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DomGoatGrey
Dom searching for a sub

Serious replies only. Don’t be shy and must be discreet. I am structured and ordered. Will you serve me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Asheville
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Mike_22
Dom looking for a Submissive

I’m looking for a submissive Female for a long term relationship. Hopefully someone local or semi local as I don’t drive. If you want to get to know me feel free to message me ☺️
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 80km around UK Leicester
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slightlean86
Dom looking for sub

Pick exchange and fwb mostly but looking for a good sub to devote my attention to
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Liverpool
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yunki
Can some one dominant me

Looking for a dom
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA New Cumberland
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AutumnKat
Sub looking for gentle dom/me

I'm a bisexual sub looking to find a caring M or F dom. Interested in rope play/bondage, predator/prey, other new experiences. open to my dom taking me into the right group settings/couples etc too. mostly seeking a praise/power dynamic. No ***. Ideally want to build a connection over a longer term but some friendly fun may be on the cards too. Not interested in online/sexting.
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 48 years ● 105km around UK Newcastle upon Tyne
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Rainbowlovez
Are you my first dom woman or dom man

just starting into exploring into myself the last few years but I feel I have only really started. I am mostly into women but enjoy having fun with men on a random occasion. I am more dominant with women more submissive with men. I am looking for mostly a woman that I can learn to trust and can gain and earn my trust to help me explore my full submissive side as I feel a lot is to be discovered (as one of my biggest fantasies is being dominated by a woman)there and feel it would help me be a better dom but is also okay with me topping them as that is what I am most comfortable with and for now what I really enjoy. I love to take care of my good and bad girls from holding them, giving massages, bathing with them, just spending time together cuddling and talking and of course sexually but also enjoy being taken care of and LOVE being teased.im open to finding a guy to explore what I am comfortable with as well as it is easier for me to be submissive with men but harder to be dominant with.
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 65 years ● 100km around USA Maplewood
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los-angeles730319
looking for female DOMME

looking for a female dom pretty much no limits i just wanna see what you wanna do to me first
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 190km around USA Los Angeles
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Taylor2323
Need a local Dom

Im looking for a Dom that has a healthy mindset that can see me frequently. Depending on distance I can travel. Need to have a munch first in person before anything happens. Must be 24-35 years old.
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 35 years ● 65km around USA Orangeville
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everytempest
Submissive female seeking to explore power dynamic

I am looking for dominant people who are interested in exploring power dynamics as a Master or Dominant. I am submissive and looking for people to build connections with and hopefully grow into long-term power dynamics.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 60km around USA North East
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singleandmingling
seeking play partner

i’m a huge sadist and masochist and it’s been too damn long since i’ve had someone to play with
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 50km around USA Santa Clarita
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haven0
Horny asf

Sub wanting pleasure
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years ● 270km around USA Lincoln
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Weasel4u
Female sub wanted

I am looking for a special woman for a LTR, must be able to relocate. There is a surprise on the other side of the rainbow :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA New Bern
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SirNicky
Looking for a sub 😌

Don't be shy-

Women only 😊
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 33 years ● 40km around USA Greenfield
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Lizbrighton
Dom needed

I need a dom not to fuck me
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 80 years ● 5km around UK Brighton and Hove
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Alcman
Newbie seeking gay master

Love to be with a male dominat master. Will be first time
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 80 years ● 50km around UK Rushmoor
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SubInFl
Looking for female dom

Hello, just a loser submissive looking for a dom. I’ll do anything besides , , and other extreme kinks. Please message me I am ready to submit.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Melbourne
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transfat
Cyber Fun

Thick ftm trans sub seeking cyber fun. What kinks do we have in common and how can we bring eachother some joy?
BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 66 years ● 500km around USA Portland
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latino_switch666
Femdom to my rescue?

looking for someone that can dom me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 43 years ● 160km around USA Baton Rouge
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Needinluck
Sub male needing femdom

Sub male needing femdom for pleasure and role reversal. Things as "d" crossdressing, feminization, sissification, (some public ) and strapon play. Fantasy is one day be d orally bi
BDSM Play Partner ● 50km around USA Cleveland
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Lilaclily
Soft Dom

I think I'd like to meet a soft Dom, who still worships my body, but also there are rules, which I'll probably dance on the edge of....but a Dom confident enough to but me back in my place. Not just purely sexual. I want a real connection. Not rushing into in person met ups. Happy for just online.
BDSM Play Partner ● 29 to 45 years ● 25km around UK Leeds
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slutty0754
A brat looking for a dom

Hi, I’m looking for a dom to chat with. Please be prepared for a little brat 😇
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around Italy Milano
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Teog
Looking for dominant women near me

I'm looking to get into bdsm as a sub I have an idea of what I'd like but haven't had the chance to experience it yet, only available on weekends or Friday nights as I work a lot. I look forward to hearing from you :)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around Canada Newmarket
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Ulfhednar44
Pleasure Dom seeking LOCAL sub(s)

I’m an experienced Pleasure/Impact Dom who is looking for new people to meet up with. I am looking for people who are or identify as female. I am primarily focused on the pleasure side of things but also enjoy breath play, hair pulling, impact/flogging, some ***, and blade play (I understand this one is particularly not for everyone) among other things.
I prefer shorter brats and thicker body types. I am open to anyone though.

I work on a three light system with safe words as well as hand signals. I am NOT interested in switching with you. I am the one and only Dominant in this situation. I am willing to drive up to 50 miles for the right person but I cannot host at this time. I am also willing to meet you halfway if you live 50 miles or less away to get coffee or drinks and get to know each other.

Message me if interested.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 45 years ● 80km around USA Merrimack
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.