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Steve366
Looking for a sub brat to tame

I'm a mature daddy dom type..looking for a regular or even a full time sub to have a bdsm lifestyle with ..I'm dom but can be just a normal guy as well..I'm kind hearted but kinky as hell
BDSM Play Partner ● 49 to 59 years ● 60km around UK Biggleswade
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JMMJ1999
Sub looking for mistress

Looking, for a mistress or someone to have casual bdsm fun with. If your local to manchester, thats a bonus.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 34 years ● 150km around UK Stockport
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trussyou22
Looking for my one

Looking for my sub slave / life partner. Are you prepared for life with me? My life partner will be my sub/slave, and we will work to understand each other‘s needs and desires, passions and fantasies, goals, and aspirations.
I will adore, protect, correct, respect, and guide my partner as we journey together through life.
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 70 years ● 500km around USA San Marcos
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Redefine-Horizons
Seeking an experimentalist to explore interests!

YOU: Attractive woman seeking to experience a variety of kinks, safely, sanely, and consensually. Let's talk about past experiences and goals, see if there is repartee after an in-public no pressure meeting, and go from there. Novice to experienced, lets talk!

ME: Master's educated homeowner with 10+ years experience in the lifestyle. Average build, 6' tall, intelligent and much more than just a swinging dick that many offer on sites like this, a variety of kink interests and experiences. :)

KINKS I'D BE HAPPY TO DISCUSS: BDSM, B/D, D/s, SM, spanking / flogging / sadism, play - wax, electroplay, rope bondage, toys / plugs, , ***, ass play, threesomes, and more.

STD Free, I expect the same in a partner.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 50km around USA Stow
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Ultraspike
Looking for a sub

Currently looking for a sub/switch for kinky fun times, potentially a relationship if things go well enough.
BDSM Play Partner ● 32 to 50 years ● 50km around UK Chiltern
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sweetbabie
Looking for an owner

Hi all! This pup is looking for a possible owner. If you haven’t guessed by now I’m into pet play, but that’s not all. I’m into a lot of different sub communities and I’d love to share and explore that with someone. I encourage all messages and possible friendships!
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 38 years ● 95km around USA Saint Pauls
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Chriss73-1625
SUB looking for domme in the Nottinghamshire area

Hello
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 64 years ● 25km around UK Nottingham
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jan45
Sub or slave

Sub or slave
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 67 years ● 365km around Romania Oradea
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jan45
M for S

A sub/ slave who is willing to behave!
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 70 years ● 425km around Romania Oradea
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Stormyni
Cybersex dom/me

Hi!! I'm looking for someone to dom me through cybersex, I'm open to new ideas and experiences, and I have a couple toys :)
-you'll have to gain my trust though!!
-no video calls, but pics are okay later on
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 25 years Canada Joyceville
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Lanex
Little brat male sub looking for femdom

I am rather new to the lifestyle and am looking for a femdom near hartshorne, oklahoma.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 30 years ● 80km around USA Hartshorne
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davenalice
Bi Sub female pet wanted

Female wanted to serve us both.
Must be submissive.
Boundaries respected.
Prefer local regular meets
Bournemouth / Dorset area
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 50km around UK Poole
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wilmington667
Seeking sub .

Seeking a girl to train , teach, and enjoy . Age body shape open to discussion. Don’t care about your marital status. I am firm but fair. . Feel free to contact me 
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 57 years ● 80km around USA Bald Head Island
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bristol989
Come dominate me tonight?

Want a Dom woman (can be a man) to come and use me how they want tonight. Can host and am up for any play
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 60 years ● 75km around UK Northville
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bristol989
Any FemDoms want a plaything?

Looking for a Dom, preferably f, in or around Bristol to come play with me. Have a free place so please let me know when you’re coming round 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 65 years ● 65km around UK Northville
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joshua080999
Switch seeking switch

I’m a dom leaning switch looking for another female switch to try a long term dynamic with, I’m kinda new but have some experience pm me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 26 years ● 25km around UK Blackpool
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bone-cave384
Try new things

Looking for a sub to play with who wants to join
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 33 years ● 25km around USA Fort Campbell
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DomDaddy_R
Seeking Mistress/Mommy

In search of a good mistress/Mommy so I can please and serve. 
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 42 years ● 55km around USA Lombard
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SUB4LIFE77
Looking for something

My perfect dom - have we already talked or met...who knows
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 65 years ● 90km around Canada Hamilton
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Leo2001
Sub,Slave,Toy,Pet the list goes on

Looking for Subs to message me and see what kind of fun we can have!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 90km around UK Uttlesford
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SomeAggie
Looking for a hopeful LTR sub

I am looking to find a local sub interested in a vanilla and kinky relationship. Starting off slow as friends and seeing how things go from there. If you think you fit the bill feel free to reach out.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 75km around USA Midlothian
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NobleTickler
Are you my Ticklish Lady?

So, I love to tickle.
I'm looking for a FEMALE (cis or trans) play partner who is very, very ticklish. Someone who can't stand being tickled, and yet enjoys it. Ticklish Feet a plus and must.
I also love to role-play.
I want you to be open to playing characters, to share your imagination.
I'm also a feet and tummy/belly button fetishist (i.e. I like to lick, suck, kiss those places)
And yes, those are also the exact places I like to tickle.
I'm looking for a sub, and/or a switch who will sub for me.
I'm looking for a tickling rapport - something upon which we can collaborate and meet more than once.
Please live in Los Angeles or SoCal area.
That said, I'm open to long-distance contacts for written RP only.
I can host. Can you too?
And if tickling never interested you until you read this, and now you're thinking you could be open to it, while at the same time hoping your own kink can be honored and satisfied, let me know about it and maybe I can accommodate :-)
Looking forward to you.....
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 60 years ● 10km around USA Los Angeles
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Rainbowsunnysky
I am off and on due to work season.

Joined site March 14, 2021 If your interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your ats. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures.

Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people safety in this lifestyle.

I have been out of the lifestyle for about 10 years raising an 8 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal que.

I am not into knife play or .
Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n* clamps.etc. No ddlg

Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes.

100% Submissive
100% Rope **
95% Masochist
90% Voyeur
84% Experimentalist
62% Degradee
53% Exhibitionist
52% Brat
50% Slave
32% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
19% Pet
9% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
0% /Girl
0% Switch*
BDSM Play Partner ● 32 to 59 years ● 25km around USA Beaver
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daddydom37
The whole package

Il looking for a sub that is a little has a battery side likes pet play is a masochist and dosent mind showing off to there daddy if your out there message me let’s see if we can connect
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 30 years ● 165km around UK Southampton
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.