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PreciousJewelz
Only interested in dedicated submissives.

Time is valuable, find a way to make this mutually beneficial. I’m not interested in pleasuring a sub that is beneath me. Don’t hate the player- or the game. If you are not a true submissive you would never understand 💋
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Albany
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martinsubUK
Seeking Mistress or friends

New to the scene in UK but had experience when living abroad. Neely single submissive is seeking a dominant woman for an FLR either friendship or play or even better long term service. Would love to meet, learn and explore!
BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 60 years ● 205km around UK Fleet
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GoonKinkDaddy
Loony for a sub to degrade

Hello, I’m Tom and I’m looking for a submissive to degrade, humiliate and make a filthy whore! Love fucktoys and fuck piggy’s DM me to get filthy!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London
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switchedvenus
Need someone to talk to! 😮‍💨

I'm up late and want to be flirty with someone. I'm a switch but leaning sub. I'm up for a bit if anyone wants to chat. Can be about anything.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Graham
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Thound33
24 yr old bwc looking for a little subby ***

Looking for a sub to dom and plow🍆💦🍑 I'm so hrny don't keep me waiting😈
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Paragould
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DrewFromErie
I'm in Boston for the week...

Hi! I have been super interested in kink for a long time, and I've done quite a bit of self-exploration, but I have never really gotten the chance to try it IRL. I'm looking for a dom (and maybe even a sadist 👀) looking to hookup this week. I can host, or I can come to you if you live near public transportation. I'm interested in any gender, but I like guys and NBs around my own age, and women my age or older.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 45 years ● 50km around USA Allston
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shhhbubbles
Need a dom

20F looking for a dom/daddy in NYC. I am 5’4, and a submissive
BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around USA New York
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czaarr
Ode to a Sub

An itch you can’t scratch away.
An urge you can’t sedate.
To resist is futile.
Relieved after you comply.
A little tease to get unleashed
A pretty please as you go down on your knees.
Contemplating what else you have to give?
Your time, your body, and your soul to lease.
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Dartford
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JakSlut
Looking for Mistress

I'm 25yo obedient sub. Looking for strict Mistress for online fun
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 29 years ● 500km around Czech Republic Praha
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Mysterious_DOM
Dom looking for his Sub!

Strict Dom looking for a Sub to play with! If you want to push your limits, reach out to me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 10km around USA Surprise
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Domtop6969
Dom kinky Bi

Looking for couples or females for fun, open minded from Toronto
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around Canada Winnipeg
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Allie_Touch
Freeuse Femboy

I'm not able to host but I'm bored of trying to find a Dom on grindr. Looking for someone to make me unable to walk right for a few days~

Don't be gentle~
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 65km around USA Williamsburg
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Cubanfreak
I am looking for a dom top Man to be Man of the ho

bold texti am a bisexual bottom submissive sissy type single father of a daughter and we are a full-time Nudist family home i need a manly man so he can move in with us and i hand him the front door keys 🗝️ and my 2024 Audi A6 he must move in with us he will give us rules to live by we have 2 story 4 bedroom 3 bathrooms swimming pool indoor Jacuzzi fits 4 adults pool table, ping pong table, dart 🎯 board i will be your personal human urinal amd you can pump me full of cum get me pregnant destroy my pretty little tight puckard up Sissy pussy hole ruff rugged and raw
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 70 years ● 400km around USA Inglewood
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enaya25
Hiya looking for a dom

Hi I’m a sub looking for a dom if you want to hit me up
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Australia St Kilda Road
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youngnhot
Take my virginity

hihi! am a younger sub that’s never had a domme before. am still a virgin and have always fantasize of having sex!!! am almost limitless and I’m a very good boy :3 be the first to take my virginity!!! (you don’t have to be a dom)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 25km around Canada Burlington
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DaddyTravels
Daddy looking for a travel sub

Want to find a long term sub/slave who will join me on road trips, kinky dates or just general fun. I’ll travel to you, I fly everywhere for business so distance isn’t an issue. I have many kinks and am experimental. Message if this sounds interesting to you!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Nashville
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Tenacity-flux
Couple of tattooed silver foxes seeking vixen

Experienced couple, Daddy tattooed Viking, Mama tattooed Valkyrie, seeking female play mate for relaxed playtime
BDSM Play Partner ● 38 to 56 years ● 95km around UK Canterbury
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Tamless1
Curious sub

Real
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Melvin Village
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Jhenry21
Daddy dom seeking mommy domme for baby girl

Hello all, my name is colin. My baby girl and I have been discussing and would like to bring a mommy into our dynamic. Middle TN area
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Nashville
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cherryenby
nonbinary sub iso fem dom

I would love to explore many more aspects of kink with a fem dom. I would enjoy a soft domme or a degrading mistress all the same <3
I'm 23, and looking for someone near my age in the San Antonio, New Braunfels, or Austin area.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 120km around USA New Braunfels
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Twitxhy
***gy 👀

Seeking a devoted *** to spoil me rotten—because my kinks deserve a generous budget. Wallet ready? Let’s play.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Wichita
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gentlemendom
Seeking Rope ***

Looking for a sub to have over to the house occasionally when everyone else is out. (Open relationship, not cheating) We’ll 💨🍃 and 🪢😈 and play.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 35 years ● 80km around USA Queen Creek
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ImmobilizeMe4U
Inescapably immobilize me

Seeking bdsm. I love to be inescapably restrained and effectively gagged, immobilized. Kidnap scenes or just submit.
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 70 years ● 145km around USA Nevada City
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    Daddy Dom or Mommy Dom is the term for a certain type of Dominant who enjoys taking on a caring and nurturing role. They mainly match up with girls/boys otherwise known as 'littles'. DDLG stands for Daddy Dom/Little Girl and is a term often used in the BDSM community. Daddy Dom and Mommy Dominants enjoy control, as all Dominants do. Their control can be in the form of written rules, choosing outfits as well as making lots of decisions for their littles. Daddy and Mommy Dominants are patient and caring, which is why they match up so well with the child-like littles. BDSM comes into the Daddy and Mommy’s relationships with their littles in different ways. They strike a balance between encouraging the little’s child-like joy and enthusiasm and showing them the control they crave for. This is why they carry both the name Daddy or Mommy and Dominant at the same time. Caring in a parental type roll and controlling as a Dominant. Daddy Doms and Mommy Doms are often instinctually good at aftercare because of their especially nurturing natures. This is essential when matching up with littles as they need lots of care and attention before, during and after a BDSM scene.
    A Master/Mistress is a specific kind of Dominant. They are more likely to take on a 24/7 relationship with their submissive/slave and control all aspects of their sub’s life. There may be exceptions, for example when the partners are at work, otherwise a Master/Mistress is in control all of the time. They will train their slaves to serve them in the way they enjoy. This will include domestic chores and service as well as sexual and kink aspects of their lives. Some expect their slaves to ask permission to eat, use the bathroom and other mundane acts, taking control of everything their submissive does. Of course, all this is pre-agreed. It may all be written down in a formal contract or may have been discussed in advance. There will be ways for the slave to express discomfort and to say no when they don’t want to do something. This could be in the forum of a safeword or something else that is pre-agreed. Even though the relationship seems very one-sided, it is consensual. A Master/Mistress has their slave’s well-being at heart and will never make them do anything that is unsafe or they won’t like, that is part of the nature of the trust and control between them.
    Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.