Hello! Thank you for checking out my ad.

A few key points if you didn't read my bio:
1) I'm from Poland, moving to UK early next year, but currently happy to travel to UK/Germany or anywhere in Europe for arranged play sessions.
2) Any gender or even a double dom situation would work

Now to the actual advert 😛

My experience: not completely new to bdsm, have some experience as a slave and as a sub, know my likes, dislikes and limits but have so much more to learn!

What I am looking for: experienced dom/domme, master or mistress in UK/Germany to explore kink hotels/sex dungeons together (happy to pay for the stay). My main fantasy at the moment is to explore fuck machies/sybian/heavy bondage and other equipment. You can check an explicit list of my likes and interests in my profile. Initially I'm hoping to find someone for a longer (3+ hours) slave training or D/s play session and push my limits with various toys and equipment. If you have some that's a plus, if you don't we can rent some.

What I don't want: no vanilla sex, no penis to vagina penetration on the first session if you are a cis male (sorry, my limit to build proper trust), no mixing kink and personal life.

What I can offer: nice body, open mind, obedience. Basically if you fancy experimenting with a willing sub/slave, using new equipment, getting creative - I can be your ideal toy.

If you are into orgasm control, overstimulation, love humiliating your subs/slaves and have a sadistic side we'll be a great match!

Thank you for reading 🔞🩷🍑

BDSM Play Partner35 to 70 years UK London

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