to mentor, train and share.
SORRY no poly and must be 35 and over please
thanks for looking
any questions ? I hope so
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 74 years ● 150km around UK Exeter
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Miillo
Looking for a sub/little!!!

Hello! I’m a Dom /CG Looking for an online sub/little, a combination between the two would be perfect. I want someone who loves attention and is good at giving it back. I would love to build a relationship that can make us both happy and satisfy our needs and desires ☺️.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 550km around Sweden Uppsala
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huike0112
Philly twunk tryna get pegged

Looking for a hot femme to dom and top me consistently. Into teasing, edging, prostate play and lots of other things.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Philadelphia
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GoddessChoklate
Looking for my obedient sub Man

I am a open minded Dominatrix who will show u something different than you are used to
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 80 years ● 75km around USA Bridgeport
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JohnyD6801
Kink fun

Ayeo I'm a switch I'll dom or sub anyone in the area looking for fun or a dynamic even ? Only limit is hard cbt and ***
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Brockton
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OdinicWanderer6
Daddy looking for a sub

Generally I am a daddy Dom as it fits my personality well. Because of this I'm looking for a sub who wants a safe place to explore and who wants to adore and be adored.

Very happy to talk and see if we connect x
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 80 years ● 50km around UK Hucknall
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mayasm
Sub but a switch sometimes

A sub. Am into rope play, bondage, blind folding, massage, being a PET and brat.

Am in Toronto

No derogatory words, no bodily fluids
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 45 years ● 50km around Canada York
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amcph
Looking for a dom or sub for wedgie play

I have a wedgie fetish, and I'm interested in both giving and receiving them. Anyone nearby who's interested in doing either, get in touch!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 300km around Canada Saskatoon
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amcph
Looking for a dom to tickle me

I'm interested in trying tickle *** as a sub. If there's anyone nearby who'd like to tie me down and tickle me, get in touch!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 300km around Canada Saskatoon
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dabpens
Looking for a poly couple or a poly sub

~Looking for a little/pet/ sub~
Heyoo names dabs I’m looking for a little/pet/sun to take care of and game with and over all spend time with this is my first time making a long post like this let’s see how this goes

A bit about my self
Name~dabs (gov name can be discussed in dms)
Age~level 19 👾
Gender~ male
Sexuality~straight
Hight~ (5,7 if that matters)
Kinks~ way to long of a list lol but can be discussed in dms just ask

Hobbies
I am a gamer play a lot of fps games but getting more in to the mmo rpg typ scene (very new to it ) my main games at the moment are : destiny 2, Minecraft, Diablo. That’s all I can think of atm I am a part time strimmer I love to Cook and bake in my free time sometimes you will catch me making some random recipes when I’m really hungry ( and have the munchies)
If I still have your attention i am a lil bit of a stoner 🤭 but anyways I also love the outdoors and camping and nature (even tho im a homebody love my bed )

What im looking for
I’m looking for a little/pet/sub to care for honestly and form some type of dynamic over time. Preferably (afab) or a cis- female. One thing to note I am poly and I’m hoping to create a dynamic or relationship with someone who is also poly ( also preferably someone in the same time zone EST and in the state) BONUS POINTS if your in Florida

PS ( if your read this far here’s a cookie )
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Wesley Chapel
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BottomSubZ
Obedient sub willing to become a chair

As long as I have a face, you have a place to sit.

Looking for any F doms who want to sit on me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 210km around USA North Baldwin
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moray813
Blank Canvas

Looking for an experienced patient Dom to help me explore this new journey in life. Would also love to speak to other Submissives who would be willing to share their experiences and any guidance they may have for a newbie
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 58 years ● 100km around UK Moray
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Alex_dub
Looking for a rubber/leather fetish mistress

Are you a mistress into rubber fetishes, high heels and corsets, looking for a sub to humiliate and bound in any way you desire for your own pleasure ? Then you should probably not let this add pass away ! I am a young and handsome man, ready to explore with you the BDSM you like, and share with you my own fantaisies ! I am looking for a regular game partner for spending kinky evenings together, or even more ! No *** required, just win-win relationship. Do not hesitate to text me and view my +18 photos on my account !
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 34 years ● 100km around Belgium Waver
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kinkyswitchboy
Sub in need

A domme that wants to use me and then cuddle me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 305km around Ireland Galway
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SocStrictDom
Social Dominant

A "STRAIGHT", BI(CURIOUS) WOMAN.

RESPECT AND TRUST IS THE FUNDAMENT FOR A D/s RELATIONSHIP.

I AM A REAL SOCIAL AND FRIENDLY PERSON IN "NORMAL" LIFE, BUT JUST ONE LITTLE MISTAKE
MADE BY YOU, AND THE NAUGHTHY BDSM PLAY IS ON !

BEING SILENT AND LISTENING, CAN BE BENEFICIAL FOR YOUR OUTCOME ! ;-))

DEDICATION AND BEING SUBMISSIVE IS THE STATE WHAT you REALLY LIKE THE MOST, AND TOGETHER WE CAN PUSH THE BORDERS !

SO BE ALWAYS PREPARED TO GET INSTRUCTIONS FOR THE RITUAL ! THE RITUAL IS AN IMPORTANT CHAPTER IN THE BLP.

THE BDSM LIFE PLAY STAGES ARE AS FOLLOWING :

you are goint to start your submissive carierre as a sub slut, followed by slut, sub slave, and the highest form is being a slave.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years France Paris
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AusCam
Need a dom to beat the shit out of me

have ur way
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Fredericksburg
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naughtyguy
Female dom wanted for clubs

I am looking to get into the bdsm club scene but have no one to go with so i am looking for a lady dom of trans dom to accompany me.
also for regular meets ,,must be able to accommodate.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 50km around UK Devizes
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.