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I am a non-binary masochistic submissive bottom. I am living with cancer and though I am facing my own mortality I am still alive and I want to live why I am. I am seeking a male dominant BDSM Master top for a reasonable facsimile. If you can lower your own surface inhibitions you might find it interesting and much more worth your time. Sometimes the very thing you were looking for is the one thing you cannot see if you were looking with your eyes and not your mind.

It seems like an impossible task to find my kinky Baby Doll princess. Of course, the men on here and everywhere outnumber the girls a thousand to one and think that if they pull out their wiener of varying sizes it’s going to suddenly make women faint at the sight of it. If anything, it just takes away all appetite they might have for a man, as well as their food and probably even dessert 🍨

I’m a confident man, not arrogant. Open, trustworthy, honest, very communicative, which to me are all key. 6ft2 tall, blue eyed, bearded heavily inked, Viking man from the UK, with a well over a decade in the fetish and kink community, fuck that makes me sound even more like I’m from cocoon.

I’m a simple man who isn’t rich or have any great expectations other than to be happy for my friends, family, and people I love, well and myself. I don’t see any point in dwelling on the past or judging anyone for anything they have had or will in life. Unless it’s something that’ll get you locked up.

Trying to navigate the world to find Alice in her wonderland, is like losing myself in David Bowies Labyrinth, with all sorts of crotch Goblins and talking caterpillars, like I’ve fallen down the rabbit hole, and been captured by the Queen of hearts guard.

Is it so bad to ask to find that little pocket rocket. Smaller, younger, petite in height and cute all round. Someone who wants and older man to have both a cute and cuddly relationship with as much as sex filled of nature together?

Size, shape colour or creed are all things that I hold no judgment on. But i learned that the smaller and more gymnastic you are suits 😜 Though age id hope is 20 yrs old plus with wiggle room of 12 months less and anything above. That perverse princess, who is as happy in make up as she is to wallow in pjs. A masochistic doll who likes to have a towering viking around them.

Are you a seductive, sassy sometimes sweet strawberry, or a raven-haired grave sitting girl. Searching for that Daddy Dom presence but I don’t like to be labelled as we are all canvas’s that are ready to be ted on and perverted through our exploits and excitement’s. Id like to make contact fairly fast away from the glitchy reddit app asap, exchange photos and voice notes to establish a connection and reality…. IM A SUCKER FOR AN ACCENT.

Now I have all the love and respect for SW's and OF girls, but if we get together I aint paying to see my partner, and please only contact me if you are genuine, even if you do OF. Hell if you do OF then it's a bonus and I'd love it.

I've probably bored you into a coma, made you addicted to coffee, or suddenly join your local church so they can drown you in holy water, to cleanse you of this demon...

But if you smiled, laughed, giggled or at all even raised an eyebrow at this post, then please feel free to DM me.

EAT ME or DRINK ME Alice. which one will you choose??

Looking for a woman who is up for experimenting! I'm always up for bondage and have a bit of a masochist side, and I love to please and be of use to you. Preferably someone in person!

Looking for someone to join me in the vanilla world. Who likes to have a conversation. But also knows their place. I'm looking for a masochistic sub. she will need to accept Me, and either be excited by my desires, or pleased to be part of them.

Hi! I'm a masochistic Sub looking for a Domme! Someone who likes spanking, *** play, discipline, and stuff along those lines!

My fet name is Switchperson65. Kinda says it all. 8 years as a.superior slave one as a Sir.

Into everything with experience but hard no and open to water games.

Not into ***. In play care and after care a must.

Am a true masochist as a bottom as a top o go with the flow.

Retired and can travel anytime and am single. My kids are adults.

Am beyond spontaneous and into exhibitionism.

Since I am bi am into women,couples and trans.

Have a feminine side. Have done all drag and am fierce as fuck.

I'm interested in:

Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. Strongly prefer other ethically non-monogamous and poly people who have their own partners too.

Also interested in platonic friendships with members of the local queer and kinky communities.

No cishet men!

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with a female sub. I'm happy to chat with anyone that's interested, though I'd prefer you either be reasonably local willing to relocate - I would like to actually meet you in person once we've got to know each other

Experienced poly Dominant always looking for new friends and play partners from the PNW, or worldwide where I currently travel by sailboat.

Ultimately I'm seeking a slave-oriented girl wishing to serve in a TPE capacity to an experienced owner. Ideally looking for a highly masochistic and service slave who craves a deeper meaning to her existence, and one who is willing to serve with honor and put in the work to get there. Caging and intense mental/physical training will be the norm. A girl expecting hard use and service in her life as property, and willing to make the commitment to that life once she feels she's finally home in it. But make no mistake! Real , severe control, and will be used to control and form you mentally and physically into the property I require.

Service will be in home and yacht, assisting next to my slave-wife jezebel. Slave will be taken to local parties and events. Obedience and respect shall be the norm, and severe punishments for failure. We are very open and friendly, but bullshit will not be tolerated. Please be real, and mature enough to be trustworthy and truthful in your dealings with people.

That said, I've got an open door policy. Please feel free to contact me at any time.

Caring, confident, and a little old-school—this Daddy who knows how to lead without taking away your voice. I’m an Italian-American Daddy Dom who loves creating structure, safety, and fun for a special Little.

Never been married, no kids, and drama-free. I value loyalty, honesty, and mutual respect above everything.

In my world, being a Daddy is more than a title—it’s about protecting, guiding, and spoiling the right girl while helping her grow. I believe in aftercare, consistency, and clear communication so that you always feel cherished and safe.

What I’m Looking For

A sweet, playful Little (20–28) who enjoys rules, rituals, and being cared for. Someone who’s thin/slim and embraces the dynamic inside and outside the bedroom. Bonus if you love coloring, stuffies, bedtime routines, and being Daddy’s good girl.

This isn’t just about kink—it’s about building a connection where trust and chemistry make everything better.

Kinks & Interests

✔ DD/lg
✔ Rules & Rewards
✔ Spanking (for correction and fun)
✔ Cuddles, movie nights, bedtime stories
✔ Structure, guidance, and LOTS of aftercare

If you’re ready for a Daddy who’s serious about this lifestyle and knows how to take care of his Little, send me a message and tell me your favorite stuffie’s name.

I'm a Sadist Master look for two Masochistic Slave to make my own for life to go out and have fun at kink clubs and events and I will own them and take care of them as long as they take care of me

Looking for a friend->leading to possibly more, if you're accepting of an ENM relationship. Would love a masochist to play with in particular.

I'm interested in:

Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. Strongly prefer other ethically non-monogamous and poly people who have their own partners too.

Also interested in platonic friendships with members of the local queer and kinky communities.

Looking for a Masochist here in japan.
Let’s have some fun and lick each other for hours.

I'm still looking for a regular play partner, women only, *** play only (no dynamics) within about 2 hours of Dothan, AL. I can host or come to you. See my profile for more details.

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No , no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

Who treats me like a precious baby😆😇 but also do punishment (I'm also a masochist)

Looking for a female who will come to my house STD free, preferably on BC.

I want to explore my sadist side, I want to pull your hair hard, I want to slap you hard, I want to *** my dick down your throat, hold you down, throw you around, and pound you as hard as I can.

May use blind fold and ropes and flails but we will see how I’m feeling. If you think you can handle it message me and let’s set something up!

I'm a sub/masochist from Kingston Upon Hull, looking for a regular female domne/play partner that could hopefully lead to a relationship.

I have been in the scene for a number of years snd a regular at the local fetish events.

If you want to talk I am on fetlife under the same user name.


Because I can't drive must be in the Kingston Upon Hull area.

Looking for a masochistic submissive woman into impact play
NYC area

I am 47 and a fairly seasoned Dom partial to OG, although I am not close minded. I believe the BDSM lifestyle is always growing and expanding with room for some of TNG, as long as the four pillars are upheld and important foundations are not forgotten. Looking to meet & chat with a masochistic sub, hopefully a bit bratty (not interested DD/lg). I had to release my last sub (24/7) almost 2 years ago. This time more of a play partner, not quite the depth of vetting necessary but safety is always paramount.