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Zaddy876
looking for a sub

I'm a daddy Dom that loves phone calls and late night texts. I'm seeking a sub to play with and just get to know and have fun.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Jamaica Kingston
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Dragon_Queen
Looking for a DOM

I would like to meet a man to DOMINATE me in the bedroom and that is romantic outside of the bedroom someone that would like to get to know me and me get to know them
BDSM Play Partner ● 45 to 60 years ● 160km around USA Waverly
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orpheus669999
She Comes First

Seeking bdsm partner/mistress in bay area. Switch, Dom, or sub
BDSM Play Partner ● 39 to 59 years ● 115km around USA San Francisco
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Y0ungSub
Any older domina who would like to teach me things

I’m a young inexperienced sub who would like to try a few things, I’m open for alot and have few limits as of now.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 55 years ● 500km around Norway Bergen
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subbysissy1
Looking for a daddy/mommy dom

Looking for a daddy/mommy to dominate me. We can discuss limits.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Pakistan Hyderabad City
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Matttster
Looking for play partner

I am looking for a female play partner. It has been a while since I have explored kink, I have been dating vanilla for the last couple of years.

I lean towards a pleasure Dom, so am open to exploring kinks that excite my partner.

I am not looking for a sub or commitment, rather more along the lines of a kinky fwb.

If you are interested in getting to know me and see if we are compatible, message me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Spokane
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Cdbttminheels
Looking for hung Dom tops

Wanting to learn . I don’t have any desire to be owned but need playmates to take charge and breed me. I am a total cum dump for your pleasure.
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 80 years ● 75km around USA Galena
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4urpleasur3
Seeking new friends and experiences this weekend

Can the title be anymore forward?Look in the hangout with New people in mingle
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Wilmington
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DeWolfe25
Sub that is brand new to lifestyle.

I am so very brand new to the lifestyle and know mostly nothing. I'm looking for a soft dom, male or female, who is patient enough to guide a new autistic sub through figuring out what makes us both tick.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 35 years ● 50km around USA Whitinsville
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its0kiki
Sub woman seeking Dom male

Looking for a friendly and genuine Dom to explore and play. I’m quite a newbie.
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 55 years ● 250km around UK Shrewsbury and Atcham
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DomBBCReykjavik
Dom Fuck

Hey, would you like to have a Dom BBc in Reykjavik Iceland. Let’s work something out.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Iceland Reykjavík
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couplebdsm07
Couple looking for online female dom/switch/mistr

We are a couple from Northern Europe. We are looking for an online mistress to be the dom of our relationship, take ownership of our sexlife and pretty do anything or command as she wants- chats, pictures, voice calls, video calls.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Lithuania Gelvonai
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muggins
Sub sissy wannabe slut

Im a 58yr old sub sissy want to be to . I am looking to find a mistress to use and *** me. I have been sub 15 years.i am well trained and follow all orders . I dont complain i just accept. My mission would be to serve a mistress to her utter satisfaction. I have no limits as her sub. i do as told. i wear what im your slave muggins bump
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 75km around UK Skelmersdale
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thrwaway
Teach me?

Eager girl looking for a cis m preferably dom, that wants to help me eagerly learn how to best please him.

I am a virgin so sex would be something not happening up front, but everything else is on the table.

Down to try a lot of things once, just be patient with me.

Must be able to meet at your place
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 28 years ● 35km around USA Akron
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McKennaTV
Looking for a sub, 24 trans woman, Kingston

I’m looking for someone that would like to submit to me and rub my feet, let me sit on their face and other things!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 110km around Canada Kingston
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Rapidsaug
Just want a dominant mistress

Dipping my toes into the bdsm world for the first time. I want to be a sub. I am very submissive.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years USA Quinton
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BratNat101
Looking for Hypno-Dom

22/yr old female sub looking for (preferably) experienced Hpyno-dom to help turn me into a brainless bimbo. Would talk first through messages then we’ll see from there.
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 31 years ● 25km around USA Algona
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lkjgdscb
Subs

If your looking for a dom hmu
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 77 years ● 500km around UK London
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marymkc
I'm a little looking for a caregiver/daddy dom

Hi I'm wanting to find a man who is into being daddy dom/caregiver for me as a little Im Wanting to explore regression into little space and can't seem to find people in person who like that and am hopeing someone on here would be interested to take me as there little.
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 52 years ● 50km around USA Boring
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localmessanger
Looking for dom girlfriend

Im looking for a girlfriend to be my mistress when having fun in bed. I like to be super kinky. I love bondage, gags, vibrator, anal, and spanking play.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 23 years ● 300km around USA Garden City
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bigfunforyou
Looking for hot dates in Kent

I can accommodate, dom here looking for playmates.. let’s chat x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Folkestone
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kinktendoswitch
Heartbroken sub

I'm looking for a domme that can *** me out of my own head preferably someone close but I'm up for online too
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 65 years ● 75km around Canada Welland
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muttwithfangz
Lonely Puppy looking for someone to play with

Owner/Dom to play with and drive my puppy brain wild, I'm an oral enthusiast and love to please (as long as you don't catch we with an attitude ... ;) )
must be accepting of trans identities as i'm gender queer, bonus points if you're some type of queer as well :3
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 80km around USA Saint Clair Shores
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MJ14
New

Looking for a Soft Dom.
BDSM Play Partner ● 43 to 59 years ● 35km around Canada Trenton
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.