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So I had a perfect situation going: she was also married in an ENM relationship. Let’s call her “Jen”. Jen wanted a regular, recurring thing and so did I. She was cute af. Out of respect for her, I won’t go into any details, but we went on a couple of dates and played a couple of times, then I had to end it.

Why?

Jen and I were sexually incompatible: It turns out that through this “girlfriend” experiment, I realized that my own sexual identity is around how hot and erotic my relationship with my own wife is.

However, my beautiful, sweet, owned wife and sub’s actions may have ruined vanilla sex for me - at least in a 1:1 setting. When we play together with others, our dynamic is still active even if it’s invisible…

Back to my mini relationship: she wasn’t into BDSM, but she was a natural Dom. She loved to take control and keep it. The power struggle was sort of fun at first, but then it just became sort of…blah.

Of course, I asked my wife for advice since we’re communicating this whole time anyway, and she at least didn’t call me crazy when I said that I would strongly prefer a slightly kinkier relationship, and that I thought I would start to lead with that approach…

So here I am! Looking for someone that feels easy to hang out with, and can be real, and honest, and your *** true self - the Sub who needs to be praised when she’s a good girl, and gets delicious spankings if she’s being a brat.

In return, you’ll get a kind-hearted friend and Dominant play partner. I won’t be your Dom on principal, but I will act JUST like one - based on your boundaries, needs and desires - once a week or so 😈

Don’t be shy😘

Attention to the FET community you have a scam operation going on here with someone pretending to be a couple inviting people to a bdsm party. They are going by several different names but the red flag is when they give you a link to a site called polyamoryconnect.com.
DO NOT SEND THEM ANY ***. This is a scam website with stolen pictures. They will get knocked off fet and come back on here as another couple. You have been warned.

My experience with bdsm is over 1 year now and I Wan-t explorer more with you. My philosophy is have fun more fun play video games and read comics and crazy sex. If my philosophy interests you? Hit me up!

I’m a male in my late twenties, naturally Dominant but with a Switch side, looking to connect with a female partner—ideally a submissive, though I’m also open to Dommes and fellow Switches.

I place a high value on communication, consent, and safety—the foundation for anything meaningful in BDSM. I’m open-minded, accepting, and curious to explore different styles, dynamics, and aspects of kink, from the playful to the intense.

I’m not looking for anything one-sided or superficial; I want something where we can build trust, experiment together, and enjoy the journey as much as the play itself. Whether you’re new and eager to learn, or experienced and wanting to expand your horizons, I’d love to connect and see where things go.

If this resonates with you, drop me a message and let’s start a conversation.

Any wanna meet up and try some different levels of bdsm

Any one for kinky fun! I am into anything vanilla to bdsm. Pan Vers masc presenting. HMU!

Looking for my mistress for teaching and training sessions and help me learn more about the BDSM lifestyle. Should it come to that she could call me?

Looking to meet secure and communicative partners into exploring and expanding their experiences

Seeking a submissive playmate who loves intensity, control, and BDSM.
I’m a Dominant who enjoys mixing roughness with care — rope, edging, spanking, discipline, and pushing limits safely.

I want a woman who gets wet from giving up control, who craves being used, praised, and punished. Whether you’re a brat needing correction, a slut needing direction, or a good girl waiting to be owned — I’ll know how to handle you.

Respect, safety, and aftercare always come first.
If you’re turned on just reading this, message me — your next bruise, orgasm, or command might be waiting. 🖤

Hey everyone, I’m Jordan, and I’m a 22yr old bi sub who’s hoping to find someone, anyone to serve as they wish.

I’m a big fan of BDSM, and , feminisation, slave play and pet play.

If I sound like a sub you’d like to own and use, please let me know.

Hopefully see you soon

Hi new to san diego area. I’m looking for a dominant preferably older man that’s kinky & would love to role play my fantasies out. Also someone who would love to make it a regular thing. I’m very submissive, sexy, young & tight. I hope to hear from you guys.

p.s i also would love to be taught about bdsm & how that works and all that.

I'm fairly eager but a bit inexperienced in actual BDSM. I'm looking to broaden what I know what I like and dislike. Hoping to meet with somebody who can help me discover these things. Submissives and dominants welcome. Let's meet up and you can take me to your place for you to guide me into becoming the best dom or sub I can be

I am a married Man and new to this world. looking to explore the BDSM side of things.

I am Altair, I'm FTM Trans — Dominant and ritual kink practitioner.
I am looking for a partner for ongoing play and exploration.

What I want to share together:

Ritual kink and BDSM sessions (impact, bondage, **, power play) if you practicing magick yourself, even better!

Massage and touch — giving and receiving

Pleasure exchange: I enjoy making my partner dive deep, but I also want to feel desired and used in return

I am not looking for romance right now. Just a reliable partner for play, intensity, and mutual satisfaction.
maybe going to play parties together, they would be more fun for sure 😁

If you are open-minded, brave, and curious, write to me.

looking for a preferably masc dom 18-25 years old to have a bdsm agreement/partnership with.
long term casual (or not casual, we'll see how it goes), but need to get to know each other a bit before anything happens.

Looking for any women/trans for fun in Leeds.Um a Dom looking to teach a slut a lesson.

I can't host so if you can do that that will be great

Check my profile to know my BDSM status

Hey everyone!

So..I’m dipping my toe back into the kink and bdsm scene after a while away, and have heard great things about this app!

Ideally, I’d love to find a pet of my own, to obsess over, to enjoy life with, and create some amazing memories.

Don’t take me being soft as weakness…I’ll still throw you around and hurt you when the situation calls for it. Hopefully..someone out there sees this and reaches out…maybe?

Id love to meet someone that understands me and is willing to help me be me,iv just started going to a bdsm club in bristol and fed up of going alone id love to meet someone who wants to enjoy life and have lots of fun ideally a partner thats will to share everything in life

im new to bdsm. i want to try some things online with somebody before proceeding to anything in person. ill follow directions and any tips you might have. we can exchange pictures if wanted. i would love for some online training

We are new to the lifestyle BDSM we would like to to find friends with benefits we can meet up either at your place and fix dinner together play around as we fix dinner together or we can eat out if need to we don't drink or smoke or do . Then we can get a motel or hotel room to play in and share the room together. We are clean and disease free safe sex Condoms no or alcohol for us.Lena 56 Wife prefers husband check out couples or single females and males for her first because she is shy she reads adult novels like 50 Shades Of Grey and we have watched all of the movies reads all books adult ones over and over. I think if we start with a full *** she will warm up fine. We are clean and disease free safe sex Condoms a must. Husband might be Bi curious. We use safe words everyone should have one. Whatsapp 785 448 7827 or text I uhwill get back to you. We perfer to meet at your place help cook dinner we talk and play if not motel or hotel.

I'm a 28(m) sub. I'm looking for someone to show me the ways of BDSM and someone to have some fun with. Fairly new to this but want to try anything.

October is coming for me a young 24 year old beginner slave / sub girl who was introduced to the world of bdsm as they like to capture an occasion with photos and videos. We are looking for a young girl who is only interested in filming us and maybe joining as a third.
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