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austinG
I’m a submissive have a dom want another for doubl

Looking for a In person or long distance dominant who will really train me to be there perfect slave message me if interested
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Bondurant
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Bad126
Thrill seeking

Fun and experienced
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 80 years ● 45km around Canada Nepean
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kinkydom1968
Looking for female Sub/little.

looking for a female sub/little, someone who enjoy the loss of control, enjoys being told what to do, called names, enjoys spanking, bondage, age play.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 75km around UK Bridgend
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Haka
Suit fetish FF

Gay asian dominant top into hardcore FF of obedient white sub. Looking for another asian dominant too FF with the same fetish FF in some formal attire usually shirt and trousers - suit & tie, menatplay type shit. Very sleazy and messy. Hardcore and hnh sessions in E1. Bottom fag hosts. If you have the same kink which is very specific get in touch. Screenshots attached to give you some inkling (yes shit quality i know). Cheers
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 55 years ● 5km around UK London
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KinkyEmo
Dominant Women Needed

A dom woman needed to put me in my place. Needs to be experienced and have the ability to work with a headstrong sub.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 40 years ● 500km around UK Bury
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NawtyinBrum
Out and about Tgirl

Out and about Tgirl, smooth sub bottom. Looking for new friends, singles,groups for any scenario fun . Totally at ease with any scenario/kink .....intrigue me ! x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 90 years ● 25km around UK Birmingham
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In2leather
In2leather

I’m into both leather and latex and I'm all about delivering well in all ways. basically, not new to this sort thing.... Seeking for a woman who’s into and have a leather fetish like myself, and many more as well.

You wanna try out your kinks and fetishes with Daddy J ?
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 36 years ● 25km around USA New York
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In2leather
In2leather

I am not new this lifestyle. I've embraced it for many years. I thrive in the role of a Dominant Master, taking pleasure in control and discipline, and I am seeking a devoted female slut/sub to mold and guide.

Under my command, you will learn, grow, and experience a depth of submission unlike before.
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 36 years ● 25km around USA New York
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surrey_dom-03
Anyone want a sub

Anyone looking for a kinky young sub to use pretty much up for anything so hmu
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 155km around UK Lightwater
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NM160R
Male sub seeking strict Domme

Hello, not new to kink, looking for a domme/mistress seeking a slave/pet/object/sissy. Im very open minded and willing to bend to a Dommes desires. *** of many kinds interests me a lot. Look forward to hearing from you x
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 53 years ● 140km around UK Swindon
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SensualShibari
Female bondage bottom seeks male bondage Top

Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about tying as I am about being tied. I'm not just in to rope, I also love leather straps, vet wrap, sleepsacks etc.

I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master" or a sadist as I am purely into bondage not hum!l!ation or p@!n.

I am seeking a mental and emotional connection rather than to just meet a stranger and get tied up.

My profile explains it all in far more detail.
BDSM Play Partner ● 48 to 60 years ● 75km around UK Copthorne
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muggins
Sub male 50s looking for domme fem

Male sub50s looking for domme35 + . LOves impact play and bondage . Happy to wear whatever when in sub mode. Loves role and pet play. I do own a lot of things that will enhance things
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 69 years ● 75km around UK Skelmersdale
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muggins
Sub seeks domme or lady

Nice older guy looking for a lady domme or mistress to serve. I have many years as a sub and am completely trained. so you can use me as you pleas
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 70 years ● 100km around UK Wigan
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ValentinaxKey-
Looking for a bdsm partner

A Sadist/Dom/Master
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 46 years ● 25km around USA Gainesville
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GIzmo88
Looking for a sub or a slave if any is open toit

I am a loving kind sweet gentle but dominant Master youd just do some pleasure ***s that makes you wet as heck and same time some little humilations and a controled orgasm when do it as told youd be loved and appreciated i am nice as i am understanding but i want a loyal slave as i control you . i am good hearted just dom if interested. Just hoping someone tries.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 48 years ● 500km around USA Peoria
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Fkm8
Sub lesbian looking for first FemDom

New to this but have fantasied for many years and now looking to make my dreams come true. I am a sub gay female looking for a dominant female push my limits but look after me too.
BDSM Play Partner ● 39 to 60 years ● 50km around UK Erewash
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fucksionality
I've been waiting for you.

I'm looking for someone who is open to the new experience I can offer, or perhaps I can be the perfect Dom that's taken you so long to find. I'm looking for incredible oral presentation in my future Sub. Brat at times. One that loves feeling hopeless when tied up. Loyal. . Brave . But be assured safety comes first as well as after care. Is it you I've been looking for ?
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 33 years ● 500km around USA Albany
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PAndi-2424
Couple seeking Sub Female

Hey we are looking for a submissive female to join us, someone who is looking to explore bdsm and submissiveness. Please message us to find out more.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 39 years ● 100km around UK St Helens
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jpp
Dom mommy / mistress

I’m looking for a dom mommy for face sitting and smothering preferably older and bbw but happy to chat with anyone who’s interested also I’ll send pics when we chat
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 80 years ● 105km around Australia Waterloo
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FetishKat
Looking for a new Sub

Wanted for training, experienced or fresh to the scene welcomed
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 70 years ● 50km around UK Shepton Mallet
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BDGUY2020
A female friend for mutual kinky gratification

I'd love to met a lady, any age, any experience, Switch, Domme or Sub to explore kinky desires. I am always happy to deliver what the lady desires and get as good as I give!
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 65 years ● 50km around UK Exeter
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Greedomacstuff
Sub male 45

submissive male...45 this month. Hoping to please someone. I can be very shy.
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 99 years ● 200km around Canada Glace Bay
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djaysub
Eager sub

Sub in Massachusetts just wants a chance to serve a domme.
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 29 years ● 25km around USA Boston
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.