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Seeking someone who understands/appreciates (and maybe dreads?) the finer points of the devastating Boston Crab and similarly ridiculously named pro wrestling submission holds.

Married 23 years and now it's time to live our best lives! Kids are grown and it's just us! So let the naughtiness begin!😈
20 yrs of D/s and now would like to find sub/switch women to join us for playtime. Possibility of a LTR. We've dabbled a lot of the D/s lifestyle, but one thing we haven't experienced is playing with another sub/switch. We have experience with vanilla threesomes but would love to find a playmate that would be willing to share some new experiences with us.

I'm a male 24 years old looking for a partner in my area into the same kinks as me, message me and I will tell you more about my kinks and fetishs.

Looking for a play partner in the Syracuse area

New to BDSM lifestyle , have loads of kinks fetishes , I have a soft and gentle heart , My favorite thing to do would be to accept my mistresses golden waters swallow them down, I am a dominitrix's toy for her to use and viewing pleasure of anything kinky she would like to try, love providing hours of oral pleasure. reciprocation not required. Im also bi so if mistress has multiple subs she could loads of fun and viewing pleasure making her sub do all sorts of acts

I'm looking for some that can match my energy I'm very high spirited and want to feel the ups and downs

I'm looking for a dom/cg that is nearby the Sacramento or Elk Grove areas. Only serious messages will be answered and others will be ignored. I'll only be willing to go as far as Roseville anywhere farther than a five hour drive will be ignored.

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 pls

6' 3" tall, fit, intelligent, ready, willing and able. Do not be misled by my age. I am active, capable and fully-functional. I have no fetishes, unless wanting to become a slave to a Lady is considered to be one. I also dislike **, although I can appreciate its use in ensuring obedience.

I see my primary objective as serving and bringing pleasure to my Lady as a slave in a service orientated Mistress/slave relationship. Since I am now retired, I could do this on a continuous 24/7 basis if required.

Basically, I'm looking for someone who:

genuinely wants to own a slave in the truest meaning of that word;
would appreciate owning a slave as an item of value;
is someone that I could respect and trust;
is balanced and not an out-and-out sadist;
can exercise strict control;
is capable of ensuring my absolute servitude; and,
(here is what is making my search so difficult) someone who is cultured and intelligent i.e. a real Lady.

Age is not that important, but I would prefer someone who is mature. Both long and short-term involvement considered.

Are you ready to surrender control and embrace your true submissive nature? I am a Dominant looking for a submissive who craves guidance, discipline, and a structured, rewarding dynamic. With me, you'll experience a connection based on trust, respect, and deep understanding of your desires. I am not here to play games – I’m seeking a submissive who is eager to explore the balance of power and indulge in the pleasure that comes with embracing their true submission. If you are someone who is ready to submit, learn, and grow, then let’s begin a conversation and explore what we can build together.
(Bonus points if you’re into CNC or TPE 😋)

Attributes I value:
Trust and honesty
Open communication and respect
Eagerness to please and submit
Willingness to explore boundaries and grow

If this speaks to you, I look forward to hearing from you. Let’s make your deepest desires a reality.

Looking to find someone with experience Pegging to explore this fetish with.

Jan 2026
I am in Mexico 🎉 WARM weather and wonderful people!
Looking for kinky friends and a non-sexual service sub and sharing ideas!
Open to coffee dates with anyone 😊

I will not respond to you if you are: not local to me, send a dick pic or looking for cyber.
Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense ... just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

I enjoy getting to know you and adapt my service requirements according to your abilities and desires.

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Weekday afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month. You must be 35 years old or older. Not 20, not 28, 34, not 34 3/4 lol

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc. I am open to any age, as long as mature. I know it's a smaller community here 😊

Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. You must feed me to get time with me... simple. A cookie or fancy dinner lol. My rule since I was young vanilla lol. We go on multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. Be prepared to fill out and slowly discuss a bdsm checklist.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only. You will not submit to or in the presence of my husband.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

Here to create and maintain all sorts of connections through this app.
Be it casual, romantic, or even platonic.
I be been told I’m a pleasure dom?
It would be ideal to find someone to help endure another Chicago winter.

Im in Des Moines, IA, and I am looking for a Dom (partner or solo) asap for some fun play!

Looking for a girl that is into calling me daddy and being taken care by me

Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 59, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless s and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

A female sub to explore our kinky side and possibly something more.

Sub looking for someone to play with 😋 I'm interested in exploring my different kinks with a switch/dom. I would prefer someone close by but I'm okay with online.

Not really interested in men at the moment, but I'm fine with couples if we vibe.

Feel free to message me and we can chat!

New to all of this, help me out I'm a sub/brat. Come make me yours

Sub looking for Dom. New to the lifestyle. Wanting to explore.

Hey!

I’m looking for a femme domme for my male sub. He’s a very well behaved submissive. Ideal candidate is also looking for long term play partner. Can’t drive, can’t accommodate yet.

Meet him for a drink/dinner, and I promise you won’t regret it

His limits

• Medical, electro, needles, bodily fluids, pet play, anything illegal