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An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

Greetings,
I appreciate those patient enough to read my ad fully, as I write this completely sincerely.

I sit here in my room, post Christmas celebration with friends and chosen family. I'm sober, not horny, and have a sense of clarity after a deep conversation with a dear friend.

I'm 5 years into my transition, 5 years of wild experiences and learning to love every aspect of myself, even the hard to love parts. I'm sick of mulling over and debating the ramifications vs rewards of what I truly want, I have a near-complete understanding of who I am and what I want, and I feel good about taking the next steps into what I want and who I want to be.

I crave submission in the aspect of being able to follow someone's instructions and requests to a T.

I was recently told, in a completely vanilla snd non-sexual context, to find something nice to wear and show up at an address. It felt natural to follow orders without thinking about it. Partially because I trust the person completely, partially because I find great purpose in serving.

So let me serve you.

I can cook, clean, create, and run errands. I will learn to please you in all the ways you enjoy, and take notes of what makes you especially happy, whether it be the way you like your coffee or a particular way you like being touched.

I'm searching for a Dominant person (or persons if the vibe is right) with a genuine desire for a long-term, subservient submissive.
I'm asking that you treat me well, are firm, kind, creative, and stable, and enjoy kink as much as I do. A mentor or guardian role is welcome, but not necessary. I'm not looking for equality here.

Kink is something that's becoming more important to me as I consider what I want out of a relationship.
I crave the general D/s vibes, but have specifics that I would like to have be aspects of our relationship. These include:

Bondage (from tied wrists to full binding suits)
Chastity (it simultaneously makes me calmer and hornier)
A ruleset and reward//punishment system
Clear communication
Aftercare for all parties
Free Use (within the agreements of the relationship)
Uniforms or other clothes/gear marking me in a role
Mutual fantasy fulfillment
In 2026, I have goals of self-care, self-love, and modifying my body, wardrobe, and lifestyle to match who I am. Help and cheerleading will be more than welcome in my goals, and I hope to give the same to you!

If you've gotten this far and are interested, feel free to shoot me a message request. Please be open, write with intent, and be clear and sure about what you want and who you are.
Thank you for your consideration. 🩷

Looking to tie tease and a female looks unimportant,just a willingness to be punished tied gagged and d.lancshire based but will travel. Over 25 yrs experience larger ladies most welcome.

A woman who can show me what it’s like to be dominated and how to derive pleasure from ***

If there are any female submissive brats out there who want to keep me busy disciplining and punishing them please dm me. Must be serious. No games. Honest and loyal. Fun. play time. Sadistic. Gags. Chains. Spit. Spank. Slap.

I am a sub looking for a casual chat and online play with a creative dom who likes to play games. I prefer to submit to a dominant when there is a chance of risk or reward, and I enjoy playing games to determine the risk or severity of tasks/dares. I would love to sub for a creative dom who can find new and interesting ways to humiliate and play with me…

I have many kinks of my own, and I’d be open to trying new things I haven’t yet experienced, especially if I lose hehe 🫣😉.

Here some of my kinks: tasks/dares, bondage, , games/riskiness/punishment, nudity, stripping, food, hidden public, outdoor, tighty whities, underwear, underwear control, wedgies, bullying, joi

Open to: , cum play, wax, messy, lace, exhibitionism, very mild exposure, *** role-play

I prefer guys around my age or older, but I’m open to working with anyone who can come up with exciting and creative tasks for if(when) I lose.

I like games that are well balanced and fair, and I do prefer to have some chance to escape, as well as a risk of making things more intense. I have found card games to be really good for this, but I’m open to other games if there’s something you prefer to play. I’d love to form something long term if things work out, and I also enjoy getting to know my dominant on a personal level. I’m ideally looking for some casual chat and some kinky play to add a little spice to my life.

DM if that sounds like something that would interest you, eager to hear from you!

Looking to give oral and be punished

Looking for the right master who has structure and rules, not js someone who orders me around. someone who actually sticks to what they say and are strict with punishments. feel free to message me 😉

Seeking a long term partner that will submit and be tamed.
Punishment for bad behaviour will be met with a flogging.
Wear your collar and worship as required.

I am not the normal Dominant you'll find on here, or anywhere else. I dont have a kink or a fantasy of being a certain way; it is just my personality.
These insecure twats that are pouring into your inbox claiming to be Doms are disappointing and aggravating, and--frankly--I would never trust one of them to be alone with My Submissive; to me, taking someone on is to have a precious thing. Precious things--Good owners take care of; prized possessions are cared for.

I prefer to only have one girl; ideally, a sweet girl that only needs occasional punishments and can, instead, be trained by being praised and rewarded for good behavior.

I'm open to all levels of experience out there; ig you are just curious, you should just say so, and I'l be sure that the experience is what you need it ro be.

It would break my heart to know that The Next Sweet Girl who I take the responsibility for is wasting her time with bad sex and skem guy pretending to be what he's not in order to hurt women to feel tough.

Be safe, out there, and--regardless of whether this post catches your eye--anyone in trouble should know that they can reach out to help if need be.

I’ve always been a consensual spanker. Many relationships come and go, but I have not ever found the one. I want a relationship with the man is in charge in corporal punishment is implemented. I’m a loving person and would take care of you.

Have you been naughty? Do you need a beautiful woman to put you back in your place

Looking for sub/little or brat energy, to received my guidance and gifts. Your pleasure and service is how I get my pleasure, guided by my hands. I like to lead, with kindness and a firm tact, knowing when, punishments, rewards and tasks are to be administered. Slow burn, where Boundaries and communication are always respected.

I’m interested in a sub who would be willing for intense mind control. I believe there is more to domination than just physical punishments and ***. I am for something bigger and greater. I want to completely change you, make you become a new person, make you behave different, it’s a rather long term effort but I promise you won’t regret it.
You’re tiny little brain will be washed till you become the perfect slave and even then there is no guarantees that it will stop. I want slowly take both your personality and looks away but also make you feel special. Let’s talk and make you realize how pathetic you are and how much you need to change.

Important note that it’s a long road. But there will be no turning back, once we begin I won’t let go, won’t help you in getting out. You and I both know it’s only the best for you if you don’t fight it and just accept it. But with that being said I do respect boundaries and limits, if there are things that you are not capable then we will skip over. But remember me respecting your tiny limits won’t stop me from pushing you to them.

I want someone who isn’t scared of hurting me and punishing me when I get too spicy. If you can handle the heat, let me know.

I’m open to just about anything. I’m very obedient until I’m not bc I enjoy being punished lol

I’m looking for a partner or fwb, slave, or sub, man or woman or a couple. Prefer local don’t bother if you’re not within 30 min give or take, preferably and primarily looking for someone that I can be myself with, hang out and do normal things like watch movies, play video games, be creative. And also have time when we want to play, which my availability is pretty open!

One thing I really appreciate and want to practice is rope, but I’d like a sub or even a slave, I am more of a pleasure dom, that being said I like giving punishment if you want it, I like being in control if that’s what you like also, I enjoy giving impact, and zappy toys, edging, cbt, much much more.

Communication is key, as well as connection we must have both, tell me your interests, hobbies, turn ons.

Let’s meet for coffee and chat, see how we get along!

FTM 18 mn looking for an online or in person dom to own/use me; edge daily punishment etc. message me if interested

Some loser wasted my time so I want to punish someone else for his blunder. I consider myself a switch and now I want to also find men to femme dom. I'll humiliate, degrade, belittle, insult, physically and mentally punish you. I'll pamper and pleasure myself while you watch like a cuck.

These are a few fantasies I'd be interested in acting out, or at least partially acting out; I wouldn't want to go too far, because I don't enjoy real pa!n or !njury. (And if you'd like to see what I look like, just ask for access to my private photos. My public photos are selfies with clothing added by AI.) All right, here are some of my more recent fantasies:

-- You matter-of-factly explain that since I agreed to meet you in person, you now have the right to use my body in any way you see fit. That I let you buy me like a cheap cut of meat at a grocery store. After you make me strip, maybe you even order me up onto the kitchen counter, grabbing handfuls of my flesh and feeling it for firmness, thwacking my thighs with a meat tenderizer, as if I really am nothing but a piece of meat, before you hop on top of me, or tug me down to the floor, to ride me as you wrap your hands around my throat...

-- You make me work out in nothing but a pair of black boxer briefs...while you periodically glance up and order me to switch to heavier weights, or traipse over and squeeze my biceps or smack my thighs...or you just decide that I've turned in such a lackluster performance that it's time to end the workout early, and you push me down to the floor, on my back, straddling me, and slide your hands around my sweaty neck...

-- A lot of my fantasies tend to involve ch0king. I've done it to women before, but I've never been ch0ked myself. Never even been dominated. Always dated submissive women who wanted me to be dominant in the bedroom. So I'm craving a woman who'll say, maybe mid-conversation, that it's time for me to shut up. Then you order me to lift up my chin, and you curl your hands around my neck, your thumbs pressing down on my throat, as I sputter and ch0ke under you, and you ride me like a horse.

-- Maybe one of us bathes the other. But I'm not sure whether it'd be more appropriate for me to bathe you worshipfully by candlelight, massaging soap into your skin and shampoo into your scalp, gently and soothingly...or for you to scrub me clean, as roughly as you can, just scour my body with a brillo pad as if I'm a filthy pet or piece of livestock. Either way, I think the bath needs to end with you mounting and riding me...maybe even holding my head underwater and snickering at the way I sputter and splash around beneath you, as if I'm just a funny bathtime sex toy.

-- The two of us come back to my place after a date, sitting on the sofa, you looking bored, or tired, starting to ignore me...until all of a sudden your eyes light up, and you ask me excitedly, "Hey, would you mind if I strangled you? I bet your body would look soooo good all naked and sprawled out on the floor!" I'm shocked, at first, and I just assume it's a sick joke...but then I realize you're serious, and I start trying to bargain with you. Maybe I offer to let you ch0ke me, just a little, hoping it'll be enough to satisfy you...but, of course, it isn't, and you slowly talk me into letting you throttle me for longer and longer, removing more and more of my clothes, letting you smack me around, inspect my body. "See? You like getting ch0ked, don't you?" -- Until eventually I give in, and you remove the rest of my clothes and mount me...

-- We meet, go out once or twice, and I try to impress you by bragging about my cooking. So I invite you back to my place one evening to make you dinner. We start cooking together, but it doesn't take long before the power dynamic shifts wildly in your favor: you spill your drink on my shirt, seemingly accidentally, so I have to pull it off -- my undershirt, too -- and you look at my chest coldly, impersonally, reach out and poke my pecs...slap my abs, watch my flesh jiggle...offer unsolicited advice about what muscles I need to work on, while I just awkwardly nod, hope you'll let me get back to cooking...and when I do, you watch me intently for a minute, then order me to strip completely naked so you can get a look at the rest of my body.

I demur, tell you we should wait until after dinner to, uh, take our clothes off. "You're the only one taking your clothes off," you tell me, and calmly walk over and pour the rest of your drink onto my pants. I sputter some protest while looking down in shock, start to unzip my jeans, but you grab my chin and jerk it up, lock eyes with me, instructing me to stay still for a minute -- "I'm gonna punish you now. You want to get ch0ked or held underwater? Ten seconds, either way." So I choose to get ch0ked, it seems easier -- and when you release my neck, you tell me I'm allowed to strip out of my jeans now. My underwear, too. And you have me strip naked in the kitchen, commenting on my anatomy as if you're critiquing a drawing or statue or doll, and I hand you my pants and boxers, then hop up on the cold kitchen counter.

By the time dinner is ready, you've informed me that your chairs and table -- all your furniture -- are for people wearing clothing, not for naked or underwear-clad bodies...but that once your dinner's on the table, you'd be happy to dump some food -- maybe crackers, or leftovers -- onto a paper towel on the floor for me to eat. I groan, but I don't bother complaining any longer...and while I try to make conversation with you, crouching down on the floor to scarf down some barely edible food while you devour whatever meal I've cooked for you, you just ignore me while you read or watch or scroll through something on your phone.

After you finish eating, you look at me -- I'm still trying to chew a few last bites of my own awful meal -- and you say, sounding disgusted, "Dude, I don't think this is gonna work out...you're just not my type." You get up, you grab me by the hair or arm, pull me up, retrieve my clothes from wherever you left them, take a few plastic bags, and lead me outside -- I'm feebly struggling, begging you to let me put my clothes back on before we go outside where people can see us -- but you just march me over to the building's trash room, or garbage can in the backyard. You toss my clothes in a bin, order me to get in too -- and I just give in, hoping the night will just end already, climb into the garbage. You finally offer me some praise, pat me on the head, so when you tell me to lift up my head, I happily comply, letting you zip tie a plastic bag around my neck before you lower the dumpster lid, dust off your hands, and walk away.

Or -- even darker ending -- when you finish eating dinner, and I offer to help you put the leftovers in the refrigerator, you wait before answering -- slowly look over my whole body, pause, think for a minute, and finally reply: "No. I wanna save space in the freezer to hold you."

I really need help. Serious, legitimate inquiries only. I need a dominant man who will provide structure in my life and punishment when needed. I am severely depressed and need help and motivation to clean my room, get my life back in order and maintain personal health. I was recently in a relationship that provided that but he was not nurturing enough and lacked as a caregiver to my little. He had a very active life and our frequent outings together helped upkeep personal health for me and he provided punishment and set structure for completing tasks but that has ended and I need that again to function. I’ve recently tried to try again with another man but I *** his own ailments may be greater than mine and he was causing me more anguish and anxiety than I needed and I don’t know if he can help me. I want a dominant man to be in a dynamic with who can discipline and nurture. I want this IN person and you should live a comfortable distance where you can pick me up and take me to your house for discipline and play dates.