Masochist on Fetish.com

I am looking for a masochistic bottom or switchy play partners(s) for regular play sessions. Women/ couples only. No singles men. See my profile for a detailed breakdown of my specific kinks, fetishes and play style. Mutual informed consent and respect for limits non negotiable. I am drug and disease free (420 and moderate alcohol use friendly) and expect my play partner(s) to be the same. Feel free to message me with any questions or just to say hello. Thank you for your time, I look forward to hearing from you!

I'm looking for a woman of any age who needs to explore power dynamics, emotional bondage, objectification, debasement, etc. If you are Bi or similar that's good because I have a pretty sub who wants to be tied up and made to watch (as furniture) , she can be more involved if you prefer.
The sort of woman should be open minded and exploratory, non-judgemental and have a wide range of kinks.
I enjoy the experience of exploring the dynamic, so whether you are a *** sub, or a masochist, or a switch who would like to Domme my sub, there's all sorts of possibilities. So lets chat and see what fits, and if we have chemistry.

Dominant people

I’m in need of a masochistic bratty sub who won’t mind being degraded 😈

I want to meet a masochist that is prepared to grow a loving obedient relationship built on respect and growth.
Some experience. Want permanent now.

Yes I love FTM. No not a chaser…. It’s about respect and journey.

The Good Lord has given me a talent for making people cum. I am really good at it and some would argue I am TOO good at it.
This isn't an exaggeration, I was a former sex worker, I may have more experience than you do.

Look I am just looking for a new play partner, who isn't afraid of facing the reality of how easy it is for you to cum. Someone who will not be upset that I got you to squirt while your former/current/future partner has never been able to. I want someone who understands that it's ok if you have been pushed to multiple orgasms over and over again and this isn't a competition. I am looking for a person who doesn't get insecure for having no stamina after being turned into a puddle multiple times.

So a little back story — my wife and I are poly, she is really supportive but one of the reasons my last three exes and I had to part ways is cause they were feeling insecure about not matching me in skill level.

In a mood to play roughly with a sub who has a bit of a masochist streak. I’d love to have you as I alternate between your favorite impact toys, vibrating toys and myself.

Seeking a Submissive Masochist for Deep Connection
Are you a woman who craves intensity, surrender, and the thrill of pushing boundaries? I’m a confident, experienced dominant seeking a like-minded submissive masochist for a meaningful, consensual connection. You embrace your desires, find beauty in trust, and are eager to explore the dynamic of power exchange with respect and care.
I’m looking for someone open, communicative, and passionate about their submissive side. Whether you’re experienced or curious, let’s connect to discuss limits, desires, and the potential for something extraordinary. Respect, trust, and mutual understanding are non-negotiable.
If this resonates with you, send me a message—let’s start a conversation and see where our chemistry takes us.
Serious inquiries only. Consent and safety first.

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this somewhat long post. I am attempting to establish minimum compatibility prior to spending an extensive amount of time chatting. your honesty with yourself, who you are, and what you want is paramount.
My ultimate goal is to find a partner in life with whom I can be Myself without . My descriptions and requirements below are in many cases goals, though they need to be acceptable to you as anything said or written is considered an acknowledgement and soft-commitment; honesty and transparency are important to Me.
Obviously, there will be discussions surrounding basic life goals and desires as well as the items below, so don't get scared away thinking you and your feelings are not being considered. Part of being a Daddy is concern for My girl and her well being.
you will use My use of capitalization in written communications.
The lists below are in no particular order, hence bullets, not numbers, mostly just a stream of consciousness.
I very much look forward to starting a dialogue with you, so reach out soon.
About Me
I am an Owner/Daddy who has had one submissive 30 years ago and the same one again recently for a total of about 2 years. That relationship is completely over now.
The hiatus between was when I pushed the kinkier side of Me down and lived a vanilla life. I am at the point I no longer want to ignore my kinks and fetishes and I would like to have another sub/slave with a cervix to join Me.
• I have a low body count and prefer you to have the same, if possible, though this is not a hard requirement. Corrupting you is one of my fetishes.
• I want to create a relationship of trust and safety where we both can express our desires without judgement.
• Assuming compatibility, marriage is possible/probable though regardless you will be collared.
• I have an extensive list of kinks and fetishes, some of which may be considered extreme.
• I have sadistic tendencies.
• I am well educated.
• I have a felony conviction for negligent homicide as part of a traffic collision. No or alcohol were involved.
• I am white.
• I have a penis about 80% of average.
• I am currently overweight (200 lb), though I am working to improve Myself. My goal is 150 to 160 lb.
• My known limits are no or play.
About you
• you may have from previous relationship(s).
• you are open to being pregnant (once again) as I would like to have a child. This is not a hard requirement as long as you are accept another carrying the child.
• your commitment to me will be unshakeable regardless of our activities.
• you will put Me before yourself.
• you will never lie or deceive Me in any way as this would erode and/or threaten the safe environment.
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have my kinks and fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• you understand that I will most likely be open to or already have any fetish or kink you desire.
• your kinks/fetishes may concern or scare you because you the repercussions (not a requirement) as getting you to do those things is part of my desire. The safe environment I am seeking to build should help assuage many of your concerns.
o you will perform My fetishes and kinks even when they are not fully your own.
o you will be having sex with women. Whether you enjoy it to start is not relevant, though you will be expected to obey and participate enthusiastically.
• you will be expected to address Me as Sir at most times. Other pet names are acceptable as long as they are respectful.
• you will be collared once compatibility and long-term commitment has been established.
• you have masochistic tendencies.
• you swallow.
• you may be given an SLRN (this can be discussed).
• you will keep a tidy house and provide healthy meals (similar to TradWife).
• Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
• Preferably, you are similar to Me in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.

Strong-handed sadist looking for a submissive female that derives her pleasure from *** 💥 Would like to find a consistent partner so our dynamics can really develop. Consent and safety come first, everyone cums later 😉

I’m looking for a sub or slave that likes being degraded and d. Someone who isn’t scared of a bit of and ***. If that’s you send me a message

preferably someone with experience in extreme sado/masochism or looking to explore the extremes

Working from home for the rest of 2025, and looking for some day play to relieve the monotony!
Would love to play with kinky women - particularly if you’re a masochist, rope bunny, and/or enjoy /!
I can host in the Annex.

Malaysian, chinese male sub looking for a mistress/master, bi-sexual, high obedience, willing to try anything, masochist, prefer physical, accept online play

a bit of a sex and bdsm newbie, very much a masochist, also a bit of a brat. show me a good time?

Looking for someone to hold me in chastity and hurt me. I love feet, CBT, and overall cruelty. DMs open.

Ideally I would love to find a submissive female masochist who is also a swinger and at least bifriendly. I am open to ltr as well as short term. I have no problem with dating and earning submission. I don’t like being an internet Dom, and definitely not interested in pen pals.

My play partner pansexual sub masochistic brat experimental female 29 (turning 30) and I pleasure/service dom sadist experimental hedonist brat tamer male 36 (turning 37) I have some experience with threesomes and group but not with her or you yet.
Asked me to do my best to find someone interested in helping her explore her voyeurism kink and potentially if we tease, involve and tempt her right her first ffm experience.
Feel free to reach out and we can chat and you can ask any questions you might have.
Happy to meet and build comfort and trust through vanilla dates with the three of us first.

helloo, i’m b
just moved to the area from far away, needing new fwb, bdsm events/communities, etc

masochist sub puppyboy, slut masochist brat
bi, looking for fun

i love bondage, being overpowered, toys, teasing/, etc
when i know the dom i luv cnc, , , extreme rp, and more ><

Submissive. Masochist. Slave. Brat.
I crave a real connection with a dominant who’s rough, sadistic, and unapologetically in control. If you're the type who doesn’t take crap and knows exactly how to own a submissive—mentally and physically—we might just click.
*** me. Break me. Own me.

I’m not here for games, endless chats, or long-distance fantasies. If you have no real intention of meeting, keep scrolling. I’m only interested in genuine dynamics, in-person, and something intense.

A few things you should know:

I get a lot of messages ✉️. If yours is just “hi,” I’m probably ignoring it. Be different. Be bold. Make me want to reply

No dick pics unless we’ve actually talked 🍆✖️—seriously, it’s not cute.

I’m submissive, not your submissive ⛓️. That title is earned, not assumed.

I don’t tolerate disrespect ❌. If you think submission means doormat, you’re in the wrong place.

I’m not into one-night stands or quick hook-ups 🚫. I want something deeper, darker, and all-consuming.

If you don’t have pics or won’t send one, don’t message me. I like to know who I’m talking to. 📸

I’m monogamous—I’m not looking to share or be shared. One Dom. One sub. That’s it. ❤️

Impress me. Seduce me. Dominate me.
Make me feel it.

Hi, Andrew here. I am a submissive or slave type oriented person. I love being in bondage, and am a masochist. Open to most kink related activities and would love to serve however is desired.

I am also into just regular fun if that is what you prefer. Meaning without the slave/masochist dynamics. Just hanging out naked and having some fun together. I am a nudist so love just hanging out naked for sure and completely open minded if you have kink preferences. All good.

If you are interested in a slave, submissive or toy to play with or just want to hang out naked and have regular fun, please write back. I can travel anywhere in Wisconsin, North eastern Iowa, Illinois and Eastern Minnesota a few days notice. Other places with more planning time.

If your goal is quick hookups, casual meetups, or free-flowing erotic content—I am not your playground. I will not be sending photos or videos for your entertainment. If that’s all you’re after… scroll on. [addition: this is a hard limit for me, anyone requesting photos will be blocked. I will choose when and at what stage i am happy to progress to sharing my irl life with an online dynamic, if this is not acceptable, then do not engage]

For those still reading: I am happy to engage in remote toy play, though I am not seeking in-person meetings in the near future. If the dynamic, relationship, or interactions ever reached a point where meeting in person or sharing media became relevant, that could be discussed—but only if I feel a genuine connection worth sharing.

I am a fully submissive woman with strong masochistic tendencies, craving the nuanced interplay of intellectual and physical dominance from a partner who may be a sadist, a Daddy, or a Sir/Master. I thrive in dynamic, mentally stimulating interactions where words, gestures, and intent carry weight, where obedience is never hollow, and commands are meaningful because they are earned and understood.

I am flirtatious, bright, and capable of filthy indulgence when the moment calls for it, yet I also carry a quiet need for care. I crave a Daddy who can guide, nurture, and attend to the subtler layers of a submissive’s mind and heart, helping me find comfort even in moments I struggle to reach it myself.

My submission is genuine—I to it. I carry a spark of oppositional defiance, but that fire exists to be challenged, directed, and ultimately consumed by a Sir or Master who truly understands the art of dominance beyond s***w orders. I also recognize that obedience cannot be inspired through ego alone, but through mastery, presence, and the ability to balance intellect and control.

If you can navigate that delicate interplay—acknowledging each person’s unique moods and needs as much as I do—then perhaps you are the one, or the ones, I am searching for. I am open to these roles being fulfilled by different individuals if no single person embodies them all, as long as each connection is respectful, attentive, and thoughtfully dominant.

A switch looking to gain further experience in either side of a dynamic. I can be a caring dom laced with sadistic desired or a masochistic sub for someone to use. Who wants to bite?