I am a confident, experienced Dominant who thrives on control, structure, and the art of power exchange. In and out of the scene, I value intelligence, respect, and loyalty—and I expect the same devotion from those who wish to serve me. My style is assertive yet intentional: I command with both authority and care, knowing that true submission flourishes under trust and clarity.

I enjoy exploring a wide range of kinks—from ritualistic discipline and protocol training to *** play and psychological dominance. I believe in balance: I take pleasure in pushing limits, but never at the expense of safety or trust.

What I’m Looking For
I seek a genuine, loyal submissive who understands that service is not just an act, but a mindset. I want someone willing to dedicate time and attention to becoming the best version of themselves under my guidance. Obedience, consistency, and communication are non‑negotiable.

Qualities I value in a sub:

A natural desire to please and surrender control

Reliability and honesty

Readiness to learn and grow under training

Emotional maturity and patience

Dynamics I Enjoy
Protocols & rituals (daily check‑ins, tasks, structured rules)

Tease and denial, edging, psychological control

Discipline (spanking, impact play, corrective measures)

Service-oriented submission (domestic service, personal tasks)

Worship (body, feet, clothing, or symbolic objects)

Hard limits: Non-consensual harm, unsafe practices, dishonesty, disobedience.

What You Can Expect From Me
You will receive guidance, structure, and the satisfaction of knowing you belong to someone who values your devotion. In return, you’ll find discipline, challenge, and pleasure in service. I reward obedience and dedication with my attention and care, while failure or disrespect has consequences.

Looking for a loyal sub

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